Michael McCarthy
Michael McCarthy
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Michael McCarthy Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Bakersfield Californian.
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Kathleen Valenzuela
May 29, 2024
Over ten years later—I still remember you, Michael. Much love.
Mike McCarthy
January 16, 2014
Your kind words of condolences and support here on the guestbook have helped to strengthen our family during this sad time. It has been a blessing to know that so many people loved Michael and care for us.
Michael accepted Christ into his life at a Promise Keepers convention he attended with his Dad and Grandpa. He walked down stadium stairs by himself and confirmed his love for the Lord.
He was very honest and never stole, cheated on a test or put anyone down to elevate himself. We never heard him gossip or speak ill of anyone and he always put others needs before his.
He loved learning about science, history, art and all the different courses he took in college. College Professors as well high school and elementary teachers spoke with us in person and by cards about what a wonderful student he was.
He had a great curiosity about this world and the best memory I have ever seen. Everyone that knew him were blessed and inspired by his life.
In closing I would like to share a poem that I read at his burial.
PRAYER FOR MY SON
Travel well my son
Free from the burdens of this world
And rest
In the loving arms of Jesus
January 16, 2014
We are very grateful to everyone who posted here or contacted us in other ways offering condolences and support. This has been a very sad time for us but your kind words and prayers have kept us strong.
Our family has many wonderful memories of Michael that will be with us for the rest of our lives. He had a caring, loving heart and an incredible memory and thirst for knowledge.
He never hurt anyone to further his own standing, never cheated in school and never spoke ill of anyone. Never bragged about his accomplishments and was always complimentary of friends and
family.
He invited Christ into his life at a Promise Keepers convention with his Dad and Grandpa. On his own, with no coaching from us, he walked down and asked Christ into his life.
At his burial, I said a prayer which I would like to share here.
PRAYER FOR MY SON
Travel well my son
Free from the burdens of this world
And rest
In the loving arms of Jesus
David A. Huff
December 22, 2013
Michael, Norma,and Amanda. we will all miss Michael terribly. What a wonderful young man. I will always remember how he was such good team chess player and ALWAYS helped with everything. Michael you and Norma never, ever missed any of their chess activities and were always there to help before, during and after EVERY chess tournament. So supportive and such a wonderful and involved family. Please accept our deepest sympathy and our family's condolences. We will all miss Michael. God bless and comfort you all.
David, Grace, Marie, Kali, and Maricar Huff (Navea)
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Eva De los Rios
December 20, 2013
Dear Michael i will always cherish our memories we had as children. .whether it was going to a theme park or dancing in a quincenera together i will forever hold those memories dear to my heart..Although years went on and we didnt see each other, I want you to know the De Los Rios family has always loved you and your family..You have always had a positive attitude and loving heart and for that you are one cousin that has always stood out for me and I knew in my heart you would grow up to be a great person and successful in life..You will be missed dearly and will always be in my thoughts and prayers aswell as your family. .Love always your cousin ..Eva De Los Rios..
marisela delosrios
December 20, 2013
micheal i miss you so much i remember the times we used to play battleship and the times we would all play school i know that u are with the angels and u will forever be missed love u cousin and i will forever miss u .
Suzette Rowland
December 19, 2013
For the Eagle Scout who came up with the idea one holiday Season some years ago and passed it by his grandma Linda...
...To ask other high school Scouts to join him in bringing a festive Season to me, which included cutting down a Christmas tree and installing it in my home with all the trimmings and decorating it on site, singing Christmas carols while working, and finally, graciously presenting me with a special gift! Then in January, this fine Eagle Scout completed the leadership work by personally picking up the tree and decorations, and ensuring that my home was put back in order. That's a pretty sweet story, right? And it's all true.
Yet what lingers with me from that delightful experience arise from the finer points of this Eagle Scout, that is, Michael McCarthy, II. He displayed a remarkable sensitivity to a sick old lady, you know? He called and arranged for their presence in my home for times that would be better for my health, rather than better for the group. When present in my home, Michael watched over me while the Scouts worked with the elements of the tree to ensure that I was "okay" and that I wasn't getting overtired from the people or the noise. Again, a quiet, caring spirit, from such a young man at the time. He expected nothing of me when the tree was delivered and set up and he expected nothing of me when the tree was picked up; he wanted me only to lie down and rest, to take care of myself and allow him to serve me if he could help in any way, otherwise he, and the other Scouts were happy to bring Seasonal joy into my home with the tree.
Michael, II, I have just learned of your passing up into the LORD's arms this afternoon, so your memorial service has taken place. My heart weeps for the loss to your mom and dad, to your sister, Amanda, and to all of your grandparents, particularly the two I know so very well, and with whom you went on many exploratory and historical vacations with--Mike, Sr. and Linda McCarthy. Your cousins must be hurting, your aunts and uncles, your work colleagues, your friends...
Only God knows, only God knows. You are conversing with the Divinity in person now, how marvelous that must be! (Is there a word for it??) I pray those prayerful conversation grant you the peace, the contentment, the joy, the comfort, and healing, and His unfailing Love, and more and more and more of His Goodness forevermore as you receive His Holy Rest in your prepared Mansion. We shall miss you and continue to love you, Michael. We will also support and help those who were your nearest and d
dearest, and care for their grieving, and pray that we can show a measure of your sensitivity and joy to your beloved--for that would be an overflowing cup. Thanks for showing the way, Michael!
Your friend,
Suzette Rowland
Marianne Diaz
December 19, 2013
My condolences to the McCarthy family. I worked with Michael while he interned at DPVB. He was always smiling and I enjoyed working with him.
Estela De Los Rios
December 19, 2013
My sweet loving Michael, your loving and kind memories will always be in my heart. The Lord has an angel and we will forever misr you. I LOVE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL NEPHEW.REST IN PEACE.
Vanessa De los rios
December 19, 2013
May you rest in paradise Michael! I will forever remember our times together and growing up as cousins! So many memories will forever be in my heart. We love you very much and will miss you <3
Kyle Atchley
December 18, 2013
Never knew him on a personal level just had the privledge to see the kind of person he was. Went to Jr High with him and he was always a well spoken, positive, great role model. I'd always see him running around my neighborhood on Country Club drive and it'd always bring a smile to my face. So sorry for the loss his loved ones recieved. God bless.
Shari
December 18, 2013
Me kealoha pumehana.
A hui hou kakou.
mary landucci
December 17, 2013
I'll always remember how smart,kind and wonderful Michael was. He was everyone's friend. He'll be missed by everyone who had the pleasure to know him.
--Mary Landucci
Christina Tang
December 17, 2013
Michael was a kind, caring, hardworking young man. He will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to the McCarthy family. Rest in peace Michael. Someday we will meet again.
Lyn Espericueta
December 17, 2013
Even though our hearts our sadden by the lose of Michael, we will rejoice in the knowledge that one day we will see him again when we too will be called home to be with the Lord.
our prayers are with the family. We love you Mike and Chiqueta banana.
December 17, 2013
We love you and cherish the memories of a life well lived. May you find comfort in Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, during this time.
Prayerfully submitted,
Mike, Marilyn, Jessica & Phillip
Peggy Smith
December 17, 2013
Michael was wonderful with the donors, here at Houchin Com. Blood Bank. As his supervisor, I received many comments about his professional and courteous way that he dealt with them. Our hearts are full of grief and our thoughts and prayers go out to the McCarthy family. Rest in peace, Michael. You will be greatly missed!!
Ronnie Rutledge
December 17, 2013
My condolences to the McCarthy family.
Jessica Flores
December 17, 2013
RIP Michael. You were a really great inspirational person. You touched so many lives including mine. You were a great person to work with in out accounting group project. You will be missed. Prayers for the family.
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