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Alex was gifted in software design and web development and worked for many years in the tech industry, most recently with Loftware, Inc. He graduated from Brookfield East High School and received his Associate's degree from Waukesha County Technical College. In his personal time, he enjoyed snowboarding, golfing, frisbee golfing, and riding his electric bike. He loved spending time with family and friends outdoors and regularly took trips with friends to northern Wisconsin and the Upper Peninsula. He also enjoyed playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends and was creating a new software to optimize the D&D player experience. He was fond of cats and was known for his kindness and generosity to friends and family.
A celebration of Alex's Life will take on Saturday, June 21 at St. Dominic Catholic Church, 18255 W. Capitol Drive from 10:00 AM until the time of mass at 12:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, a memorial maybe given in memory of Alex to the The Village Artisans: Please make check payable to Village Artisans, PO Box 81, Garden, MI 49835.
http://www.villageartisansofgarden.org/.SAFE Project: https://www.safeproject.us/.
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Laura
July 6, 2025
Lisa, Janet, and Curt - my heart breaks for you. I´m so sorry for the loss of Alex, who will forever be a sweet, kind teenage boy in my memory. Love, Laura (Musselman) Duffy
Abbie Evans (Wahlen)
June 24, 2025
I'm sorry to hear the loss of Alex. We went to school together (BEHS) may he rest in peace
Uncle Ross and Aunt Cathy Lillie
June 23, 2025
Years ago, when Alex was a little boy, I used to stay with Curt and Janet during my business trips. Alex and I were good pals. When I started leaving in the morning after breakfast to visit clients, he tried to delay my departure by hanging tenaciously onto my legs, to which I gave him the name "Clingon" after characters in Star Trek. When he was in grade school, he became enamored with shrimp to such a level that he would lodge two of the crustaceans in his nostrils in honor of their deliciousness; we're still looking for a photograph we took of him and the shrimp. Alex was a kind and generous man who loved his family and friends. We miss him deeply. Uncle Ross and Aunt Cathy
Lkhamsuren
June 21, 2025
We are deeply saddened by Alex´s passing. Though I couldn´t be there in person, my heart has been with the family every step of the way. Alex was a kind soul with a quiet strength, and he will be missed more than words can express. My husband and our boys were honored to attend and say goodbye. Sending love and prayers to Janet, Curt, Lillie, and everyone who loved him. May Alex rest in peace.
With sympathy,
Lhamaa Latz
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Katherine Sorce
June 20, 2025
So sorry for the entire Lillie family
Matt S
June 19, 2025
Giving thanks for the life of Alex and those he touched. Continuing to keep the Lillie family in prayer.
Nicole Collier
June 18, 2025
Deareet Alex, words cannot express how much I miss you. I am so sad that you are not with us anymore. You have been one of my best friends for 21 years now. I cannot even grasp how life will be so different without you here. I miss you, and I hope you are at peace. Until we meet again.
Corinne Whiting
June 16, 2025
Dear Alex you will be missed by us all.
Please give my son Garrett a big hug from me.
Corinne
Betsy and Peter Ryan
June 15, 2025
It was our great privilege to know Alex and watch him grow into a kind, gentle, and generous young man. The memories of all the joyful times that we shared with him will be carried in our hearts until we meet again.
Our deepest sympathies go out to all of Alex's loved ones and his immediate family Kurt and Janet, Lisa and Dan...you are all in our thoughts and prayers in this time of immense grief.
Stephanie Wood
June 14, 2025
Dearest Alex, I may not of known you personally, but I heard a lot of great things about you from your aunt Mary. If Mary said it, then I believe it. May you rest in peace. Be assured your hurting and tears are no more. God has you now buddy.
-Stephanie W. (Mary's friend)
Jenny
June 13, 2025
I love you Alex. I'll see you when my time comes and I join you in heaven. Until then, you will be missed. My Heart aches.
Love always, cousin Jenny
Terri Latz-Peter
June 13, 2025
Easter was awesome .. I will always remember that day with you. We are going to miss you so much but we will all be together again. Tell Aunt Joanie I love her, and give grandma a hug for me. I can picture you all smiling, all at peace. Can´t wait to see you all again. My dad and grandpa too love you Alex. Rest
Mary Pfeifer
June 13, 2025
Love you, kid. It's going to be alright. I will never forget you. See you again someday with all the other saints and family in Heaven. You were a joy to know. I'm still proud of you and will love you forever. Missing you!
Love you always and forever, Aunt Mary
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