Robert "Mouse" Mette

Robert "Mouse" Mette obituary, Naperville, IL

Robert "Mouse" Mette

Robert Mette Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Beidelman-Kunsch Funeral Home & Crematory - South Naperville (Route 59) on May 2, 2025.

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Robert "Mouse" Mette, age 77, of Plainfield, Illinois, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 30, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family.
Born on May 14, 1947, in Evanston, Illinois, Bob was a cherished son of the late Anthony and Norah (née Hughes) Mette.
Bob's greatest joy in life was his family. He is survived by his devoted wife of 54 years, Patti (née Dunlavey). He was the proud and loving father of Jennifer (Jeff) Zimmerman, Michael (Carena) Mette, and Marc (Jamie) Mette. His legacy will live on through his eleven adored grandchildren: Nolan Pomatto, Brayden Zimmerman, Colin Pomatto, Briar Zimmerman, Nora Pomatto, Brynnley Zimmerman, Anthony Mette, Valentina Mette, Payton Mette, Taylor Mette, and Nathan Mette. Each grandchild held a special place in his heart, and he cherished every moment spent with them.
Bob dedicated 30 years of his life to the Chicago Police Department, beginning his career as a patrolman and spending the majority of his tenure as a detective before retiring in 1998. His commitment to justice and service was evident throughout his career. Following his retirement from the CPD, Bob continued to serve his community through the Cook County State's Attorney's Office from 1998 to 2010.
In his recent years, Bob found great camaraderie and joy during his early mornings at the YMCA. There, he enjoyed swimming, sharing coffee and donuts, and engaging in lively conversation and laughter with his cherished "Y friends."
Bob is also survived by his brothers, James (Jeanean) Mette and Frank (Linda) Mette, who will fondly remember their shared memories. He will be dearly missed by his many nieces, nephews, and a wide circle of friends whose lives he touched with his kindness and good humor.
He was preceded in death by his beloved parents and his dear sister, Victoria Mette.
A Celebration of Life Memorial Visitation will be held on Saturday, May 17, 2025, from 2:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Beidelman-Kunsch Funeral Homes & Crematory, 24021 Royal Worlington Dr., Naperville, Illinois.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that memorials in Bob's name be made to organizations close to his heart: the Chicago Police Memorial Foundation (a cause that supports the families of fallen officers) or the C.W. Avery Family YMCA (an organization that strengthens the community).
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June 25, 2025

Karrie Champene (Post Rehab Solutions) posted to the memorial.

June 25, 2025

Post Rehab Solutions (Dr. Matt, Karrie and Staff) planted trees.

June 22, 2025

Dawn Conradi (Hicks) posted to the memorial.

Karrie Champene (Post Rehab Solutions)

June 25, 2025

My heart is so saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I will sorely miss his kind smile, silly humor and sass during our regular sessions. Sending so much love to the Mette Family.

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Dawn Conradi (Hicks)

June 22, 2025

So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was such a great friend. So sorry for the family's loss. He was one of a kind....Dawn Conradi. Hicks)

Joanne Marinelli

May 17, 2025

Ernie n I are so sad for your whole family.
Know we share in your grief.
Treasure all the good memories and keep them close to your heart for comfort .
Bob will be missed

Ron Widner

May 17, 2025

Our Condolences to Patti and the entire Mette family. Bob was always a bright part of our lives.

Love Ron and Marie Widner

Elizabeth Flynn

May 16, 2025

So very sorry for your loss. We are all shocked. But memories of the pizza parties with the kids after baseball always make me smile. Keeping the whole family in our thoughts and prayers! Pat & Liz Flynn and family

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Ed Pyrcioch

May 5, 2025

Shirley and I would like to express our condolences to the entire Mette Family. Knew him for many years. The job, vacations and Social functions. Mouse was a great copper and a wonderful person. He will be missed by a lot of people. Goodbye and Rest in Peace old friend.

Janice Iacullo

May 4, 2025

Our family and friends vacations with 3 generations of the Mette family every summer over 40 years in Tomahawk Wisconsin will never be forgotten! Summer vacation turned into lifetime friendships. I am so sorry for your loss. When I think of Bobby Mette, his smile and laughter is the first thing I think of. I know that your family will have so many years of great memories. Love you all

Mary kay walker

May 4, 2025

Dear Patty so sorry for your loss. I often remember the time you both visited Marty and me in Tampa for the Super Bowl. We had many laughs in a short time. Bob was also very kind allowing me to be part of his golf foursome. May the wonderful years you shared help in the days ahead. RIP Bob
Mary Kay Walker

Larry Knapp

May 4, 2025

Jeanne and Larry Knapp next door to Bob and Patti and her 2 boys on Oketo ave in Chicago for a few years untill he and his wife moved from the neighborhood.

They were very good neighbors and alway were pleasant to talk with.

I was retired from the Cook County sheriff's police and I believed he was still a Chicago detective. So we had law enforcement careers in common.

Patti I'm sorry for your loss
Bob was a great guy who loved and took care of his family and served law enforcement with pride and dignity.

Sadly my wife Jeanne passed away 2 years ago now but always spoke well of the Mette family. Maybe they are reunited neighbors in the great beyond.

Respectfully, Larry Knapp

Victor Scimeca

May 4, 2025

Bob (Mouse) Mette was a great detective. Bob had a great sense of humor. He would keep everyone laughing!
Bob you will be missed!
RIP my brother in blue.

Michael Brown

May 3, 2025

Mouse was a great guy.

Mike Brown

Frank Skorek

May 3, 2025

Peace brother and condolences to your family and friends

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June 25, 2025

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