Carol Tomasi

Carol Tomasi obituary, Hawthorne, NJ

Carol Tomasi

Carol Tomasi Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Vander Plaat Funeral Home - Wyckoff on Feb. 7, 2026.
Tomasi, Carol Ann (née Koningswood), age 82, of Hawthorne, NJ, passed away on Friday, February 6, 2026.

Born in Paterson and raised in Wyckoff before settling in Hawthorne, Carol graduated from Hawthorne High School and continued her education at Rider College. Carol met the love of her life at a dance, and the two married on March 25, 1967. After a short stay in Fair Lawn, they moved to Hawthorne, where she lived for the remainder of her life.

Carol worked for many years as a Social Worker for the Passaic County Board of Social Services. She was a devoted member of West Side Presbyterian Church in Ridgewood, NJ, where she served as a Deacon. Deeply involved in her community, Carol also served as PTO President for many years and was active in Scouting as a Den Mother and Committee Chairperson.

Carol was the beloved wife of the late Peter George Tomasi. She was the loving mother of Peter George Tomasi III of Hawthorne and John Stephen Tomasi and his wife, Jessica (née Wittner) Tomasi, of North Haledon. She was the cherished grandmother of Evan John Tomasi, Lorelai Grace Tomasi, and Cassidy Emmanuelle Tomasi. Carol was the daughter of the late John Koningswood and the late Edna Koningswood (née Freeman), and the dear sister of John (Jack) Koningswood and his wife, Rita Pinelli.

She is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and extended family. Friends may visit with the family at the Vander Plaat Funeral Home, 257 Godwin Avenue, Wyckoff (www.vpfh.com), on Thursday, February 12, 2026, from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. A funeral service will be held on Friday, February 13, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at West Side Presbyterian Church, 6 S. Monroe Street, Ridgewood. The service will also be available via livestream at https://westside.org/livestream/ for those wishing to attend virtually. Interment will follow at Laurel Grove Cemetery at 295 Totowa Avenue in Totowa, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society. (https://donate.nationalmssociety.org/campaigns/ctomasi)

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February 11, 2026

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February 10, 2026

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The F.R.Bernat Family

February 11, 2026

Our condolences and prayers to Carol Tomasi´s Family. She was a sweetheart and kind person, to be friends with. And will be always remembered
The F.R. Bernat Family

Dina Roughgarden

February 10, 2026

I will miss you so much, Mom T. You were so special to us, you treated me like a daughter and I will always remember all our times spent happy and laughing. Lindsey misses you very much, and she said she will take care of Uncle Peter so he is not alone.

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