Patricia Clare Wood "Patti" Midtling

Patricia Clare Wood "Patti" Midtling obituary

Patricia Clare Wood "Patti" Midtling

Patricia Midtling Obituary

Published by White Funeral Home - Apple Valley on May 26, 2009.
Midtling, Patricia Clare Wood "Patti" Beloved mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend, passed away at home in Eagan surrounded by her loving family on May 23, 2009. Patti, age 53, is survived by husband James; sons, Mathew and Christopher; daughters, Jennifer, Stephanie, Micaela, and Olivia; parents, Bill and Peggy Wood; sisters, Diane (Jim Dooley), Sarah (Jeff Trost), Kathy (Jeff Jokisch); brother, James Wood (Missy); 16 nieces and nephews and so many friends whom she cared for unconditionally. Patti was born in Fort Chaffee, Arkansas on April 14, 1956 and grew up in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin. She attended the University of Minnesota, graduating from the Carlson School of Management in 1978. Some of the things Patti enjoyed most were family celebrations, traveling with her family, attending bible study, watching her daughters dance, taking care of her children and pets, and many other things words cannot express. Patti's strength and courage was inspirational to so many people. She will always be remembered for her selfless spirit; she was quietly confident and accepting of every person, while having a remarkable awareness of the emotions of those around her. There was no obstacle Patti didn't face without a positive attitude and open mind. She will be greatly missed. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to the MD Anderson Memorial Foundation or M.O.C.A. (Minnesota Ovarian Cancer Alliance) in Patti's name. Visitation will be held Sunday, May 31, 2009 from 4-8 PM at Easter Lutheran Church on the Hill, 4200 Pilot Knob Rd., Eagan and the funeral service will take place at 11 AM Monday, June 1, 2009, also at church. White Funeral Home Apple Valley 952-432-2001 www.whitefuneralhomes.com
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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May 14, 2011

crystal posted to the memorial.

July 3, 2009

Angela Martini posted to the memorial.

June 29, 2009

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crystal

May 14, 2011

i see the midtling girls at competitons all the time and they are stunning dancers it breaks my heart that they lost such an important person in their life. everyone is hear for you midtlings.

Angela Martini

July 3, 2009

Dear Jim and family,
Phil and I just ran into someone in Indiana who told us about Patti's passing. We first knew Patti when we lived together at The Place apartment complex and Matthew was a newborn. Over the years, Patti was faithful in keeping us up to date as your family expanded, moves to and from New York, etc. She will be very much missed by us and we extend our deepest sympathies to you and all of your family.
God Bless,
Phil and Angela Martini

emily sharbo

June 29, 2009

i love you kaylie get better and stay strong! you and your family are in my prayers. if you need anything just let me know :)

Mary Meuwissen

June 24, 2009

Dear Stephanie and Family,

Teresa and I wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you. My mom/Teresa's grandma passed away 2 years ago from ovarian cancer after 8 years. As I'm sure Patti did, my mom showed me more than I thought possible how to love others in spite of my own struggles...so many miracles and joy in spite of the sadness.

Peace to you now and always.

Mary & Teresa Meuwissen

Autumn Mickelson

June 10, 2009

Dear Matt and family,
Today a client of mine, and a friend of your moms told me of her passing. I am so sorry for your loss. I cant even imagine what your family has gone through these last few years. Many years ago when I first met your mom, I realized how she treated everyone like they were one of her own kids. I remember when I locked my keys in my car at your house. I was very worried because I didn't have another set. When your mom found out what had happened she told me not to worry and took care of everything. Just like my mom would do for me. How lucky your family is to have had such an amazing mother although her time was short. Many people like me, have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Your friend,
Autumn

Jackie Lage

June 9, 2009

Patti,

I miss you so much I can not even describe it. You are such an inspiration to me and your strength, courage and love will live on forever in my heart. You have made such a huge impact on my life and I will never forget anything you've ever taught me. I appreciate everything you've ever done for me and thank you for always being there for me when I needed you most, as a mother and as a friend. You are a beautiful soul with the biggest most amazing heart. I've never met anyone so caring and special. I thank God for all the memories and time I spent with you, but I just wish there were more. I think about you all the time and pray for you everyday. I miss you more than anything and I love you so much and I always will.

Love Forever and ever,
Jackie

Karen Teal

June 1, 2009

Dear Cousin Jim and family -
Dad (your uncle Harold Hein) told me of your wife's passing. I am so sorry to hear of this, and I pray that our Heavenly Father will wrap you and your children tightly in His comforting arms. Patti will be missed, but God promises a wonderful reunion in heaven someday!
Your cousin, Karen (Hein) Teal

June 1, 2009

Sleep sweetly my dear friend. We shared so many wonderful, hilarious times. What will I remember most? So many things! Your wonderful optimism & your beautiful heart. Your innate compassion. Your gentle yet joyful spirit, your absolute genuineness and loyalty. Your awesome sense of humor! Speaking of which, don't forget you owe me an e-mail! No excuses! And send me your new address up there in Heaven or else no Xmas cd! And try to save me a spot up there next to you, preferably with a "view"!
Love you Patti!
Cath

The Garvin's

May 31, 2009

Dear Midtling Family,
You have our heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time. May the Lord watch over you and comfort you during your time off sorrow. God bless,

Vicky Michaels

May 29, 2009

Dear Dr. Midling, we are so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Your friends from United Hospital Operating Room

Clare Willis

May 28, 2009

Dear Jim and Family,
I am sorry for your loss, I know how much she loved her family. She loved doing for others. You are in our prayers. She was a great cousin and alot of fun to be around.

Martha Davis

May 27, 2009

Dear Stephanie, Kaylie, Olivia, and all the Midtling family,
There was no one like your Mom and you have been blessed to have her. I just wish she could be here on earth much longer but I know she is your guardian angel now. Patti was such a warm and caring person - she kept giving me Walgreens coupons when money was tight and we had so many amazing and insightful conversations. She really helped me with my son's learning disabilities with her support and encouragement. I miss all of you at piano and hope to see you soon. May God wrap loving arms around all of you.

Rev. Harold & june Hein

May 27, 2009

Dr. Jim and family: We are sorry upon hearing of the loss of your dear wife and mother. God gave you a loving wife and mother, loved by you, and by all, and especially by God and Christ, who is our living Hope through His resurrection from the dead. Our prayers are with you and for you all. May God give you peace in the sure and certain truth that those who have died in the Lord are secure and whole for all eternity. We all await the coming our our Lord when our lowly bodies will be transformed like unto Christ's glorious body, and will be in that abode when there will be no hunger, no thirst, no suffering, no sorrow, no sickness, and no death.
God bless you with His comforting Spirit.

With our love, Uncle Harold and Aunt June Hein

Teri Frauenfelder

May 27, 2009

To Patti's Family,

My heartfelt sympathy to you for your loss. I went to Wauwatosa West with Patti and will also carry the great moments I shared with her.

monica lee

May 27, 2009

My heart goes out to all of you. Patti was a wonderful woman. She will be greatly missed. You have alot of great memories of your mom and wife that will carry on forever. Love was only one of her beautiful qualities. She loved all of you very much and you will always have that to hold onto . Peace and Love be with you during this most difficult time. Love - Monica

Sally Cook

May 27, 2009

Whenever I think of Patti, I always remember her watching over us as we swam in the Midtling's pool all those summers ago. She cared so much for her kids and their friends that she'd never let us out of her sight-no matter what kind of trouble Jenni, Mo and I were getting into. That much will never change. She'll always be watching. All my love to the Midtling Family.

May 27, 2009

Olivia, my mommy told me about your mom. I'm so sorry! You and your family are in my prayers every night. You are a beautiful dancer and she will be watching you from heaven. Love, Campbell Reynolds (7-larkin dancer)

Benjie Mann

May 27, 2009

Though I didn't know Patti that well, The times we did visit together at school or the studio, she was always so nice and easy to talk with. I hope in this difficult time, the family can find peace and strength. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Naomi Price

May 27, 2009

To the Midtling's-

Our heartfelt sympathies to all of you on the passing of Patti. Our girls were in gymnastics at Gleasons and Jim you also coached Molly in track. I remember when Patti had been recently diagnosed. We were all in Chicago for a meet. I think about 4 years ago. She had just had surgery. I remember thinking how strong she was and my lasting memory of what a great mom she was.

May you find comfort knowing that Patti is now free of all her suffering and you are all better people as a result of her in your lives.

Ruth Hagearty

May 27, 2009

To Patty's family, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember back in the old days at the Cape (when there were just two little kids!) Patty was a lot of fun and a kind, wonderful person. Peace and love during this terribly sad time, Ruth

Cathy Comeford

May 26, 2009

Dear Diane, Jim and Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences. I am so very sorry for your loss. Patti was so special and genuine, and such a good friend over the yrs. She will not be forgotten. Please let me know if I can help in any way.

Olivia Midtling

May 26, 2009

Mommy, I love you so much. I am sorry you had to go to heaven so soon. I can't wait to see you again and I hope you are watching over me every minute of my life. I am very excited to dance for you this weekend at my recital. I love you!

~Love, Liv Bug.

Anissa Parsons

May 26, 2009

To the Midtling Family,

My heartfelt condolences to all of you on the loss of an amazing woman. I met Patti last year at Studio 4. She always had a smile on her face, an incredibly big heart and such grace. May God wrap His arms around each and everyone of you during this most difficult time.

Sue G.

May 26, 2009

Diane, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God help guide you through this difficult time together. I hope it is somewhat comforting that she now home, at peace and suffering no more. Take care and let me know if there is anything I can do for you. God Bless~ Sue G.

Patti with her sisters, age 6

May 26, 2009

Patti with her siblings and parents

May 26, 2009

Gail Kohlmann

May 26, 2009

Micaela and Family, I am very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at DHMS

The Burd Family

May 26, 2009

Patti, your long fight against cancer is a sign of the courageous person you were. You will be missed.

John Schweitzer

May 26, 2009

Patti's amazingly beautiful big smile, limitless spirit, endless love and uncontainable compassion will be remembered and cherished in our home! My greatest honor was repairing Patti's 'Wisdom Bear' and many, many memories of dance mornings, afternoons and evenings...may your heavenly presence radiant all over your family and friends!

James Midtling

May 26, 2009

I will always remember the GREAT times we had together. I just wish it could have been longer. Love, your husband Jim

Fairview Home Care and Hospice

May 26, 2009

To the family of Patricia Midtling:

Please accept our sympathy for your loss. It was an honor to be with Patti during her final days. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sincerely,
The Fairview Hospice Team

May 26, 2009

peace.

Cindy Dahlberg

May 26, 2009

Our deepest heartfelt sympathies to you and your family on the passing of Patti. We will miss her very much at the dance competitions. She was a very special lady. I loved sitting and talking with her. My fondest memory is sitting on the rocks by the pool in Orlando talking until 12:30 a.m. while you kids stayed in the pool forever!

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