David J. Pilgrim

David J. Pilgrim obituary, St. Paul, MN

David J. Pilgrim

David Pilgrim Obituary

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David J. Pilgrim
Age 77 of Lauderdale, MN
Passed away unexpectedly on November 1, 2023 after going into cardiac arrest. David spent his entire career at Children's Home Society of Minnesota, starting out as a social worker moving his way to Vice President of Adoption and Family Services. Outside of work, David was a busy body who could never sit still and with all that energy, he filled his time with many hobbies. He was an outdoorsman who loved to garden, spend time at the cabin, and fish with his granddaughters. He was a handyman who loved to build and refinish things. He loved motors, whether it be driving around his little blue convertible, being Captain of the pontoon, or his love of motorcycles evolving into his love of four-wheelers. He had a soft spot for dogs. David still found the time to be socially engaged and give back to many organizations. During his retirement, he would spend winters in Mexico with his wife, Sandy.
David is preceded in death by parents, Walter and Theresa; brother, Walter; and sister-in-law, Jeannette.
He is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Sandy; children, Ben (Becky), Maleah (Phroah), Andy (Will); granddaughters, Amelia, Lucy, Sadie, and Alivia; sisters, Dorean, JoAnn (Tom), and Paula (Tom); brother-in-law, Marty; and faithful canine companion, Buttons.
Memorial Service 11am Friday, November 10th, at St. Luke Lutheran Church, 1807 Field Ave., St. Paul, with visitation beginning one hour prior. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to Children's Home Society of Minnesota https://donate.chlss.org/page/31333/donate/1, Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Services https://secured.lirs.org/page/52920/donate/1, and World Central Kitchen https://wck.org/donate.
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November 11, 2023

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November 9, 2023

Rich & Jen Benson planted trees.

November 8, 2023

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Dawn Wolfram

November 11, 2023

To the Pilgrim family. I have always had fond memories of David. His love for his life, career and family. Oh and from scratch mashed potatoes.
On behalf of myself and Joshua we send our condolences and prayers for you all.
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Peter Lee

November 8, 2023

Dear Ben, my condolences to you and your family. May the loving memories of your father and the support of your families and friends get you through this difficult time. Best wishes to you all.

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Maria Santibanez

November 6, 2023

Dear Ben and family, my sincere condolences for all of you. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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