Robert Gahan

Robert Gahan obituary, Dover, NH

Robert Gahan

Robert Gahan Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Purdy Memorial Chapel - Lee on Oct. 28, 2025.

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Robert "Bobby" Gahan February 7, 1949 – October 27, 2025
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Robert (Bobby) Gahan of Barrington, New Hampshire. On October 27, 2025, Bobby took his final checkered flag and entered eternal victory lane, joining the racing greats who left the track before him.
Born on February 7, 1949, in Dover, NH, he was the son of the late Ernie Gahan and Clara Jean Virgin. A proud graduate of Dover High School, Class of 1967, Bobby's lifelong passion for racing began at an early age, inspired by watching his father compete on oval tracks throughout New England.
Through a bit of fate-and his sister's search for a roommate-Bobby met the love of his life, Carol. Three months later, they were married, beginning a partnership that would span more than five decades. The couple recently celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary. Carol wasn't just his biggest fan-she was also part of his pit crew, sharing in the grease, the grit, and the glory. Together, they raised two daughters, Michelle Ann and Holly Beth, who grew up spending weekends at racetracks instead of playgrounds, often falling asleep in the stands to the hum of engines and the scent of racing fuel.
Bobby's racing career spanned nearly 50 years, earning him close to 500 feature wins across New England, as well as in Florida and Virginia. Known for his ingenuity and relentless determination, he built and raced cars on a shoestring budget, fueled by creativity, hard work, and the dedication of his loyal crew. In 1998, Bobby's skill and consistency were rewarded when he was crowned the NASCAR New England Regional Champion in Nashville, Tennessee. Nearly two decades later, in 2017, he was honored with induction into the New England Auto Racers Hall of Fame-a fitting tribute to a lifetime of passion, perseverance, and love for the sport.
Two years ago, Bobby was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia, a challenge he faced with the same grit and quiet strength that defined his life. Though his decline was rapid, his courage never wavered, and his love for his family and racing community remained constant. The family extends heartfelt thanks to the compassionate caregivers at Watson Assisted Living and the Cornerstone VNA nurses for their kindness, respect, and exceptional care throughout the last phase in his journey.
Bobby is survived by his devoted wife, Carol; his beloved daughters, Michelle Ann and Holly Beth; eight grandsons, Dylan, Nicholas, Zachary, Luke, Joshua, Isaac, Mason, and Samuel and his only granddaughter, Kaelyn. He was predeceased by his father, mother, and sister, Jean Gahan.
Bobby will be remembered for his boundless love for family, his kindness to animals, his fierce determination on the track, and his unwavering passion for life. Though his race here is done, his spirit will forever remain in the driver's seat, guiding those who loved him most.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made in Bobby's memory to the Lewy Body Dementia Association at https://www.lbda.org/donate/
Friends and Family may call from 10:00 am - 12:00 pm on Saturday, November 1, 2025, at Purdy Memorial Chapel, 2 Concord Road (Rt. 4) Lee, NH 03861.

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November 2, 2025

George Milliken posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2025

Tammy Robbins posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2025

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George Milliken

November 2, 2025

Dear Carol and Family, So sorry to learn of Bob's passing. My son Brian and I will always remember visiting Bob's shop. Bob gave my son several pieces of roll bar as samples for a science project he was working on. We got to see a car in-process and he let Brian sit in his #50 car. He was thrilled. Bob was a true gentleman.

George & Pam Milliken

Tammy Robbins

November 1, 2025

Rest in peace Bobby! Sending love to Carol and the family

Gary Gahan

November 1, 2025

It is with fond memories of my cousin Bobby Gahan when as youngsters we always were gathering at special holidays such as T-Day, Xmas, etc.
at our grandparents house in Durham NH often times to go exploring the woods, making hay forts in the barn which would aggravate our grandfather telling us that the cows would not eat it if they smelled humans on it! - LOL And the consummate snowball fights making snow forts and teaming up with various cousins to form battle lines. Even though cousin we did not get to spend much time later in life those times and memories will be with me forever.....may the sun always be at your face and the fair winds at your back on this journey to meet up with our heavenly father.....
God be with you Bobby - Cousin Gary Gahan

George and Patti Stimpson

October 31, 2025

We´re so very sorry to hear of Bobby´s passing. We hope that you will find comfort in all of your wonderful memories. It was great reconnecting with him over the past several years at Brickstones.

Mike Weeden

October 31, 2025

Rest in peace my old friend, you were great!

Russell Shaw

October 31, 2025

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Stu Lord

October 31, 2025

What a sad day this is, losing one of the finest in New England. I will never forget the honor I had interviewing him in Victory Lane so many times and just walking down to his pit stall and saying hi and wishing him good luck that night. Rest in Peace Bobby.

Sharon (Hobson) Denis

October 29, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Patricia (Hobson) DeRaps

October 29, 2025

Praying for comfort, for the family, and all who know and love him.
Patricia Hobson DeRaps

Ken Wolcott

October 29, 2025

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom and Debra Leahy

October 29, 2025

Carol, there are no words to express our sadness, and condolences go out to you and your family members. Bobby was certainly a neighborhood icon. Riding the golf cart with you and Maddie, walking, seeing you and him riding in the old Ford. He was helpful with figuring out things mechanical. And jokes! It was a fast trip to this point. Thoughts and prayers go out for peace in all the decisions made for him, by you.
we will not be able to be at the service on Saturday, due to another commitment. we will see you at a later time. God Bless.

Scott gahan

October 29, 2025

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Carol Walsh

October 29, 2025

Bobby was just a love. I was always happy to get to spend a little time with him and Carol. Great smile, such a wonderful personality.
He will be so missed by so many. May he RIP. His family has so many wonderful memories to help the heal. Gone but never forgotten.

Eric Pinkham

October 29, 2025

Growing up in Rochester, New Hampshire, racing wasn't just a hobby-it was the air we breathed. Little did I know that this passion would eventually define my entire career, but back then, it was all about the foundational figures: Dad, Bobby, and Babe.

They created everlasting memories of great men, terrific families, and the unwavering support that fueled their shared passion for the sport.

My earliest and fondest memory of Bobby, which still makes me smile, was visiting him with my father. I was just a child, but I will forever remember meeting his gentle giant of a dog, appropriately named "Bear." That moment of warmth and simplicity perfectly captured the man behind the helmet.

What an amazing man, incredible talent, and true trendsetter he was. His impact on the sport and on our community will not be forgotten.

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