Marjory Tomaselli

Marjory Tomaselli obituary, Paramus, NJ

Marjory Tomaselli

Marjory Tomaselli Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Vander Plaat Memorial Home on Jan. 7, 2026.
Tomaselli, Marjory D. (nee Reiff)
DOB - September 25, 1939
The only daughter of the late Karl and Elizabeth Reiff
Survived by sons Mark and Gary Tomaselli, both of Paramus also by cousins in Canada, England and Scotland. Also "Granny" to an extended family.
Member of Christ Lutheran Church, Altar Guild, member of Council, past assistant leader of the Youth Group, past member of the Ushers and Kitchen Duty as " one of the cooks".
Member of the Paramus Scholarship Show for 30 years. Member of Paramus Recreation Women's Softball League. Also volunteer at Paramus food Pantry.
Before retiring, she worked for the city of Hackensack in the Finance Department. Prior to that she worked for the Paramus police Department as Secretary in the Juvenile Bureau. Prior to that she worked for Hackensack Mutual S&L Polifly, as a Customer Service Rep.
Family will receive friends on Thursday January 8, 2026 from 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm at the Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 113 South Farview Avenue, Paramus, NJ. A church service will be held Monday January 12, 2026 at 12:00 pm. Christ Lutheran Church, 357 W. Farview Ave, Paramus, NJ.
Memorial contributions in Marjory memory can be made to St. Jude’s, 501 St. Jude’s Pl. Memphis, TN 38105

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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113 South Farview Avenue, Paramus, NJ 07652

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