Betony Zelonis-Gecek

Betony Zelonis-Gecek obituary, Parlin, NJ

Betony Zelonis-Gecek

Betony Zelonis-Gecek Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home on Nov. 18, 2025.

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Betony Zelonis-Gecek ObituaryBetony Zelonis-Gecek, passed away peacefully on October 23, 2025, at home surrounded by her family. Betony possessed a ferocious spirit and a heart overflowing with love. Her family & dogs were the center of her world. Her legacy lives on through the love she shared, the lives she touched, and the cherished memories she leaves behind with her family and friends.
Betony is survived by her beloved husband of 23 years Thomas Gecek Jr. & their loving daughter Mericle D Gecekl her mother Debra Gliddon; her sister Mary Gliddon and brother Michael Gliddon; her sister-in-law Kelly D'Amore and husband Nick; her in-laws Tom and Carol Gecek; her brother-in-law Jeffrey Gecek,; as well as numerous nieces, nephews and a legion of lifelong friends. She will truly be missed by all who knew her.
Calling hours will take place on Wednesday from 4pm to 7pm with services scheduled for 5:30pm at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin.
For complete funeral details, directions, or to leave a message of condolence for Betony's family, please visit www.spezzifuneralhome.com.
Betony Zelonis-Gecek, passed away peacefully on October 23, 2025, at home surrounded by her family. Betony possessed a ferocious spirit and a heart overflowing with love. Her family & dogs were the center of her world. Her legacy lives on through the love she shared, the lives she touched, and the cherished memories she leaves behind with h

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