Obituary published on Legacy.com by Chandler Funeral Home - Whitaker Chapel on Mar. 13, 2024.
Phyllis R. Hoadley, a beacon of devotion and compassion, passed away peacefully on March 9, 2024, in
Bloomington, Indiana. Born on October 15, 1939, in
Indianapolis, Indiana, to Aaron and Ruth Gates-Cardinal, Phyllis's life was a testament to the enduring power of love and family.
Phyllis's journey began in Marion County, where she grew up surrounded by the warmth of her family. Her life was forever changed when she married her soulmate, Stan Hoadley, on November 23, 1956. Their union was a beautiful example of lifelong commitment, and this year would have marked their 67th anniversary.
Phyllis's legacy is carried on by her loving husband, Stanley Hoadley, and her devoted children: daughter Teresa "Terri" (Mike) Sprague of Gosport, son Stanley "Chip" Hoadley (Kelli) of Spencer, and Beth Ann Wood-Hoadley of Gosport. She was a cherished Mamaw to her 11 grandchildren: Andy Kay (Tracey), Travis Kay, Joshua Hoadley, Eric Hoadley (Stephanie), Ethan Hoadley, Amy Wright, Trista Elliott (Brandon), Jesy Dalton (David), Emilee Wood (Joe), and Kaitlyn Farris. Her 27 great-grandchildren, who brought immense joy to her life, will also hold her memory dear.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents, her siblings Evelyn McGowen, Nylice Findley, and Charles "Chuckie" Gates, her son James Aaron Hoadley, and granddaughter Ashley Wilson-Wood. Her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her, including numerous nieces and nephews who were touched by her loving spirit.
Throughout her life, Phyllis dedicated herself to her family, nurturing her four children and delighting in her role as a grandmother and great-grandmother. She had a special bond with each of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, fostering unique relationships that were built on love, support, and individual attention. A natural homemaker, Phyllis expressed her love through her exceptional cooking, always preparing enough to feed an army. Her kitchen was not just a place for meals; it was a haven of warmth and togetherness. In her younger years, Phyllis enjoyed playing cards and was a spirited cheerleader in high school. She maintained a sense of pride and elegance, never missing her weekly hair appointments. As a grandmother, Phyllis's love was a guiding light, offering comfort during challenging times and celebrating life's triumphs. Her home was a sanctuary where laughter echoed, and memories were lovingly crafted. She had the remarkable ability to make each grandchild feel uniquely valued, whether through a hug or words of encouragement. Phyllis's love was boundless and unconditional. She was present at ball games, family gatherings, and quiet moments, always ready to offer a warm embrace or a listening ear. Her love was a source of strength and happiness, creating a legacy that will be cherished for generations.
Those who knew Phyllis will remember her as a compassionate, devoted, nurturing, and caring soul. Her life was a beautiful illustration of the impact one person can have through simple acts of kindness and unwavering devotion to family. Phyllis R. Hoadley's memory will live on in the hearts of her family and all who were fortunate enough to experience her love. Her spirit will continue to inspire and guide us, reminding us of the beauty and strength found in the bonds of family.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, March 16, 2024 at the Gosport Methodist Church at 2:00 pm. Friends may visit with the family prior to the Celebration of Life from Noon until 2:00 pm. Chandler Funeral Home-Whitaker Chapel in Gosport is assisting with arrangements.
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