Obituary published on Legacy.com by Williams-Parksley Funeral Home on Aug. 22, 2025.
Mr. Paul Ernest Jean Muhly, 86, passed away in his sleep in
Parksley, VA, on Tuesday, August 19, 2025.
Paul was born on May 18, 1939, in Rochester, NY to Mr. Ernest Alfred Muhly and Mrs. Suzanne Victorine (Schaffter) Muhly. Paul graduated from Brighton High School in Brighton, NY in 1957. Upon graduation, he joined the U.S. Army, proudly serving his country for four years in Kaiserslautern, Germany. This is where he met and married his wife, Elizabeth (Zangerle) Davis. Paul was an accomplished printer by trade and upon his return from Germany he joined his father in the printing business at Rochester Colonial Lithographic, later hiring on at one of the biggest printing companies in the country, Case-Hoyt Printing in Rochester. With this experience, he opened his own printing business, Lithografiks Inc., which he ran for several years until the untimely passing of his friend and business partner, Brian Bennett.
Most will remember Paul for his unwavering service to his community as an Accomack County Supervisor for District 4 from 2015 to 2023. A "Come Here," he nonetheless embraced the Eastern Shore of Virginia (ESVA) as if he was a "Born Here," constantly promoting the region. Paul's contributions to the community as a member of the Board of Supervisors are countless, but most notable was his successful campaign to relocate the county library and ESVA Heritage Center to Parksley and his work to promote educational programs to supply Emergency Medical Technicians for the county. He had a deep love for the Eastern Shore and its people, dedicating his time and efforts to the Waste Watchers of the Eastern Shore and serving on the ESVA Ground Water Committee. In addition, Paul was a passionate, active member of the Accomack Republican Party, instrumental in recruiting and uplifting hard-working, dedicated representatives.
Paul's journey to the ESVA from Rochester was indirect. In 1999, he sold his house in Rochester and moved to Cape May, NJ to support his daughter, Alexandra, who was serving as a recruit trainer with the U.S. Coast Guard. When Alexandra transferred to Portsmouth, VA, Paul followed, continuing his invaluable support, even home schooling his grandson, Ryan, for a period. However, Paul began house hunting in early 2004 when Alexandra received transfer orders to Seattle, WA. It was then that Paul found his new home in Parksley and began surrounding himself with incredible friends.
Paul had many passions, but chief among them were auto racing and sailing. As a young man, Paul was a crew member for the Barry Budlong racing team, primarily competing at Watkins Glen International in New York. Sailing, he owned a Dragon (keelboat) for a while, later turning his passion for carpentry and boating towards building a beautiful kayak. Paul was informally known as the "welcoming committee," making a genuine effort to stop and talk to others with the purpose of getting to know them and extending a welcoming and helpful hand to anyone. Paul was also known for his wit and charm, always ready with a funny story or joke to break the ice. All in all, Paul was the epitome of a selfless, hardworking individual, devoting his life to improving his community and helping others. He leaves a legacy of civic mindedness and as one close friend said, "a tremendous void in our community."
Paul is survived by his three children, Andrea Nicole Muhly of Rochester, NY, Peter Ernest Muhly of Oldsmar, FL, and Alexandra Muhly of Williamsburg, VA; his daughter-in-law, Barbara Muhly of Oldsmar, FL; and sons-in-law, Timothy Santmyer of Mobile, AL, Timothy Williams of Rochester, NY, and Jonathan Grimes of Williamsburg, VA; grandchildren, Jessica Gauldin of Rochester, NY, René Grimes of Ft. Walton Beach, FL, and Rowan Muhly who is serving in the U.S. Air Force; great-granddaughter, Cassandra Gauldin of Rochester, NY; and his brother, Ernest Jan Paul Muhly of Frederick, MD. Paul was preceded in death by grandchildren, Michael Williams and Ryan Santmyer.
Although Paul's passing is deeply mourned, a celebration for a life well lived is planned. The Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, August 29, 2025, from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m., in the community hall at the Parksley Volunteer Fire Company located at 18431 Dunne Ave.,
Parksley, VA. All are invited to come together to honor the life of our dear father and friend, Paul Muhly. There will be no interment.
The family offers for consideration that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to two of Paul's special interests that he cared a lot for: the Parksley Volunteer Fire Company at https://parksleyvfc.org/; and/or, Waste Watchers of the Eastern Shore at https://wastewatchersesva.org/. No doubt, both of these fine organizations would greatly appreciate your thoughtfulness and gift.
Finally, a heartfelt thanks goes out to all of you who have reached out and expressed your condolences and offered support and assistance. These acts of kindness reinforce the truth already known, that Paul positively impacted the lives of many and he was truly surrounded by a loving community. Whatever guided him to the Eastern Shore, it was fortuitous. As the words from Beyoncé's song I Was Here goes:
I was here, I lived, I loved, I was here
I did, I've done, everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I will leave my mark so everyone will know I was here
That he did!
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Arrangements by the Williams-Parksley Funeral Home.
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