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Ethan Townsend Obituary

Ethan Townsend
April 5, 1985-Sept. 4, 2009

Ethan Townsend, beloved son, brother, nephew, grandson and friend, died tragically in Southwest China when he and his traveling companion were hit by a rockslide. He was 24 years old. Ethan was born at Stanford University Hospital to Hal and Mary (Meadows) Townsend on April 5, 1985. His family relocated to Ashland in 1990, just in time for Ethan to begin Kindergarten at Walker Elementary School. He then attended Ashland Middle School and graduated from Ashland High School in 2003. Ethan played soccer and the cello. He participated on the math and science bowl teams. He approached every day as as an opportunity to learn something he didn't know before.
Ethan attended Stanford University and graduated in four years with a masters degree in mechanical engineering and a bachelors degree in physics. At the time of his death, Ethan was working toward a PhD in Physics at Colorado University at Boulder. Specifically, his lab was studying Atomic and Molecular Optics, he worked with lasers and liquid nitrogen and he enjoyed himself.
Ethan loved competition, and in his own words, "I love competition, not in order to compete against one another, but in order to bring a team closer together. Nothing is as exciting to me as a good plan executed successfully by a group of people with mutual trust." He also loved building things and tinkering. He usually applied the "learn by doing" method to his projects. Most recently he was installing an onboard computer and night vision into his car. The end result was never as important as the process of discovery and learning.
The spirit of adventure and exploration was a major driving force in his life and he always seemed to find like minded friends to accompany him on his journeys. He believed that the world was full of opportunities and he tried very hard to take advantage of every one of them.
Ethan was brilliant, yet humble. Compassionate, caring and fun. Loved by his friends and adored by his family, he was a bright light whose energy will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
In addition to his mother and father, Ethan is survived by his sister, Hannah; maternal grandparents, Ruth and Lee Meadows, Santa Barbara, Calif.; paternal grandmother, Charlene Townsend, Ashland , Ore.; and a large closeknit family full of loving aunts; uncles; and cousins, far too many to list.
There will be a memorial celebration in Ethan's honor September 20th at 2:00 p.m. in the Ashland Middle School Gymnasium. There will be a reception at the middle school immediately following the memorial.
There have been two endowments set up in Ethan's name: At CU Boulder: The physics department has set up a graduate scholarship in honor of Ethan Townsend and Jing Yin, awarded annually to a grad student for excellence in research, outreach, service and mentoring. In Ashland: The Ashland Schools Foundation is establishing an endowment in Ethan's name to support students mentoring students.
Published by Mail Tribune on Sep. 18, 2009.

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Watha Dubonnet

September 28, 2009

To the Townsend Family,
I am so sorry hear of your loss. Do take care.

Vanessa Houk

September 28, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Ethan's death.
"The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief -
But the pain of grief
Is only a shadow
When compared with the pain
Of never risking love."
(Hilary Stanton Zunin)
Our thoughts are with you. Your community grieves with you.

Dean Autry & Lyn Hayden

September 26, 2009

Dr. Townsend and family,
Dean and I are so sorry for your loss, you have taken such good care of Dean during and after his surgery, we had no idea you lost your son when they rescheduled Deans appt. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cody Sadler

September 24, 2009

I have known Ethan for many years, from the soccer fields to the classroom, and have always greatly respected his intelligence and kindness. He truly was a special person, and I will always admire the life he lived. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Florence Olszewski

September 22, 2009

Though I didn't know Ethan, I went to school with his father Hal. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Ethan truly was a brilliant young man who had much, yet, to add to this world.

Jeremy Thompson

September 21, 2009

Ethan was by far the smartest guy I knew, and one of the most friendly to boot. In school I remember him as always being so genuine in everything he did and said. It stuns me that one of our best can be gone so soon.

Kara Greene

September 20, 2009

I am so sorry to hear for your tragic loss. I want you to know that your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Your family is truly amazing and I am fortunate that I had the opportunity to meet Ethan. His bright smile brought joy to so many peoples lives.

Gayle Wilson

September 19, 2009

Dear Scooter and Mary,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. It's every parent's nightmare. He had so much to give and it's all been cut so tragically short. Scooter, you've always spoken so highly of your family and have been so proud of your children. You gave Ethan the greatest gift parents can give - your son knew he was loved, truly and deeply. Yours and Mary's love will help your daughter deal with all of this...this must be so hard for her too. My heart is weeping for you at this difficult time. Many blessings to your family and all of Ethan's friends who are hit so hard by this. I won't be able to be at the celebration of his life on Sunday but my thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Athena Lawrence

September 19, 2009

He is a part of all he has met. He will always be with us and missed greatly.

With love,
Athena Lawrence

Darlene Taylor

September 19, 2009

We are so sorry to learn of the passing of Ethan. He was a special young man with so many talents and high intelligence. There is a saying that the brightest stars burn out the fastest - Ethan is shining brightly in Heaven. Our heartfelt condolences to you.

Michelle Koppel

September 18, 2009

Alhtough I didn't know Ethan personally, my daughter attended Ashland High School at the time Ethan received his SAT scores. The whole school was ablaze that Ethan had scored 800's on his SAT's. My daughter tells me he was friendly and well liked. I just remember all of us amazed at his SAT scores. Dr Townsend (Ethan's dad) treated my son's broken arm. It was clear that he loved children. I am sure that Ethan was adored by his family. I just wanted to share my small tidbit of remembrance.

Linda Beer

September 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Ethan was a sweet kid and he will be dearly missed. Hold the precious memories of him tight. They will help you get through this time.

dannielle trotter

September 18, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear about your son.

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