Jeremy Totten Obituary
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Jeremy Allen Totten, who left us on December 7, 2025, at the age of 41. Born on December 29, 1983, in Tennessee, Jeremy lived a life that, although brief, was filled with passion and individuality. He resided in Gastonia, North Carolina, where he was known for his vibrant personality and unique interests.
Jeremy was a man of simple joys and hobbies. He found great happiness in the worlds of video games and anime, dedicating countless hours to these beloved pursuits. An avid skateboarder in his youth, he embraced the thrill of riding and the freedom it brought. His spirit and interests shaped his identity, leaving a lasting impression on those who knew him.
He is survived by his father, James Totten; sister, Amy Williams; aunt, Jean Manning; niece, Brianna Williams; nephew, Jacob Chase; girlfriend, Gracie Davis, best friends, Daryl, Penny, Kevin Millwood.
Jeremy's memory will be cherished by his family and friends, who will remember him for his kindness, warmth, and love for life.
In these times of sadness, let us come together to celebrate Jeremy's spirit and the memories that will forever remain in our hearts. All services are private.
Jeremy was preceded in death by: mother, Kimberly Totten; grandmother, Sarah Wotten; grandfather, Vernard G Manning
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