Raymond Earl Styons Jr.

Raymond Earl Styons Jr. obituary, Greenville, NC

Raymond Earl Styons Jr.

Raymond Styons Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wilkerson Funeral Home and Crematory - Greenville on Aug. 7, 2024.

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Raymond "Raymie" Earl Styons Jr., 66, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, August 4.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Covenant Church on Friday, August 9th at 1:00 PM. A private family burial will be held at Pinewood Memorial Park. A visitation will be held on Thursday, August 8th, from 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Greenville. The Celebration of Life will be streamed and can be watched at live.covenant.cc
Raymie was born to Raymond Styons Sr. and Rosalie Brown Styons in Plymouth on November 20th, 1957. He graduated from Plymouth High School as a three-sport athlete before going on to play baseball at East Carolina University before he was drafted by the San Diego Padres organization in 1980, later returning to get his bachelor's degree from ECU.
Raymie played three seasons of minor league baseball before retiring and coming home to work for his father-in-law at F&D Motor Company in Bethel. He then worked in insurance for Nationwide for 27 years, owning The Styons Agency for 25.
He built a decorated career as a basketball official at the same time, spending 35 years in the Atlantic Coast Conference and officiating 20 ACC tournaments and 17 NCAA tournaments. He's remembered as a highly respected and dedicated official by his fellow officials, the conference, schools, coaches, and players.
His love for both his children and sports led him to be involved with coaching many different youth teams. Raymie coached his daughters, Lindsay and Sarah Grace in softball, and his son, Trey, in baseball before coming back to Greenville Little League to coach Brown & Wood in the mid-2010's. He will be remembered for dedicating and mentoring countless children not only as baseball players, but as young men.
He was an inspirational man to his family and the Greenville community and beyond, who left a memorable impact on anyone who met him. All three of his children currently work in insurance, as Raymie did. Trey followed his footsteps into an officiating career, also officiating basketball in the ACC, and they had the privilege of spending a handful of games together on the court. All three are also involved in coaching, Lindsay coaching her two children with Sarah Grace alongside her, and Trey as part of the Brown & Wood team for many years.
Raymie is preceded in death by a son-in-law, Robert Spencer Hampton.
He is survived by his wife, Carolyn Gilliam Styons; Son, Raymond Earl "Trey" Styons III, and wife, Caroline; Daughters, Lindsay Styons Harris and husband, Rodney, and Sarah Grace Styons Johnson and husband, Dylan; Stepdaughters, Haley and Kelsey Mosley; Grandchildren, Kyle and Raegan Harris and Graham Styons; Parents, Raymond Earl Styons Sr., Carlene Styons and Rosalie Brown Styons; Sister, Lisa Styons Harrell and husband, Walter.
In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to Greenville Little League and the Pitt County Girls Softball League. Donations for GLL can be made payable to Greenville Little Leagues, PO Box 4263, Greenville, NC 27836. Donations for PCGSL can be made payable to Pitt County Girls Softball League, PO Box 639, Winterville, NC 28590.
Any current or former players are encouraged to wear their uniforms as a tribute to Coach Raymie.
View the Celebration of Life at the following link: Live.covenant.cc
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August 12, 2024

Sharon (Britt) Oliver posted to the memorial.

August 9, 2024

Sanford Rogers posted to the memorial.

August 8, 2024

Rusty Neal posted to the memorial.

Sharon (Britt) Oliver

August 12, 2024

Raymie was our home town hero. Plymouth has made some great athletes. I moved to Greenville in 1985. I became a manager at Skats at Bells Fork. Raymie stopped most evenings on his way from work. His favorite was peach milkshakes. He'd say "hey Sharon, whilst putting his finger to his lip, as if to say, shhhh, don't tell anyone. LoL Raymie, I kept your secret all this time. RIP my friend.

Sanford Rogers

August 9, 2024

I have been on the clock crew at Clemson for many years. Raymie was not only a great official but a great person. Please know the Clemson Family has your family in our prayers.

Sanford Rogers
Greenville, SC

Rusty Neal

August 8, 2024

Trey and family, Rusty Neal, official scorer, College of Charleston: My wife, Terri ( time out coordinator), and I are heartbroken to hear this awful news! Raymie was genuinely a good man. He didn´t have to try to be one! Every time I walked into TD Arena and saw his name on the game´s timesheet, I smiled and told Terri, "We are in good hands tonight". Awesome guy, awesome official!! He will be sorely missed in Charleston, SC!!
GOD BLESS

MARK FREIDINGER

August 8, 2024

classy person and quality referee...would always greet you with a smile and a hearty handshake....will miss our interactions at ACC games...MARK FREIDINGER..Wake Forest radio analyst for 35 years and former WF assistant coach....HE WILL BE MISSED!!

BRIAN BRILEY

August 8, 2024

PLAYING BASKETBALL AGAINST HIM IN BETHEL WHEN I was 17 and he was 25.We had many good pick up games together

Robyn Denson

August 8, 2024

Prayers for Raymie´s family as you grieve his passing. I enjoyed growing up with him and seeing the kind of person he became. May your special memories be a comfort to the family at this time.

Karl G Hess

August 7, 2024

Raymie was an outstanding official, coach, father and man. His family is in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

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