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ALBANY -
Robert V. Frei, 70, of Albany, passed away at home on March 8, 2025 after a courageous battle with cancer.
Born on January 7, 1955 to the late Robert and Gertrude Frei in Albany NY, Bob was a loving husband and father who always put his family first. He was a proud graduate of Our Lady of Lourdes High School in Poughkeepsie, NY before continuing his education at SUNY Cobleskill. Bob worked at IBM in Dutchess County, and later as a Health Physicist for Entergy at Indian Point in Peekskill, NY before retiring in 2018. On April 16, 1988, Bob married Patricia A. Lord at St. Mary's Church in Washingtonville, NY. Together they raised their family in Wappingers Falls, before relocating to Albany in 2023.
In addition to his loving wife, Bob is survived by his children: Neil, Kelli and Laura Frei. He is also survived by his siblings: Marie Lyons, Joanne Frei (Vincent), Jeanine Foscaldi (Louis), Joseph Frei (Terri) and John Frei. In addition, he is survived by his brothers in-law Victor Lord (Bonnie) and Daniel Lord (Karen). He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents in-law, and brother in law, Michael Lyons.
Bob was an avid sports fan who loved playing golf, and especially loved the New York Giants. He enjoyed listening to Country Classics and taking trips to the casino. He also loved all animals and enjoyed taking long walks with his beloved canine companion, Gunner. Bob's warmth and humor endeared him to many, and he maintained close friendships throughout his life. Those who knew him will forever miss his presence. He was a true gentleman in every sense of the word.
A Memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, March 22, 2025 at 11:00am at The Parish of Mater Christi, 40 Hopewell Street, Albany NY 12208 with Father Mike Melanson as celebrant. Cremation Arrangements were entrusted to Simple Choices, Inc., 218 2nd Avenue, Troy, NY 12180. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Bob's memory may be made to Compassionate Animal Rescue Efforts of Dutchess County (CARE of DC) at P.O Box #4, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared with the Frei Family, online at: SimpleChoicesCremation.com
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Bob Churchill
March 18, 2025
Deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss.
Elaine Albero Moss
March 14, 2025
Sending love thoughts and prayers to you Patti and to Laura Neil and Kelly at this time of loss. Remembering the many fun times we shared.
Elaine and Skip moss
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Matthew Mano
March 13, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for Bob and your family. He was such a kind and loving soul, may he rest in peace.
Ruth Ehrets
March 13, 2025
Neil,
So sorry to hear this.
Cherish the decades of memories you created.
His legacy lives on in you!!
Warmly,
Ruth Ehrets
The Mano Family
March 13, 2025
Our hearts are sad to hear of Bob´s passing. May he be welcomed into God´s arms and hands in perfect love, peace, happiness and protection for all of eternity.
Many, many, many fond memories of our children all growing up together. Bob always had a sweet and kind heart, spirit and soul as he was a true gentleman.
Our sympathy and love and prayers are with you, Patti, Laura, Kelli and Neil.
Love and friendship,
Mary, Rod, Matthew and Rachel
Karen Lorf
March 13, 2025
Such a quiet, caring man who loved his family with his whole heart.
Will treasure the memories of him & your family on my visits to Wappingers Falls.
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