Obituary published on Legacy.com by Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. - Rochester on Jan. 18, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Robert Willis Heitz
Robert "Bob" Heitz, a man of strength, kindness, and unwavering generosity, passed away in
Rochester, New York on January 14, 2025. Bob was 81 years old.
Bob was the cherished son of Esther and Willis Heitz and a devoted brother to Phyllis (Pfeiffer/Travis), who survives him, Joyce (Leary), and Wilbur. He was the loving husband of Rebecca (Vanderpoest), a proud father to William who loved him dearly, a caring father-in-law to Lenore (Griebsch), and an adoring grandfather to Shae and Spencer, who were the lights of his life, all of which survive him. Bob is also survived by his nieces and nephews: Michael, Yvette, and Breanne Leary, as well as Scott, Lynn, Nick, and Courtney Leary.
Born and raised in Rochester's South Wedge neighborhood, Bob grew up on Highland Parkway. He attended School 24 and graduated from Monroe High School. From an early age, his life was defined by a spirit of adventure and a steadfast commitment to those he loved.
Bob served his country in the Army during the Vietnam War and demonstrated his bravery and dedication as he protected the City of Rochester during the riots of 1964. A proud member of Teamsters Local 118, he worked as a truck driver and later owned his own dump truck, contributing to significant infrastructure projects such as Route 490 and the "Can of Worms." He worked hard at manual labor and often reminded his son, Bill, that he drove a truck so that Bill wouldn't have to. Beyond his professional endeavors, Bob opened a candy store-not for profit but to bring joy and create lasting memories for children in his community. He was also a member of the
Rochester, NY Elks Lodge #24, where he had many friends.
A man of remarkable strength and resilience, Bob was one of the toughest guys in Rochester. He was an arm wrestler, a bouncer, and a fighter in every sense. However, his greatest strength lay in his boundless heart. He loved hunting, fishing, boating, and riding motorcycles, but his true happiness came from spending time with his buddies at hunting camp and in the successes of others-rejoicing in a friend's catch or sharing in the thrill of a successful hunt.
Bob had a deep love for animals and was well-known for his compassionate heart, often rescuing stray cats and dogs and bringing them home to provide them with care and a loving environment.
Bob's adventurous spirit extended to exploring new places, traveling, and enjoying the excitement of the casino. He also had a special love for family traditions, including holiday celebrations and making buttermilk pancakes for his beloved grandchildren, Shae and Spencer.
In his final days, Bob demonstrated the courage and determination that had always defined him. Surrounded by the family he held so dear, he fought valiantly until the end.
He will be laid to rest alongside his family at Mount Hope Cemetery, in
Rochester, NY.
Bob's work here is done, but his legacy lives on. He gave us the tools to carry on, and we promise, "We got it now."
Rest in peace, Bob (Dad and Grandpa). Your heart, your strength, and your love will never be forgotten.
Calling Hours
January 22, 2025: 5:00 -7:00 P.M.
Miller Funeral Home
3325 S. Winton Rd
Rochester, NYFuneral
January 23, 2025: 9:30 A.M.
Sacred Heart Cathedral
296 Flower City Park,
Rochester, NYInterment (private)
Instead of flowers, those wishing to honor Bob's memory are kindly encouraged to make a tribute or memorial donation to Lollypop Farm Humane Society of Greater Rochester at www.lollypop.org. These meaningful contributions provide life-saving care, essential veterinary services, and new opportunities for animals in need. Your generosity will bring hope and happiness to pets eagerly awaiting their forever homes.
__________________________
"And you, my father, there on the sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light."
Dylan Thomas's poem