Norman DeGraaf Adams III

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Norman DeGraaf Adams III

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Norman Adams Obituary

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DeGraaf Adams, III, born in Houston, TX on May 25, 1957, passed away, September 28, 2025. He was 68 years old, survived by his wife, Donna Parsley, mother, Ann Smith, brother, Will Adams and many, many cousins.
He graduated from Robert E. Lee High School in 1975 and went on to attend the University of Texas at Austin. He joined Adams & Porter Insurance/AON in 1980 and began a 26 year career as a Marine & Energy Executive.
DeGraaf was an incredible chef, skilled fisherman and avid outdoorsman. He retired young and fulfilled his dream of building a home in the Bahamas where he could wade the crystal blue waters flyfishing on the bonefish flats and diving for lobsters. He enjoyed living in Rockport, TX for five years and recently settled on 10 beautiful acres in Castroville, TX.
He was an early leader and Board member for the Coastal Conservation Association – known as Gulf Coast Conservation Association at the time. He was a longtime member and leader of the Central Houston Chapter. Additionally, he served on a multitude of CCA National and Texas State Committees, including Chairing both the Texas Government Relations Committee and National Insurance Committee. Beyond his significant efforts directly with CCA, DeGraaf also served in a number of governmental conservation efforts including State and Federal Advisory Committees and highlighted by his time on the Gulf Fishery Management Council.
DeGraaf was a beloved husband, son, brother, uncle, friend and a genuinely good man. We will miss his wicked sense of humor and lively laugh. He was preceded in death by his father, Norman DeGraaf Adams, Jr. and nephew, Kirby Adams.
A celebration of DeGraaf's life will be conducted at 10:00 a.m., Tuesday, October 14, 2025 in the First Baptist Church in Columbus, TX (1700 Milam St). In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Coastal Conservation Association.

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Donna Parker

Earlier today

I´m deeply saddened by the passing of DeGraaf. It´s difficult to express how much he meant to me-not just as a boss, but as someone who truly felt more like a brother. We were close in age, but even closer in spirit. He was a constant source of support, laughter, and encouragement in my life.

He wasn´t just a colleague-he was family. He was one of the kindest souls I´ve ever known. He once surprised me by buying me a kitten, simply because he knew how much I needed comfort at that time. That´s just the kind of person he was-generous, thoughtful, and always looking out for others. He even helped host my bridal shower at work, making sure I felt celebrated and loved. Those memories are treasures I´ll hold onto forever.

His absence leaves a space that can´t be filled, but I will always carry his memory in my heart-with gratitude, love, and so much respect. I´m keeping his family, friends, and all who loved him in my thoughts during this incredibly difficult time.

Until we meet again friend-
Donna (Wise) Parker

Marjorie Goodall

Yesterday

I had known DeGraff since he was in high school working during the summers at Adams & Porter. I was always happy thinking of DeGraff off fishing somewhere. I was so sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences.

Bruce Jefferis

Yesterday

I´m so very sorry to hear this. DeGraaf and I worked together for many years and we took some wonderful fishing trips together to the Bahamas, Venezuela, and Christmas Island. He was the best storyteller I´ve ever known, and I will miss him.

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