Norma T. Stefano

Norma Stefano passed away peacefully on February 22, 2026, at the age of 88. A devoted wife and proud mother, she dedicated her early years to raising her seven children in Henrietta, NY. After years of service to her family, Norma embraced a new chapter of independence. When her children were old enough, she achieved the milestone of receiving her diploma and driver's license, allowing her to rejoin the professional world with pride. She didn't just raise a family; she created a loving home that served as a cornerstone for the neighborhood. Known as a talented cook, she believed there was always room for one more at their large kitchen table. Her door was famously always open to family, friends and neighbors alike, ensuring no one ever left her home hungry or unloved. Beyond her kitchen, she found joy in the simple pleasures of life, especially reading, playing bingo and watching her favorite football team, the Buffalo Bills. Her legacy lives on in the seven children she raised and the countless lives she touched with her "open door" spirit.

She is survived by: Children: David (Mary) Stefano, Daniel Stefano, Douglas (Liz) Stefano, Devin Stefano, Dana (Rick) Prenatt, Deanna (Tom) Calvert, and Debbie Stefano. Grandchildren: Angela (Dave) Zimmer, Emily (Justin) Adams, Heather, Asa, Alexis Connell, Amanda Dudak, Kelly (CJ) Jones, Ashley, Alex, Courtney (Mark) Kommeth, and Cody. Great-Grandchildren: Luke and Livia. Sisters: MaryJane Fondak, Linda (Wally) Russell, Sue Littlefield, and Clara Reinhardt. In Laws: Rosemary Stefano, Helen Stefano, Jim Stefano, Rose Marie (Richard) Lombard, Joyce Kilbury, and many loving nieces and nephews.

Norma was predeceased by Francis "Fran" B. Stefano, her beloved husband of 71 years (d. January 21, 2026). Parents: Floyd and Ruth Kilbury. Stepfather, Frank Merton Barons. Stepmother, Ann Kilbury. Brothers: Pete Kilbury, Chauncey Kilbury, Loyd (Sally) Kilbury. Daughter in law, Kathy Dudak. In laws: Larry Littlefield, Greg Fondak, John (Joan) Stefano, Donald Stefano, and Margaret (Fritz) Livernash.

Friends and family are invited to call between 2:00 PM and 4:00 PM, with a 4:00 PM Funeral Service to follow, all held on Friday, February 27, 2026, at Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. 3325 Winton Rd. South. For those unable to attend, CLICK HERE to Livestream the service at 4:00PM on Feb. 27, or watch at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Shepherd Home in Penfield NY. Click HERE to Donate

The family would like to thank the staff and caregivers at Sage Harbor for their loving care and support.