Robert J. Lynes

1952 - 2022

Robert J. Lynes obituary, 1952-2022, Wallingford, CT

Robert J. Lynes

1952 - 2022

BORN

1952

DIED

2022

Robert Lynes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 10, 2022.

Robert J. Lynes, 70, loving husband of 40 years to Marilyn (Jacobowitz) Lynes, left us to play in the big baseball game in Heaven on November 8th, 2022.


Along with his dear wife Marilyn, Robert is survived by his three children, John T. Lynes (Steven D’Ambrosio), Thomas Lynes, and Samantha Marzucca (Ryan Marzucca); his three sisters, Evelyn Jones (Paul Jones), Judith Rice and Diane Zimmer; his sister-in-law, Margo Jacobowitz; his niece, Erika Hamway; his nephews, Joseph, Keith and Bryan Jacobowitz; his great nephew, Mason Hamway and great nieces, Everly Hamway and Autumn Jacobowitz. He also leaves his dear friends who he called “My Family Guys”, David Pelletier, Michael Pohl, Peter and John Miller, Robbie DeRosa, and many dear cousins, friends, and his work family.


Robert was predeceased by his loving parents, John and Frances Lynes; his in-laws, Harry and Lois Hamilton; and his brothers-in-law, Paul and Edward Jacobowitz, Robert Zimmer and Richard Rice.


Robert graduated from Orville H. Platt H.S. where he ran track, and later from Middlesex Community College. He worked at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft for 43 years as a Systems Auditor where he made many friends. He was very involved in the Meriden Softball League and coached his team “Classic Builders”, to many championships with “His Boys”. He also coached both of his son’s soccer teams and was an assistant coach for Samantha’s softball team for many years. He was, “The Coach”.


Bobby was a family man. Always being there for his wife, children, sisters, in-laws and friends. He volunteered at his children’s schools, from being a Cub Scout / Boy Scout Troop Leader at Roger Sherman, Troop #43, building sets at Maloney H.S., moving band equipment with “The Pit”, and being at his son’s soccer games, even if he had to leave work early! All of his children’s events made him so extremely proud.


Bobby was an annual volunteer at the Meriden Daffodil Festival where he was part of “The Crew” in which he helped set up and break down the stages for bands. He also previously served on the Vestry and Building Committee of St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Meriden. Bobby did it all.


It brings great peace to our family knowing that he knew how much he was loved by us and by all his family and friends. He was a warrior, a fighter and our hero. He leaves behind countless treasured memories that we will cherish forever! Rest In Peace “Coach”! Job well done!


We would like to thank his doctors who fought right alongside him: Dr. Kahlon, Dr. Rock and Dr. Benson. As well as his special nurse at Dialysis, Celina, and the Fresenius Dialysis Center for all their kindness, professionalism and exceptional care provided to our Bobby.


Bobby’s family will receive relatives and friends at The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. ext., on Sunday, Nov. 13th from 12pm to 3pm. A funeral service will be held in the funeral home at 3pm. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, Bobby would want your support to help keep Hubbard Park a place for future generations to enjoy, like he did. A fund to achieve this task in his memory has been set up and there will be an annual 5K road race. Donations may be sent c/o Marilyn Lynes, 16 Yale Acres Rd., Meriden, CT 06450.


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November 17, 2022

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40 Entries

Maureen Burke Burke

November 17, 2022

So very sorry to hear about Bobby's passing. As an old neighbor, I have nothing but the fondest memories of Bobby, his sisters Diane, Judy, and Vevy, Erika and of course Bobby's mom lovingly referred to as Chick. As I viewed through the tribute video, it became quite apparent that he was always a loving father and husband. My deepest sympathies to Bobby's family.

ROBYN LOGAN

November 13, 2022

So sorry for your loss

Henry Green

November 11, 2022

My condolences and prayers to Bob family for God's comfort and strength during this difficult time. Bob was a great guy and co-worker!

Jerry Green

November 11, 2022

Bob was the best Quality person at Pratt and Whitney. Great auditor and he helped us all in keeping our Quality at its best. Rest In Peace and enjoy your eternal life.

P. Max Mueller

November 11, 2022

Marilyn ... Please accept my most sincere condolences on Bobby's passing. Although I didn't know either one of you outside of the work environment , I am sure glad I knew you there. Every time Bobby and I had a chat at work, mostly because of his unique cryptic, dry humor, we both ended up cracking up and havin' a hearty laugh. He just was that kind of a great person to know. I know the grief now is overwhelming, but you're a tough lady, and you will see.... it will never entirely pass, but down the road, your fond memories will replace the biggest part of it, and then you'll be fine.
P. Max Mueller

Jack Biafore

November 11, 2022

Hi Marilyn. I am so so saddened by Bob´s passing. He was a great guy.
Whenever I think of our softball championship season, he is the one who comes to my mind first. I remember him throwing the scorebook up in the air and running out to the mound to celebrate. Great coach-great friend.
JACK BIAFORE

Nan Despres

November 11, 2022

Marilyn and Family,
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

Denise Sarrazin

November 11, 2022

Judy,
My deepest sympathy to you and the rest of the Lynes family on the passing of your brother. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Whit Gardiner

November 11, 2022

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Bob's passing. He was a great guy and good friend thru the years. Met him at Jefferson Jr. High and have been friends ever since. My sympathy to all of his family and friends. We'll all miss him.

Lucy Navarro

November 10, 2022

John, my sincerest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your father. May the beautiful memories you hold in your hearts be your strength and give you solace in knowing that one day we will all be together again. Love you, Aunt Lucy ❤

Kevin Larson

November 10, 2022

To the Lynes family,
So sorry to hear the news of Bob’s passing. I had the privilege of spending numerous Softball seasons with Bob while our daughters played in the Meriden rec. league.
Wishing your entire family peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Michael RusateRusate

November 10, 2022

Gruff, tough, but always had your back. I saw the real you Bobby as we worked together many years. I’m sure your children are proud of you RIP

Great chats and laughs

Steven D’Ambrosio

November 10, 2022

Steven D’Ambrosio

November 10, 2022

Thank you for being like a second dad to me. From the day I met you, you made me feel welcomed as part of the family. That made me proud to know that you trusted me with your Johnny, which you wouldn’t do for just anyone. I could tell in your own way that you loved and appreciated me and boy did I love you! I always admired how fiercely you loved your family. Yes, it showed in the last few years how hard you fought, but also in the best of health- you would take down anyone who disrespected your wife and your kids! You protected them, and you honored them. You worked so hard for them and everything you did was for them. I loved sitting next to you Christmas morning each year and watching you, watch them, open their gifts. They may not have seen that, but I always did because “my spot” was sitting on the floor to your right. I have many fond memories through the years, including light shows during Christmas, driving around and hearing you and John catch up, enjoying holidays (and food, your primary motivator), the celebrations this year (Stag party, Sam’s Wedding, your birthday, and your 40th anniversary) and going to your spot- Castle Craig this past summer with you and John was very special. Last but not least, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention how absolutely HILARIOUS you were. The one liners and zingers you used to throw out there about others or about a situation going on were just so damn funny. You always cracked me up and your smile or your sly smirk after those zingers, lit up the room. I promise to continue to be here to support John and the Lynes family who you loved so much. Rest In Peace, my buddy.

Alan OBrien

November 10, 2022

My condolences to the family of Bob Lynes. Nothing but fond memories of Bob thru his career at PW and the many softball games we played together a lifetime ago.

Peter Stadolnik

November 10, 2022

My sincerest condolences to Bob's family. I worked with Bob at Pratt & Whitney for many years, starting in North Haven and he was a valued member of his work family. I never knew anyone more dedicated to ensuring that everything was done correctly and well. I will miss the many good times we shared at work and the help he gave us all whenever it was needed.

Pati Vocola Milano

November 10, 2022

Rest In Peace my friend. I will always remember your smile and laughter. What a lucky man to have such a beautiful family and loving friends. That is a wonderful legacy.

Jen Oquendo

November 10, 2022

Mr. Lynes you were the definition of a great person! I pray that you are at peace, warrior! Your children are wonderful and that is thanks to the way you and Mrs. Lynes raised them. Your family means a lot to me and I am grateful to have known you from church and for so long. Love you Mrs. Lynes, John, Tom and Samantha. I am here for you all always.

Debra Belancik

November 10, 2022

May he Rest In Peace

Timothy McHenryMcHenry

November 10, 2022

RIP my friend. We had so much fun during our North Haven days at P&W. I will always remember the good times and will miss you.

Albert Selvaggi

November 10, 2022

He was a great boss and a great friend

Megan Benjamin

November 10, 2022

Fruit

One day they’ll look around and ask
How did it all get here?
Who built that house,
And made it a home-
With the blinding light
Shining from within?
Who built that family,
So full of love
I can feel it
Before I walk over?
Who created a community,
Dreamed of this world
Where everyone was welcome
No matter who they were?

One day we’ll tell them
Oh, that’s Robert’s house,
He made it so we’d all have a place called home.
Oh, that’s Robert’s family,
He showed them, by example, everything love should be.
And that community?
The one where everyone belongs?
That-
That’s Bobby’s legacy.

And it will last forever.

Marcus

November 10, 2022

Very sorry to hear of his passing. Many fond memories at CCP. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Daddy Daughter Dance!

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

My bridal shower!

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

The first look together before my wedding!

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

One of the last times we went to Yankee standout together!

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

I will always be your little girl!

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

Samantha Marzucca (Lynes)

November 10, 2022

Thank you for everything you have always done for me and always being there for me! You were the strongest man I have ever known and you fought so hard to be here for the big moments and I’m grateful for that!

Thank you for being the best Daddy a daughter could ask for and walking me down the aisle at my wedding and dancing with me! I will cherish that day and all the memories we have had together forever! You are my hero!

I will always be your little girl! I love you so very much, more than words can express!

Rhonda Pease

November 10, 2022

Bob was a wonderful work partner at Pratt Whitney. I enjoyed the many hours we worked together. May his family and friends find comfort in knowing he is a peace with our Lord.

Autumn Niman

November 10, 2022

I cannot express how much Bob meant to me. He was a fantastic mentor and just a wonderful person. I learned so very much from my times spent with him. So many great memories and tons of humor. I want to express my deepest sympathies and condolences to his entire family and thank you for sharing him. Heaven gained an angel.

Laura Tarasenko

November 10, 2022

Dear Marylin and children,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can see from knowing his wonderful son John that he was much loved by his family. I know there are no words to make you feel better at this time but I know that our faith tells us that he is not sick anymore! He is at peace with our Lord and you will be reunited one day. All my love and prayers to you all.
Love, Laura Tarasenko (Aunt Laura)

Anne Drake

November 10, 2022

I work for P&W in Pennsylvania and always enjoyed seeing Bob when he came down to our site. It was an honor knowing and working with him! I am so saddened to hear of his passing, my heartfelt condolences to his family.

Celina

November 10, 2022

My heart aches hearing this news. My deepest sympathies and prayers goes out to the family.

Travis MANEELEY

November 10, 2022

Bobby left behind a legacy. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole Lynes family.

John Lynes

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John Lynes

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John Lynes

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John Lynes

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John Lynes

November 10, 2022

Thank you for ALWAYS being there,
For always being YOU,
And for loving us unconditionally.
You are our hero and I love you with all my heart.
Thank you daddy!

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