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Brian Timothy "Tim" Backer

1960 - 2022

Brian Timothy "Tim" Backer obituary, 1960-2022, South Bend, IN

BORN

1960

DIED

2022

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Essling Funeral Home

1117 Indiana Avenue

LaPorte, Indiana

Brian Backer Obituary

Brian Timothy "Tim" Backer passed away at his home in South Bend, Indiana, on May 29, 2022.

Tim was born at Holy Family Hospital, La Porte Indiana, Dec. 28, 1960, the son of Drs. George P. and M. Barbara Backer, and was baptized at St. Peter Catholic Church in La Porte.

He attended the La Porte Community Schools, graduating from La Porte High School in 1979. He was an excellent student and received the National Merit Scholarship as a senior.

Tim attended Wesleyan University in Middletown, Connecticut, for his freshman year. The rest of his formal education was at Indiana University Bloomington, where he graduated with a degree in English in 1986, and Indiana University South Bend, where he received a master's degree in music composition in 1996.

Tim was hampered during his adult life by schizophrenia, but received support from dedicated mental health professionals and his loving family. Despite this handicap, he had a rich life with his interests in music and the arts.

From early childhood he loved music and played multiple instruments including piano, double bass and electric guitar. His music interests were eclectic – classical and medieval music, popular music from the 1960s and 1970s, and then electronic music. He composed music throughout his life, producing CDs and later posted his works on the internet.

He later began painting and surrounded himself in his home with his own and other artists' works. He wrote poetry throughout his life and published a small selection. He was devoted to the study of William Blake's poetry and art. While a student at IUSB he became interested in Chinese music and literature. He was particularly interested in Taoism and found its concepts comforting toward the end of his life.

Tim never married. He was predeceased by his father. He is survived by his mother, and siblings, Linda (David) Sirugo, M.D., of La Porte, Mark Backer, PhD, of San Carlos, California, David (Mary) Backer of Carlsbad, California, and Laura Backer, M.D., of Bellingham, Washington.

Tim was buried in the Backer family plot at Pine Lake Cemetery, La Porte, after a private service officiated by Fr. Gordon Kalil. In lieu of flowers donations may be sent to Indiana University Foundation, IUSB Arts Fund, P.O. Box 7111, South Bend, IN, 46634; or the National Alliance on Mental Illness, 4301 Wilson Blvd., Suite 300, Arlington, VA, 22203; or to the donor's choice.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Frank L. Keszei Funeral Home, Essling Chapel, in La Porte.

To light a virtual candle, share a story of Tim's life or leave a message of comfort for the family, please visit www.Essling FuneralHome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by La Porte County Herald-Dispatch on Jun. 6, 2022.

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Sue Mladick Duerr

June 8, 2022

Time was one of my first friends. I always think of him in this picture from my 5th birthday party in 1966.
He was one of the sweetest, gentlest souls I have ever known.

Michael Dan

June 6, 2022

I was truly saddened to hear of Tim's passing and I offer my deepest condolences to his family and friends. Although Tim and I had drifted apart these past several decades I still considered him my dearest childhood friend and I treasure those memories as well as the kindness and hospitality that his family offered me so many years ago. I pray that he now knows our Lord's peace and rests in green pastures beside still waters.

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