Sharon Ryan Askins

Sharon Ryan Askins obituary

Sharon Ryan Askins

Sharon Askins Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Clements Funeral & Cremation Services, Inc - Durham on Aug. 20, 2025.

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DURHAM ~ Sharon Ryan Askins, 81, passed away on Sunday, August 17, 2025 at Pruitt Health in Durham. She was born December 26, 1943 in Walnut Ridge, Lawrence County, Arkansas to the late Andrew Jackson Ryan, Jr. and Mercedes Thennes Ryan. In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by her brothers, Jack Ryan, Timothy Ryan, and Maurice Ryan.

Ms. Askins grew up in Walnut Ridge, Arkansas and graduated from Walnut Ridge High School in 1961. She went on to attend St. Joseph's Hospital School of Nursing in Memphis, TN graduating in 1964. She spent most of her adult life in Fayetteville, NC where she was very involved in the community. She was an active member of the Junior League of Fayetteville, serving as President from 1981 -1982. Sharon went on to have a career in optical sales with Tura Eyewear and Charmant USA. She loved her four-legged friends, most recently her beloved "Poodleboy" Rusty, and two cats, both named Sweetheart. She had many beloved pets during her life. She leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories.

Ms. Askins is survived by her daughters, Andrea "Holly" Askins Hardy of Charleston, SC; Michelle "Shelly" Askins Thompson (Michael) of Raleigh; son, James "Jay" Holloway Askins Jr. (Emily) of Hendersonville; grandchildren, James Holloway Askins, III and Ryan Whitley Thompson; sisters, Mary Ryan, Marie Ryan, June Duckworth (Stan-dec); brothers, Terry Ryan (Regina), Mark Ryan; and sisters-in-law, Teresa Ryan, Shelia Ryan; and many nieces and nephews.

A private celebration of life will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to your favorite animal shelter.

The family is being assisted by Clements Funeral & Cremation Services, Inc. in Durham. Online condolences may be sent to www.clementsfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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