Bruce W. VanEtten

Bruce W. VanEtten obituary

Bruce W. VanEtten

Bruce VanEtten Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc. - Whitesboro on Jul. 13, 2025.

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Bruce VanEtten, lifelong resident of Whitesboro, passed away on July 12, 2025.

He was born on November 9, 1950, the son of Edward and Barbara (Coggins) VanEtten. He attended Whitesboro Central Schools. He began his career as a teenager at the Flagg Street Ice Skating Rink, was a member of the Whitesboro Fire Department for many years, and retired as a Foreman after 35 years with the Village of Whitesboro Highway Dept., retiring in 2006.

He will always be remembered for his sense of humor, his silliness, and never holding back an opinion. He was blessed with the gift of gab and quick wit. He had an outgoing personality and was able to strike up a conversation with a complete stranger and walk away with a new friend. He had a lifelong love of fishing, hunting, and camping at the St. Lawrence River, that he passed on to his sons and grandchildren. He enjoyed many motorcycle trips with the guys, and especially his Thursday morning breakfast's with his close friends at the diner. One of his favorite pastimes was sitting on the porch with his friends and his dog Buddy, whom he loved dearly.

Bruce is survived by his wife, Lauri; his children, Jason, Jami, and Justin (Jessica); grandchildren, Lilli, Luke, and Jakob VanEtten and Zachery and Erik (Michelle) Harris; his brother, Ronald; and sister, Suzanne. He was predeceased by his brother, Brian.

Bruce's family would like to express their sincere thanks to the nursing staff at Rome Health ICU and Respiratory Care team for their compassionate and exceptional care.

His funeral mass will be celebrated on Saturday, July 19th, at 11:30 a.m. at St. Paul's Church, 16 Park Ave., Whitesboro. Arrangements are in care of Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

Memorial tributes and messages of sympathy may be left at www.dimblebyfh.com.

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STEPHANIE D SCHELL

July 14, 2025

Left a lasting impression on people.

Deb and Doug Rondeau

July 14, 2025

We have been friends for well over 50 years. Laurie and family, our hearts are broken. Condolences to all. Bruce may you Rest In Peace. Heaven will never be the same, especially when you meet up with Doc Kinville. Hope they have plenty of Fire Ball up there! Love to all....

Ron Murray

July 14, 2025

Bruce and I shared a childhood growing up on upper Main Street. We did not have a great deal of money but we could usually find a pick up game of hockey' baseball or basketball, Across the tracks there was a wonderland where you could hunt and fish. We will miss Bruce.

Kurt

July 14, 2025

To Bruces family sorry for your loss spoke to Bruce awhile ago always good memories great times especially growing up as kids with the main street gang will surely be missed again Laurie and family so sorry for your loss

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