Patricia E Petner

Patricia E Petner obituary, Parlin, NJ

Patricia E Petner

Patricia Petner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home on Nov. 18, 2025.

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Patricia E Petner (Bowler) ObituaryPatricia E. Bowler Petner, age 83 of Whiting, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 8, 2025, at AristaCare at Manchester, with her loving family by her side. Born in Rome, NY, she was raised in Newark before moving to South Amboy and then finally settling in Whiting 20 years ago. Patricia was a proud homemaker and former communicant of Sacred Heart RC Church in South Amboy. Her greatest joy was spending time with her family.
She is predeceased by her husband Eugene and her son Gene.
Surviving are her loving children Michele Petner and Mark Petner, her cherished grandchildren Paul Petner and his wife Lauren, Christopher Falletta Jr and fiancé Carole Holmes, her beloved great-grandchildren Danielle and Christopher Falletta, her sister Louise Einhorn and many other loving family members and friends who will miss her dearly.
Calling hours at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home will be Monday from 1pm to 5pm with a prayer service at the funeral home at 4pm on Monday.
A private cremation will follow.
For planned service details, directions, or to leave a message of condolence for the family, please visit www.spezzifuneralhome.com.
Patricia E. Bowler Petner, age 83 of Whiting, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 8, 2025, at AristaCare at Manchester, with her loving family by her side. Born in Rome, NY, she was raised in Newark before moving to South Amboy and then finally settling in Whiting 20 years ago. Patricia was a proud homemaker and former communicant of Sa

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