Sandra RUDDY

Sandra RUDDY obituary

Sandra RUDDY

Sandra RUDDY Obituary

Published by Calgary Herald from Jul. 22 to Jul. 23, 2014.
RUDDY, Sandra Lynn Gouldie BEd, MSc
August 27, 1951 - July 16, 2014
Sandi Ruddy of Black Diamond passed suddenly after a series of health issues over the past few years. She is predeceased by her father Stanley Walter Gouldie and her brother Reginald Earle Gouldie. She is survived by her husband William Joseph Ruddy of 44 years, her children Mark Stanley Ruddy, Jillian Suzanne Ruddy and Michael William Ruddy. She is the beloved Nana of Finley James Ruddy, Shepperd William Ruddy and Paisley Norma Ruddy. She is also survived by her mother H. Norma Gouldie Keller and her sister Marlene Penny Gouldie as well as numerous extended family reaching the UK, Spain and Australia. She was also blessed by a large circle of friends. Sandi was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, daughter and sister. People knew her to be compassionate, generous and supportive with an unconditional love for animals. She had a lot of passions in life including cooking, canning, gardening and entertaining. Sandi was also an outstanding citizen and very dedicated to community endeavours such as sitting on the Boards of Heritage Council (City of Calgary) and Okotoks Arts Council. Within the educational realm, Sandi held her permanent Teaching Certificate (Alberta) and played a role in developing the Adult Literacy Program (Calgary Board of Education). In the field of psychology, Sandi qualified as a Certified Arbitrator, Court Appointed Family Assessor, Court Appointed Amicus Curiae and an Expert Witness - Queen's Bench, Family and Provincial Courts: Alberta, NWT and BC. A Memorial Service will be held at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 20 Banister Gate in Okotoks, Alberta on Thursday, July 24, 2014 at 2:30 p.m. Snodgrass Funeral Home in Okotoks, Alberta can be contacted for more information. In memory of Sandi, donations may be made to the Calgary Humane Society. To email condolences please visit www.snodgrassfuneralhomes.com. Arrangements in care of SNODGRASS FUNERAL HOMES Ltd. Okotoks 403-938-3111.


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Ellyn Harries

April 22, 2025

I cannot believe Sandy has been gone for so many years now! Such a shock! We went to Junior High School together and I remember her taking a family member's wrestling boots to be repaired. We loved taking part in the school plays. My memories of Norma are wonderful. I went to a different high school but met Sandy again at University and was at her wedding to Bill in her Lutheran Church. She helped me several times - once picking me up after having my wisdom teeth out and I was so groggy, she had to stay with me. Our lives then drifted apart but were ironically close. I lived in a penthouse apartment overlooking BayView where I think Sandy once resided. I had a home in Okotoks for five years before I moved to Wales where I continued my education - a Masters and a Phd. Isn't it odd how individuals have such unique memories of one another? I think of the extra years I have been given that Sandy would have cherished. How very lucky she was to have had such a long marriage, three children and then even grandchildren. I can only think of two teenaged girls and then Sandy and me as young adults with their futures far ahead of them. Although it has been years since Sandy passed away, I know her family must keep her in their memories too. My sincerest condolences to them. Ellyn

Dr Linda McLean

June 11, 2021

Wow,!I can’t believe she left life as we know it on earth. My deepest heartfelt condolences to her family as they must feel such a void in the loss of such a remarkable woman.
Sandi and I completed our thesis together at her SE. home. We shared and we cared. I am deeply saddened by what seems to be a premature departure from the loving and giving life she knew.
Dr. Linda M. McLean PhD and she will always carry a special place in my heart.

Jackie Rafter

September 11, 2014

Bill and family - I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Sandi made a huge difference in the lives of her students in her tireless efforts to get them on the right foot academically and professionally. She went the extra mile and opened countless doors for anyone who would ask and was a gift and inspiration to all of those she mentored. I am grateful for the opportunities she gave me – from babysitting Mark and Jill, to reference letters for jobs and universities. Great teachers and mentors like this are extremely rare and she can rest knowing her legacy is living on among the lives of many she touched.

July 30, 2014

Dear Bill and All,
I had no idea that Sandi had been ill. But I did have a vivid dream about Sandi just around the day she died, and we were to have coffee together. So vivid that I actually looked for the "note" as to when and where. And I didn't follow up, because, you see, my brother was in Hospice, and died 4 days later, on the 20th. I am crushed, for you, for your family, for me. Remembering all we did together, with Love.

Linda and John Williams

Merilyn Johnston

July 27, 2014

Bill and family,
My heartfelt sympathy to you all in the loss of your dear Wife and Mother. Thoughts and prayers are offered up at this sad time. (Merilyn Spooner Johnston)

John Lee

July 27, 2014

Bill and family. Was shocked when I heard today of Sandra's passing. Our thoughts are with you.

Bev Spielman

July 26, 2014

Bill and Family, I was so sorry to hear of Sandi's passing. We had some great times together. Take comfort in knowing she is past the pain. My thoughts are with you.

Jean Gardner

July 26, 2014

Bill, I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Sandi's passing. She was a gifted Psychologist and guided me through a very difficult time many years ago. I was so thrilled to have reconnected last summer when the 2 of you were in the lodge in Calgary; and it was so special to me that Sandi and my now deceased mother Genevieve befriended each other and had some lovely conversations; they really connected and Sandi could see the beauty of my mother's personality, I will forever treasure that.

July 26, 2014

To: Norma,Marlene,Bill & Family,
So very sorry to hear about the loss of Sandi last week! Bill we are here for you always!
Sincere Sympathy!
John & Geri Teagle & Family ( Salt Spring Island BC)

Ken & Sharon Schaalje

July 25, 2014

Thinking of the family in this time of sorrow. With Sincere Sympathy.

Ann Baty

July 24, 2014

To Aunt Norma, Marlene, Bill and family,
As first cousin to Sandi, I experienced a lot of firsts with her. - first pizza, first roller skate attempt, first outpost camp to the mountains, first blind date... She was the risk taker, which usually led to some adventure or other. She made family visits fun and she knew how to celebrate special times with food and company. She will always hold a special place in my heart and in the hearts of Elaine and Brian.

Lisa Shackelton

July 24, 2014

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Sandy was a dear friend and mentor to me. She always made me feel welcome and at peace in her presence and such an awesome Mom. I know that she will be greatly missed. Love you Sandy!

Adrienne Rowan (Miller)

July 23, 2014

Very sorry to hear about the loss of Sandi. She made high school English fun for me and my classmates all those years ago at Okotoks High School.

Donna Brown

July 23, 2014

I was so sad to hear of Sandi's passing, my prayers are with you all now and forever. xoxo

Theresa Hustad

July 23, 2014

My deepest sympathy to you and your family, Marlene. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Maaike Seaward

July 23, 2014

It was with sadness I read of Sandi's passing. She helped me through a difficult time in my life. I will always be grateful for her wisdom and guidance. God Bless her family during this very difficult time.

charlene harron

July 23, 2014

Bill & Family
So sorry to hear about Sandy.s passing. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

July 23, 2014

Bill,
Sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Gord and Kathy Thornhill

July 22, 2014

Bill and Family

So sorry to hear of Sandy's passing.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Our sincere condolences

Bud and Lee Elliott

Tony & Sharon Spasoff

July 22, 2014

Bill and family, we are so sorry to hear about Sandy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mavis Conacher (Homeniuk)

July 22, 2014

To the Ruddy & Gouldie family:
I was so saddened to hear of Sandi's passing. May your lives be filled with the many memories of a life well lived and loved, but gone too soon. Our hearts go out to you.

Brenda Mychasiuk

July 22, 2014

Marlene, Bruce and Family,

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

Steve and Brenda Mychasiuk

July 22, 2014

Bill and family,
I was sad to hear of Sandies passing. I remeber her as my friend and neighbor when I lived in Okotoks. Your loss came to soon and my thoughts are with you.
Billie Shepherd

larry fong

July 22, 2014

My thoughts with the family, Sandra was my colleague for many years, and I know she was a loving and dedicated mother and wife, and she loved her practice of psychology

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