Robert J. Merlano

Robert J. Merlano obituary, Ocala, FL

Robert J. Merlano

Robert Merlano Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Roberts of Ocala West Chapel on Jul. 2, 2025.

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Robert J. Merlano, age 74, Ocala, Florida, passed away peacefully on June 21, 2025. He was a devoted and loving husband, father, brother, and uncle. Bob was born July 28, 1950 in Amityville, New York, to Louis and Jane Merlano. When he was seven, his family moved to Levittown, Pennsylvania where he lived until he enlisted in the military in 1969.
Bob served in the United States Air Force during the Vietnam War as a B-52 Bomber mechanic. He loved his country and was proud of his service. After he was discharged, he moved to Stuart, Florida and worked at Grumman Aerospace. A few years later, he decided to continue his education at the University of West Florida where he earned a B.S. Degree in Marine Biology. After graduation, he taught high school marine biology and coached baseball and football. In 1990, he changed careers and began working in the pharmaceutical industry where he remained until retirement.
Bob's love for coaching was a part of him. After retirement, he volunteered his time and talents coaching Little League in Belleview, Florida.
He loved all sports, but his passion was baseball. In his later years, he also became an avid golfer. He and his son, Robert, loved to fish and went on several fishing adventures with friends in different parts of the country.
Bob is survived and was dearly loved by his wife Debra, of 49 years, son, Robert, siblings Teresa Longar, Louis Merlano, James Merlano, Kathryn and David (spouse) Wheeler, Anthony Merlano, Raymond and Janelle (spouse) Merlano, Maria and Patrick (spouse) West and Philip Merlano. He is also survived by brother-in-law Dennis Dill, sister-in-law, Danielle Dill and brother and sister-in-law Dan and Andra Dill and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was a member of St. John Lutheran Church in Ocala, Florida and was active in Lutheran Men in Mission at the church.
In lieu of flowers, the family wishes that a donation be made to the Disabled American Veterans organization in Bob's name.

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Edith Jardine

July 28, 2025

I knew Bob from school. Condolences to his friends and family.

Rick Bassette

July 26, 2025

Nobody had a better smile or `can do´ attitude more so than Bob. We shared so many stories . He was just so fun to be around. Debbie and Bobby, you are in my prayers for sure!

Melinda Plumley

July 26, 2025

My favorite Bob memory is how he would often come up to my children´s sermons because he said he likes them better than the adult sermons! I loved when he did that... Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathie and Ernie Gerber

July 26, 2025

Dear Deb and Bobby,
There are no words to tell you how sorry we are to learn of Bob´s passing. We are beyond blessed to have known Bob and your family. There is no one who showed joy and love for life like Bob. Please know you, Bobby, and your extended family will be lifted in prayer each and every day. Thank you for your friendship. We love you. Ernie and Kathie Gerber

Jennie Fazioli Smith

July 7, 2025

I have know Bobby since JR at Sandburg. He was shy & kind. We went thru Neshaminy HS together & kept in touch thru reunions & FB. He was involved in sports w/my ex Jeff Smith. He had a great memory & wrote chapters on Levittown FB pages & had many followers. Fabulous memory & so honored his Mom/Dad/Brother/Sister.We both worked for Pharmaceutical companies. We were both progressive Democrats. He will be missed for being very level headed & very much a family man who was devoted to his wife Deb & son Bob. My photo is from our last mini-reunion in Orlando of which he organized. Keep playing ball - heaven has you. Hugs - Jen

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