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Paula Marie Higgins age 65 of Bow, passed away on Tuesday October 17th. She was born on October 23rd 1957 in Brooklyn, NY. Daughter of the late Bernice and William Higgins. Paula was a devout mother, wife and friend. Paula grew up in Lowell MA, where she attended the Academy of Notre Dame and Saint Joseph High School. She received her associates degree from Burdett College, in Secretarial Studies. Paula enjoyed her childhood by traveling with her family and spending time with her cousins.

Paula dedicated over 20 years of her life to the Mclean Hospital and Nashua Counseling Center, working as an administrative assistant and climbing the ladder to work in triage. She was known for her dedication and passion to support patients.

Thoughts from Paula's children: Ben- My mom was the smartest person I know, if I ever needed help she was the first person I would go to.

Elizabeth- My mother was the most selfless, kindhearted woman. She was known to be the rock of the family, always having the answers and kind words to solve and problem . Mom was the person everyone went to in times of need, discomfort and struggle. She was always thinking of others and supporting them in any way she could. Mom loved hummingbirds, she always had their sugar water ready, along with the flowers they liked. Her favorite color was red, and loved Downton Abbey. My mom taught me how to be patient, kind and empathetic.

Karen- My step-mother was an incredible woman, she was patient in all the ways that counted. She held my father to account and loved all of us as if we were her own. As a step-mother myself, I often called her for advice and support. I wish I could be more like her in her selfless devotion to our blended family. She was so strong in her values and persistent in her pursuits and I loved her very much.

She is survived by her husband Donald O'Sullivan, children; Sara Luppi, Ben Luppi, Elizabeth O'Sullivan, Paul O'Sullivan, Karen O'Sullivan, Kevin O'Sullivan, son in law; Daniel Ludemann, brother Billy Higgins, sister in law; Sharon Higgins, sister; Christine Strules, grandchildren; Sean O'Sullivan, Liam O'Sullivan, Caroline O'Sullivan, Lucy Ludemann, Olivia Ludemann, Alexander Ludemann.

A celebration of life will be held in the spring.

The Waters Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements.

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Published by Lowell Sun on Oct. 24, 2023.

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Rebecca

February 6, 2024

I was so saddened to hear that Paula had passed! She was so kind and always available to us patients when we needed something. She will be sorely missed. My condolences to all of her family. You were blessed to have her as your relative.

Donna

January 8, 2024

I just found out today about Paula's passing. Though our only interactions were over the phone through her work, this has made me very sad. She always returned my calls quickly, and was sweet and helpful. I think she would have been a good friend, and I'm sure she is greatly missed by all who knew her. Rest easy with the other angels, Paula.

David Dippold

December 7, 2023

I just heard about Paula´s passing.
Im so shocked and saddened to hear this news. I have been a patient of Jane McGrath for over twenty years now and in the last 5 or 10 so years I have talked and emailed Paula many times with medication and refill questions and to re-schedule a missed appointment or ask for a different appointment and Paula was always happy to help me and she even would ask how I was and tell me not to "google" my new meds too much because it would only make my anxiety worse. (She was so right)... I never met Paula but her reassuring voice and warm personality came right through the phone as though I knew her my entire life!
My condolences to her family and friends, loved ones and Jane McGrath and all her work colleagues. She was truly a loving, caring, and beautiful human being and I will miss her voice and voice messages on my phone. RIP Paula.

Christopher Dezurick

December 6, 2023

I never met Paula in person, but I found her to be caring every time we spoke over the phone.
She made sure I had what I needed, the care I got from her was as above and beyond, consistently.
She made calling in about my medication not only a stress/anxiety free process, but a pleasant one. Rest in peace Paula.

- Christopher Dezurick

Julie

November 27, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Kevin finn

November 20, 2023

My name is Kevin finn and I have been a client of the Counseling Center for many years.

There was no one in that time who was more helpful to me when I needed anything, than Paula.

When I heard of Paula´ passing, I was very sad and felt great sympathy for your entire family.

I had never met her but felt I knew her.

My deepest sympathies on your loss.

I will always remember her.

Again, my sympathies to the entire family.

I will not forget her.

Kevin

Patti

November 16, 2023

Paula I knew you in my teens always a nice person see you on the other side Patti Tuohy

Stacey I.

November 15, 2023

Paula was such a sweet soul. She always treated me with such kindness and was so welcoming to me. Heaven has certainly gained an angel. God bless you sweet friend. Stacey I.

Skip Hoyt

October 28, 2023

So sorry Donnie.

Dave MacDonald

October 27, 2023

Donnie. So sorry for your loss. Wish I was there brother

Julie

October 27, 2023

I just heard this heartbreaking news. Paula was so compassionate, smart and caring. She was genuinely kind, kind, kind... Her support and dedication to her patients made navigating the provider process seamless. She was an absolute pleasure to speak with and always took the time to listen like she was a friend. I appreciate everything she has done for me over the years. My deepest sympathy goes out to her husband, children and relatives, Jane McGrath and all of her professional family. xoxo

Barbara Sullivan

October 26, 2023

Chris and Billy so sorry to hear about Paula you all were great neighbors

Jennifer Wright ( Walker )

October 25, 2023

So sorry for your loss Donnie and family ...

Jojo

October 25, 2023

Paula will be missed terribly. I still can't believe this is happening. Hugs to the entire family.

Trevor

October 25, 2023

Our Deepest Sympathies to the Entire Higgins/O'Sullivan Family. Godspeed!
Trevor B. Power
BettyLou Stirrat

paulie

October 25, 2023

Janet and Paul and family will always have Paula in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all.

Donna

October 24, 2023

I am truly heartbroken over the loss of my beautiful cousin. I have so many funny, sweet and loving memories that I will treasure forever. Her fear of balloons, riding bikes in an open field and having the skies open up and getting us drenched, husking corn for the first time (for what seemed like an eternity), trying to make lobsters but we couldn´t find the courage to put them in the water and had to wait until my uncle came home at 9:00 at night for him to do it, getting lost while we hiked up a mountain, getting grounded every time I visited, learning the whole Liza Minnelli album, parties, movies, laughing together,crying together, the list can go on and on. To say I lost a part of my childhood is an understatement. She was one of my favorite people in the whole world. I will miss you always and I will love you forever.

Aunt Margie

October 24, 2023

Paula was everything you´ve all mentioned. She was always thinking if others and her compassion was unrivaled. I feel lucky to have known her and my heart is breaking for you all.
Aunt Margie

Erin Richardson

October 24, 2023

Paula was a sweet, kind lady. I loved chatting with her, learning how she chose to handle different situations. She had a deep love for her family that I admire. May warm memories bring you all comfort as you honor her memory and celebrate the life she led and shared.

The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home

October 24, 2023

Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.

Sam Mahoney

October 24, 2023

My deepest sympathies to the OSullivan Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Emma Jacobson

October 23, 2023

I didn't know Paula except through her work in the field of mental health. I am so pleased I got to know her through the ten years she helped me. I sent her an email letting her know I got married not just because I wanted to change my name in the system but I felt like she would be so pleased for me. The one time we met in person, we hugged and I told her she was the only reason I had kept with the same office for the last ten years despite no insurance and having moved further away. I'm shocked, saddened and hope the family knows that she changed many lives, more than you know. I meant what I said in my review of where she worked:
"The main reason I´ve stayed with Lifestance for the last 10 years is because of Rich Carey but more importantly, his assistant, Paula Higgins. She has made my mental health journey so much smoother than it could have been any where else. I don´t have insurance and drive an hour to get to the office but I still come here because of her"

Paula was one of the good ones that truly cared. She will be deeply missed by her patients.

Patient

October 23, 2023

Paula was the kindest, sweetest woman I never had the chance to meet in person. She truly was dedicated to supporting patients -- she has helped me tremendously and countless times over the years, never failing to pick up the phone and help in times of need. I will miss her kind, genuine, and heartfelt spirit. My condolences go out to her family and loved ones.

Cathy Higgins Flamini

October 23, 2023

Our last words to each other were I love you. September 16th just a short time before your passing. I will be forever grateful for that. What a lovely human you were. Please hug Uncle Billy and Aunt Bernice for me. I love you . My heartfelt condolences to you Donald and the family. Rest in sweetest peace Paula. With love, Cathy Higgins Flamini

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