Gary Stake

1947 - 2025

Gary Stake obituary, 1947-2025, Jacksonville, FL

Gary Stake

1947 - 2025

BORN

1947

DIED

2025

Gary Stake Obituary

Visit the Naugle Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Jacksonville website to view the full obituary.

Gary Wayne Stake, 78, of St Johns, FL, went to be with his Savior Jesus Christ on April

3, 2025, after enduring a long illness.

Gary was born on March 20 th , 1947, in Marengo, IA, to Wayne and Vivian Stake. He

graduated from Iowa Valley High School in 1965 and attended the University of Iowa.

After school, Gary was hired at Rockwell Collins, where he met his wife, Kandi. They

were married for 51 years. He worked there for 18 years and managed a team project

with GPS technology that eventually was used in the Stealth Bomber. In 1991, he

moved with Kandi and their daughter, Natalie, to Florida to open Hearing Aids Today,

which they owned for 12 years. In 1996, he also purchased Tillman's Meat Market.

Upon selling their businesses, he and Kandi moved back to Iowa to run the Stake

family-established motel, The Crest Country Inn in Williamsburg. Gary was a 4 th

generation hotelier on both sides of his family. As a business owner, he was known for

his hospitality, good humor, and attentive customer service.

Gary's life was not about what he did but about his relationship with Jesus Christ. One

day, he was reflecting on his life and remarked, "I'm not proud of my past, but for sure,

the most important decision that I ever made was to accept Jesus as my Lord and

Savior. Getting before God, being honest about my past sins, asking Him to forgive me,

and inviting Him to live within me is my assurance that I will spend eternity with Christ

and those I love who have gone before me, who also have accepted Christ as their Lord

and Savior."

Gary was preceded in death by his father, Wayne Stake; mother, Vivian Stake; brother-

in-law, Ken Berger; sister, Carolyn Berger; and son, Tracy Stake. He is survived by his

wife, Kandi Stake, son Steven Stake, daughter Natalie (Michael) Gassman and

grandchildren, Olivia (Ben) DuPré and Michael (Cole) Gassman II. He is also survived

by many brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law as well as many nieces and nephews.


A visitation, 10 am and service, 11 am to celebrate Gary's life will be held on April 16, 2025, with his church community at Christian Family Chapel in Jacksonville, FL, with a reception following.

An informal gathering, time of sharing, and memorial meal with family and friends will take place in Iowa on May 26th, 2025 from 11am to 2pm at Faith Bible Church in Cedar Rapids, Iowa.

Donations in lieu of flowers can be made to Christian Family Chapel's Readiosity or Missions fund.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Naugle Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Jacksonville

1203 Hendricks Ave., Jacksonville, FL 32207

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