Douglas Michael Bennett

Douglas Michael Bennett obituary

Douglas Michael Bennett

Douglas Bennett Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Jefferson Funeral Chapel - Alexandria on Aug. 12, 2025.

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It is with deep sorrow that we announce the sudden passing of Douglas M. Bennett, 61, on August 4, 2025, at his home in Alexandria, VA. He was the beloved son of the late Robertson and Louise (Bitterman) Bennett. Doug leaves behind his cherished wife, Diane, and their two children, Daniel and Rochelle. He is also survived by his brother Bob Bennett and wife, Pat, of Ridgefield, CT; his sister Leslie Bennett and her significant other, Tom, of Murray, UT; and his brother Bruce Bennett and wife, Kathy, of Washington Depot, CT. Doug also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews. Doug grew up near the ocean in the coastal Long Island town of Massapequa, NY, where he developed a life long love for the water-swimming, boating, and surfing. His passion for the ocean led him to the U.S. Merchant Marine Academy, following in the footsteps of his father and two older brothers. Upon graduation, Doug was commissioned an Ensign in the U.S. Naval Reserves. He immediately reported for Active Duty serving as Salvage O cer and then Diving O cer aboard the USS Kittiwake. His commitment to service extended beyond active duty, as he continued to serve in the Naval Reserves, rising to the rank of Commander. It was during his active duty service that Doug met his future wife, Diane Cote. After earning dual master's degrees in economics and business from Boston University, Doug began a successful career in finance. He most recently served as Auditor General for the U.S. Air Force and was a member of the Senior Executive Service. He simultaneously taught accounting part-time as an adjunct professor at NOVA Community College. Doug was a devoted husband to Diane for over 35 years and an adoring father to their two children. He found joy in the simple moments; taking Ro to the community pool and enjoying long walks with Danny to discuss everything from current events to life's little wonders. Doug found peace and fulfillment in nature, tending to his herb garden, working in the yard, and exploring local parks. Doug's quick wit and humble spirit touched everyone he met. His genuine kindness, humor, and warmth left a lasting imprint on the hearts of all who knew him. We will forever cherish the memories of his laughter, his stories and jokes, and his unwavering love for his family. Doug will be profoundly missed, but his spirit will remain with us forever. Relatives and friends will be received at Faith Church, Kingstown, 5725 Castlewellan Drive, Alexandria, VA 22315, 10:30 AM – 11:30 AM, followed by a reception. Interment will follow at Quantico, National Cemetery, Triangle, VA 22172, 2:30 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Koinonia Cares (a local food pantry and clothes closet) via [http://www.koinoniacares.org] or that you consider planting a tree through the Arbor Day Foundation at [www.arborday.org] in his memory.

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September 13, 2025

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Christy Nolta

September 13, 2025

My thoughts and deepest sympathies to Doug´s family on their (and our) profound loss. I had the privilege to work with Doug in the SAF and found him to be a consummate pro and just a really great guy. He made our organizations better and helped me improve too. We also shared many lunches at the EDR where he always shared a great story and could make me laugh - A real stress reliever in the middle of the day! I offer my prayers to his family. We will miss him.

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Jamie Morin

August 20, 2025

Deepest condolences to the Bennett family. Doug was a tremendous support to me personally and a truly dedicated public servant. He will be greatly missed!

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August 19, 2025

May God bless Doug and his family and may he rest in peace. I´d like to thank Doug for his many years of service to the Air Force and his kindness to me over many years in the Pentagon. He was a very decent man no matter how stressful the situation seemed. He was always kind and measured. All the best to his friends and family. Respectfully, Peter Bonanno.

greg thornton

August 18, 2025

Doug and I were friends from Kings Point. We were sea partners on a ITB tanker that would sail between Staten Island and St Croix. We were young and anticipating adventure of the sea going life on A big ship. We would hang out and listen to Doug's collection of Reggae music while worked on our sea projects. It was a great time to spread our wings and learn the hard work behind the glamorous sea going life. I always enjoyed Doug's company. When we were in port we would walk around to see the sites to make it a true adventure. His calm demeanor and positive personality made life fun in our stateroom on the ship. Flash forward 30 years after graduation Doug and I reconnected and I was able to catch some time with Doug Diane and Danny and Rochelle. I felt extremely privileged to be able to swap sea stories. I caught the tale of Doug's hilarious rebellious nature on a visit to Kings Point just prior to our indoctrination into the class of 86 where be basically decided that Surfing on Long Island was going to be his life's avocation rather than 4 years at Kings Point and a commission in the Navy. It was quite a different smart and funny young man that I got to know at KP. We would exchange emails and phone calls about work world events and everything under the sun in the ensuing years. We will miss your off beat humor and genuine good nature. Rest Easy Doug we have the watch.

Benjamin Yarish

August 18, 2025

My deepest condolences to the Bennett family. Mr Bennett was wonderful, always putting people first while continuing to focus on the mission. Thoughts and prayers - Ben

Lisa Disbrow

August 15, 2025

Doug was an amazing partner in SaF/FM! He made everyone around him better. I´ll always remember him and Danny joking around in my office! Danny always had great interest in my aircraft models. I´ll always remember what a great relationship Doug had with Danny and how he lit up talking about his entire family!

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Tom & Debbie Bresnahan

August 14, 2025

We had the pleasure of meeting up with Douglas. He attended his sisterinlaws 4th of July party as many times as he could. Doug was a good conversationalist as well as an excellent provider for his family. We will miss talking with him at the 4th of July parties.
With deepest sympathies.
The Bresnahans

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Rich Hartley

August 12, 2025

My deepest condolences; I worked w/ Doug in the Air Force for nearly two decades and can say I never had anything less than a positive, productive engagement with him. He served the Air Force very well. I can also say I never had a conversation with him where he didn't make me chuckle or even LOL. He had that sort of lighthearted way about him that made him a pleasure to be around. A friend to many, he'll sure be missed.

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Dawn Kolakoski

August 12, 2025

I'd like to send my condolences to Douglas's family on behalf of all of us at NOVA Online where he has taught for many years. He will be missed.

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Greg

August 11, 2025

I just met Doug about a month ago. He and his son would stop by the house during their daily walk. When he introduced himself he said he had noticed my bumper sticker and felt we had something in common. After discussing current events we discovered we had a lot in common. We both were retired veterans who were really concerned about the direction our beloved country was taking. We discussed what we could do to make a difference. He was a sailor and I am a soldier but for the brief moment I knew Doug we were brothers for the same cause.
Doug was one of the friendliest people you would ever want to meet. I will miss him. I will pray for Doug´s family that they be comforted by God.
Farewell my friend. Your final tour of duty is complete.

Your Neighbor
Greg

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Tom Marsh

August 11, 2025

I am very saddened by this unfortunate news. Doug was a great person and I am so fortunate to have met Doug through our work at NVCC (NOVA). He was so great to hundreds of students and was an incredible instructor. I wish to extend my deepest condolences to his family.

Janet Largaespada

August 11, 2025

My deepest condolences to the Bennett Family. May God bless and comfort you during this painful time. Professor Bennett touched many students' lives. I am grateful I got the chance to know and work with him.

Cathy Berrick

August 11, 2025

Dear Ms. Bennett and Doug's children, I am so very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Doug. He was a wonderful human being, kind and always very helpful. He will truly be missed. May your wonderful memories help sustain you during this difficult time.

Saundra Santana

August 10, 2025

I know there are no words that can take away your grief. All I can say is may God keep you and bless you in this time loss my heart truly goes out to and your family.
Sincerely
Saundra Santana

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