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Rich Wayland
August 17, 2025
I met this guy Mickey when we auditioned for Connie Smith in the early 80's. We got the gig and soon became good friends, room mates and brothers from another mother. He was not just an incredible drummer but a state of the art percussionist. He could play the hell out of a pizza box, brake drum or cantaloupe...you name it. Plus you got this kind and sweet soul of a person who could always find something joyful and humorous in any situation. So here's to "Big Mick Tahoe" (an alter ego) you are dearly missed!
Robin Church
August 17, 2025
Such a sad shock to learn Mickey passed away! He was one of the sweetest, kindest, funniest and most gentle persons I have ever had the pleasure of knowing, yet could turn into an absolute hurricane behind his kit-a level 5 hurricane! In June 2007 I had the huge pleasure of witnessing him perform with Over the Rhine in New Harmony-truly a magical and unforgettable evening. And that´s what Mickey was-unforgettable in every way. It was always such a joy to run into him at different events in New Harmony and get a special Mickey greeting! How blessed all of us are who got to have Mickey in our life. Wonder how long he can drum roll in heaven? Surely a universal record. My deepest condolences to his wife Molly, son Grafton, family and his thousands of friends and fans.
Jan and Bill Thuerbach
August 17, 2025
So sorry, Sandy , to read this. I've followed Mickey's career over the years. He was very talented and much loved by his many followers. our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steven Dicks
August 17, 2025
I, and the other drummers in the photo, were so fortunate to be able to know Mickey and be part of our drum corps in High School. We had a lot of fun, and his talent was amazing. What a great loss. I think I can say this for all us, it was pleasure to know you and you will be missed.
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Luke Brown
August 17, 2025
Mickey was a wonderful soul. I had the pleasure of getting drum lessons from him for years. Remember playing the drums with him in the parades in New harmony. Such a wonderful person.
Jennifer and Rick Reed
August 16, 2025
Oh Mickey.... How you will be missed! I will never forget my first visit to New Harmony. The night time tour was magical and your knowledge and love of the place was amazing. Rick and I will miss your great humor and infectious laughter. Molly and Grafton we love you!
Mike Sizemore
August 15, 2025
I was fortunate to be a member of several bands, with Mickey on the drums, out of Nashville, TN in the 1980's and 90's. He was a serious drummer with a fun-loving personality. In my crowd he's known as "the drummer with 2 different tennis shoes".
I won't subject you to the photo we have of him playing drums with a monkey mask......May his family remember him with a smile on their faces.
Gregg Martin
August 15, 2025
I first met Mickey when we were in All City Band together in 1975 or 1976? We shared the love of playing the drums and we were common in spirit. He was the ultimate professional all the while doing so in a jovial way. I'm so sorry he has left us so soon. My sympathy to Molly, Grafton and all his family.
Richard Queen
August 14, 2025
I met Mickey on Whidbey Island. He was one of the gentlest and kindest people I've ever known. I will add him to my prayers for those who have gone to the other side.
Erica Coomes (Grafton)
August 13, 2025
I always enjoyed the times I had talking with cousin Mickey he was always fun and so easy to talk to about anything!!. I had the pleasure of giving him a few haircuts when in town.. Such a creative, talented beautiful soul, my heart hurts for anyone that knew him it will be felt tremendously!!. So much love prayers and condolences to Molly and Grafton.. drum on forever always..
Curtis Price
August 13, 2025
I sent to this message to my local musician friends on the South End of Whidbey Island:
Some of you may have met Mickey in July 2022 (he was in our Maxwelton parade band that first year) or around the Island playing. You also may have heard Molly sing (she is amazing, and another amazing person). Mickey was a teacher at all times and a kind. wonderful positive person, the kind of professional musician (or human) that spreads love and good with everyone he encounters. So long, Mickey, and thank you.
Cindy Grafton
August 13, 2025
Mickey is one of those people that makes the world a better place. Always so kind and interested in knowing how you are and making you feel so special. I will miss you, Mickey but I know you will be playing those drums in a heavenly band and keeping the rhythm of the entire universe! Sending love to Molly and Grafton and wishing this loss will become more bearable with time. All our Love, Cindy Grafton and family
david locke
August 13, 2025
A drummer who listens! Most rare! RIP Dear friend.
David Locke and Evangivaldo Santana
Doyle Dean
August 13, 2025
Such sad news. I feel so lucky to have known him. Such a positive person. What a joy to drum alongside him one night with the New Harmony Artists Guild band, I'll never forget it. His spirit burned bright and touched countless people. Much love to Molly and Grafton and family. You're missing him the most right now and I wish I could give you all a hug.
Sharon Seitz Lemond
August 13, 2025
Oh Mickey you were always so sweet! Walking the halls of HHS with that smile
and drumsticks in your pocket....will never forget!!
Tonya Johnson
August 13, 2025
I remember Mickey from UofE. He was a kind, funny guy. I remember the time he played King Tut while some of us Sigma Alpha Iota gals were backup dancer to the song "King Tut"! Blessings.
Greg Geiss
August 13, 2025
My thoughts & prayers for family & friends! Mickey always had a smile & humorous insight. His light will always shine!! Yours in ZAX!!
Melanie McCreary
August 13, 2025
I went to high school with Mickey. He played the drums for the concert choir. He was a great guy. He got us backstage a few times at the Grand Ole Opry when he played. He always played the drums shoeless. I´ll never forget that. Prayers are with his family.
Alvin & Francis Mcfadden
August 13, 2025
It was so sad to hear of the passing of Mickey. Such a great guy. Loved the times we were together with he and Molly. It was a joy having this family as a part of our Church. He will be greatly missed.
Alvin and Francis McFadden
Rene´ Richmond Freudenberg
August 13, 2025
I remember Mickey doing junior jollies´s at Harrison high school. He lined up all the drums from the band room and did a solo using all of them and then glow drumsticks. It was really impressive and left a lovely memory.
KEITH G KINNAIRD
August 13, 2025
My condolences to the the family for the loss of someone soooo special. Each one of us carries a special place in our hearts and memories of Mickey and how he made the world a better place. :)
Shannon Garrett Jr
August 13, 2025
We share great memories making music and sharing meaningful experiences back in the day.
David Hampton
August 13, 2025
So very sad to hear this news. Mickey always made us better not only by his incredible talent and musical contributions, but his insights, his simple ability to find joy in the moment, and his capacity to add humor to just about any situation, sometimes intentionally and sometimes just by being himself. Peace and courage to his family and loved ones.
Phil Huestis
August 13, 2025
Sorry for your loss. I met Mickey through my good friend Addison Ellis in the 1990´s. He was so talented yet so humble and genuine. May the peace of the Lord be with his family and his incredible network of friends and fellow musicians.
John Cox, retired Principal French Horn, Oregon Symphony Orchestra
August 13, 2025
My condolences for the loss of another New Harmony boy who made his way in the world as a musician.
WT Davidson
August 12, 2025
For any person who likes nothing better than to laugh and make music, Mickey was just about the best friend you could ever have.
Such a completely unique character, and I mean character. One of the freest spirits I have ever known.
I can't wait to meet again with some of our old friends so we can tell the stories. We'll be able to feel him around us when we do that.
He may have left us, but I find myself smiling just thinking about him. I can't help it.
Stories, we've got.
Thank you Mickey, I love you.
I wouldn't have missed it for anything.
Tricia Walker
August 12, 2025
Sweet Mickey....oh, how much fun it was to travel and play music with you on the road and the Opry with Connie and on my gigs...your light shone so brightly and your joy was contagious RIP, friend....
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