Timothy Lee Gunderman

Timothy Lee Gunderman obituary, Bonita Springs, FL

Timothy Lee Gunderman

Timothy Gunderman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 30, 2024.
Bonita Springs - Tim Gunderman, aka Poppa Gundy, Mr. Wonderful, Grandpa Grumpy died on April 28, 2024. Timothy "Tim" Lee Gunderman lived his life larger than most people could ever imagine for 76 years. Born in Waynesburg, PA, Tim lived throughout the Northeast, retired to Bonita Springs, Florida but called Charlotte, NC his home. For 47 years he was married to the love of his life, Kathleen Hessert Gunderman.

In 1970, six weeks after graduating from the University of Dayton, Tim was in Parris Island for Marine Corps basic training. Much of his active then reserve duty was spent as a tank commander, training allies in the use of the M48 Patton tank.

His early professional career began in upstate New York where he was in shopping mall development. His entrepreneurial streak led him and Kathleen from there to SC in 1980 where he launched a company to develop and manage low- and moderate-income housing.

Tim's example taught everyone who met him the essence of "unconditional love" and kindness. But he didn't stop there. Tim firmly believed that giving his time, talent and treasure was just the beginning. As a couple, they intentionally taught their children and others to deliberately act to make a difference in the world, even if only one person at a time. He was a proud Catholic Knight of Malta, making a commitment to spiritual development through personal service and sacrifice. The "order" focuses on caring for the poor and sick. Over his many years serving the communities he loved, he fervently got behind the Missionaries of Charity and the Vietnamese community of Charlotte. Tim served on the board of Holy Angels, a non-profit providing high-quality living and support services to those with intellectual developmental disabilities and delicate medical conditions. Additionally, he was passionate about helping street children in Honduras through the Micah Project, and throughout COVID was incredibly involved with Catholic Charities renovating housing and supporting feeding programs for migrant camps in South Florida. As a result of his endless work with Catholic Charities, Tim was one of four finalists for National Volunteer of the Year. All this, on top of his pride and passion for the work of The Foundation For Tomorrow (TFFT) and its commitment to provide access to education for orphaned and vulnerable children in Tanzania.

Beyond service to others, Tim loved traveling, fishing, diving, smoking cigars and telling long, involved stories that rarely ever got to the point. He never met a stranger and always had a way of captivating the room and making people smile.

He is survived by his wife, Kathleen and two children, Christopher Gunderman and wife, Kassen, and Meghann Sehorn and husband Jason. He had six grandchildren; Finley, Avery, Emery, Everett, Patricia and Sage. He was brother to Bernadette Becker, Mark Gunderman and Mary Williams and a multitude of extended family, including cousins, nieces, nephews, and in-laws who he cherished deeply.

The Family will celebrate his life with a Mass at St. Gabriel Catholic Church in Charlotte, NC on Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 10:00 AM. A reception will follow at Quail Hollow Club. The service will be livestreamed at https://stgabrielchurch.org/livefunerals.

In lieu of flowers, please consider remembering Tim through a contribution to the nonprofit closest to his heart, The Foundation For Tomorrow. Gifts may be made online at www.thefoundationfortomorrow.org/tim-gunderman/, or by mail: The Foundation For Tomorrow, P.O. Box 470836, Charlotte, NC 28247.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28204 (704) 641-7606. Online condolences can be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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April 24, 2025

Rev. Gervas Evodius posted to the memorial.

May 15, 2024

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May 8, 2024

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Rev. Gervas Evodius

April 24, 2025

Jose Perez

May 15, 2024

Thinking back on my time with Tim, my heart swells with emotion. His dedication to helping others, his infectious smile, and his adventurous spirit left an indelible mark on all who knew him. His commitment to making a difference, his ability to bring joy with just a grin, and his love for exploration touched countless lives. Tim wasn't just a friend; he was a beacon of light, a source of laughter, and an embodiment of adventure. The memories we shared are precious, each one a testament to his impact on our lives.

Mary Romero

May 8, 2024

Tim and I joined the Order of Malta together in 2013. I met Kathleen on 1 of our several trips to Lourdes with the Order. My heart is broken. My prayers are with Kathleen and the family. I know that Tim is watching over them from his triumphant place in heaven.
Rest in Peace Tim.

Rudolf and Margaret Seitz

May 6, 2024

Rudolf and Margaret Seitz

May 6, 2024

Rudolf and Margaret Seitz

May 6, 2024

I can't help but smile when I think of the times spent with our dear friend Tim, sitting on the balcony, smoking a good cigar and talking.....
What a great friend we lost. Very seldom you meet someone who leaves such a deep impression on you.
Tim, our good friend was one of them.
His big heart touched everyone, he had a positive impact on those he engaged with-in every corner of the world.
We met forty years ago as neighbors in Charlotte, and soon became very close friends and shared wonderful times over the years. Our friendship remained strong even when we moved to Europe, and we continued to enjoy many good times together!
Tim will be missed and kept in our hearts - always.

Rudolf and Margaret Seitz, Gernsbach, Germany

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Abhijit Bhaduri

May 2, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Mary A D Petrino DM

May 1, 2024

To Kathleen and Family,
Our hearts are heavy with sadness for this news of Tim's passing; but we'll always remember the way "Mr. and Mrs. Wonderful" served so faithfully in Lourdes! Tim and Kathleen, you've given us so many wonderful memories these many years! Please be assured of many prayers for your intentions and for the blessed repose of Tim's immortal soul!

Ursula Hlavacek

May 1, 2024

Tim was one of a kind. There are not enough positive and outstanding adjectives to describe him, but these come immediately to mind: incredibly funny, smart, generous, kind, handsome, a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and friend. He will always be remembered and sorely
missed.

Barbara Townsend

May 1, 2024

Tim was truly an uncommon man! Very proud of how he lived his life! Aunt Barbara

Denise McFadden

May 1, 2024

Tim was a beautiful and caring man. He will be missed.

Nina SG

May 1, 2024

What incredible luck I had to stumble across Mr Wonderful, his fabulous wife, and their daughter's innumerable boxes on our first day at St Andrews. In a world pre-social media, Tim embodied and radiated all that my young mind could ever have imagined an impressive, gregarious American man to be. Such an idea may seem silly but I'm sure it is something Tim did again and again for hundreds, if not thousands, of young people around the world who had the great fortune of meeting him. (Indeed the State Department would have done well to have put the man and his lovable voice on a retainer...)

Tim's kindness, generosity and humour shaped all of us who were lucky enough to count his children - and by extension the whole Hessert-Gunderman clan - as our friends. Few parents know so many of their children's college friends as well as Tim and Kathleen have, and they remain role models to us all.

There are no words for the loss that Papa Gundy leaves in the world; however, I am confident that Meghann, Christopher, Kathleen and the rest of their beautiful family will fill the hole with love, gratitude, and a million and one incredible stories of Tim and all the crazy joy he brought to the world.

Gervas Evodius

April 30, 2024

Just last year in 2023, he and his wife Kathleen hosted me, along with Jolson and Dee, for dinner at a very expensive restaurant during our stay in Florida. It was a memorable experience that I will never forget. He was a wonderful man who loved jokes and people. He and Kathleen hosted us as if they had known us forever, taking us to places and showing us around Florida, giving us gifts, and offering career advice. I remember when I was returning to Tanzania, he gave me a book as a parting gift. Tim, I will never forget you

Jennifer Frank

April 30, 2024

Tim will be greatly missed by many. A great man with a heart of gold. Stories that he told would always make you smile.

Donna M Barnard

April 30, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I heard great things about Tim and Kathy when Bernadette and Gary visited in Florida. They stopped in Ocala for lunch and catch up on news. If Tim was anything like Bernadette then I know that he too was a beautiful man.

M. Janet Caldemeyer

April 30, 2024

I´ve known Kathy since college and there never was a more dynamic person so we knew, when we met Tim, that her pick had to be someone special. His story telling kept us enthralled! I´ve kept touch through this last year and prayed daily for his recovery but now know that Kathy has one of the most incredible guardian angels there ever was!

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