John Smith

John Smith obituary, Freehold, NJ

John Smith

John Smith Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Higgins Memorial Home - Freehold on Nov. 10, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

John Smith, 74 of Freehold Township, born in Newark New Jersey, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family. John moved to Freehold at the age of 7. Born with the last name Smith, the Gray family of Freehold, NJ opened their home to him and raised him as their own at the age of 11. Some may know him as big bad John Smith, but we just know him as Dad. John was a man whose large heart led him on multiple journeys in life and in careers, but the most important journey to him was fatherhood and grandfatherhood.
John was a man of his word, and who's voice could be heard a mile away. His life was filled with adventures and stories that could fill books, leaving us always wanting to hear more. John could always be found cheering his children on in the top corner of the stands at games, sitting on Riddle Way beach in Manasquan making memories, watching his grandchildren or on the weekend with his brother-in-law Timmy in Atlantic City. John never missed an opportunity to spend time with the family he created and proved his dedication as he lovingly cared for his wife, Juelann through a long cancer battle.
He was predeceased by his loving wife of 42 years Juelann, his mother and father Doris T. and William H. Gray, brothers James Smith, Herbie Gray, Lonnie Gray, and sister Jeanne Gray. Surviving are his sister Karen Petrucci, brothers Kevin Gray, Mark (Maria) Gray, John Gray, and Timothy Gray, six children, John (Heather) Smith of Freehold, James (Marisa) Smith of Boonton Township, Todd (Lauren Hanna) Smith of Little Egg Harbor, Kyle (Katelyn) Smith of Freehold, Kayla Smith of Freehold, Jaclyn (Vito) Cannavo of Asbury Park; 9 grandchildren: Alex, Carter, Drew, Kenzie, Brynn, Madelyn, Mara, Reilly, Graycen; loving nephew Ryan Gray, his in-laws the Fisher family, his beloved friends the O'Connors, nieces Gina Patterson and Jan Pilla, along with many other nieces, nephews and loved ones he held dear.
Services will not be held per his wishes, join us by having a drink and celebrating John reuniting with the love of his life.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign John Smith's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

1 Entry

Leslie Lykes

Yesterday

I´ll always remember "Big John" as a brother as he did live with my family when his first child, "Little John" was born. I´m sure there would be a chapter of the Lykes family in that book he didn´t get a chance to write. Rest in Peace, John. My prayers and sympathy are in my heart for your family. You will be missed.
Sincerely, Leslie Lykes

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Higgins Memorial Home - Freehold

20 Center Street, Freehold, NJ 07728

Make a Donation
in John Smith's name

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Smith's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign John Smith's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?