Eugene M. Pepe

Eugene M. Pepe, a beacon of friendliness whose smile was as contagious as his optimism, passed away on February 16, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of warmth and service. Born on December 9, 1941, in the Bronx, Eugene's journey was marked by an unwavering commitment to his family, his country, and the empowerment of those around him.
Eugene's life was a testament to the power of dedication. After earning his Master's degree, he devoted 30 years to the US Army, retiring with the distinguished rank of Lieutenant Colonel. His military career was characterized not only by his leadership but also by the countless lives he touched with his mentorship and kindness. Mirroring his service, Eugene continued to protect and serve in a civilian capacity as a Risk Control Specialist with Aon Security, where his expertise and foresight safeguarded many. Eugene also served as a volunteer fire firefighter and then a Fire Commissioner for the Hartsdale Fire District.
Beyond his professional achievements, Eugene's family was the cornerstone of his life. He was a loving father to his son Eugene and his daughter in-law Teresa. His grandchildren Eugenio, Vincent, and Genesis knew him as a source of boundless love and encouragement, and his "Brother in Arms" Alfredo that was a source of encouragement, flan and scones. Eugene was the cherished son of the late Vincent and Hannah (Clark) Pepe, and he carried their legacy of love and resilience throughout his life. He also reconnected with his sister Linda after many years. He is also survived by long time friend Clare, where they become regulars at the diner.
Eugene's interests reflected his outgoing personality; he was always the first to compliment friends, family, and even a stranger with "You have a great smile". He believed in the power of a simple act of kindness to change someone's day.
As Alzheimer's gradually took its toll, Eugene faced the challenges with grace and dignity. Despite the hardships, he continued to display many moments of warmth, humor, and affection, touching the lives of all who knew him. His unwavering spirit and resilience in the face of adversity inspired many, as he continued to live life to the fullest. He liked going to church, walking, shopping, watching TV, playing games and especially eating out. His daily routine involved the Koehler Center Adult Day Program where he was more a "mayor" than a participant, and never met a cookie he didn't like.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the Waterview Hills staff who provided the most compassionate care to Eugene during those last months of battling Alzheimer's. Though Alzheimer's may have dimmed his memories, Eugene's legacy of love and resilience will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew him. May Eugene rest in peace, finally free from the grasp of this cruel disease, and in the arms of Jesus, who he gave his life to.
Due to the different time of interment, in lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Eugene's name to https://mybrothervinny.org, an organization that assists Veterans.
Friends and family are welcome to attend a visitation on Saturday, February 24th from 11AM-1:30PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. Personal words and eulogies with be shared at 1:30PM. Lt. Colonel Pepe will be interred at Arlington National Cemetery with military honors at a later date.