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Stephen Ellis Obituary

Stephen Ellis, 74, died peacefully at home in Charlottesville, Virginia, on June 24, 2025. Born in Southport, CT, Steve was the youngest of three brothers. He attended The Hotchkiss School and graduated from Lake Forest College. He built a career in marketing, but found the most joy in travel, photography, and golf. A former member of The Country Club of Fairfield, he played many renowned courses with friends and colleagues. Steve was rarely without a camera. He was drawn to beauty often overlooked: a worn chair, peeling paint, the flow of a river. He taught those around him to notice the details-and to wake before sunrise, catch the light at its best, while the world was still quiet. He was known for his quick wit, dry humor, and deep knowledge of seemingly everything. His clever remarks, sharp observations, and stories stayed with you long after they were told. Most of all, Steve was devoted to his daughter, Lindsay Peyton Ellis. When she was little, they shared a nightly ritual: she'd spin a globe, stop it with her finger, and he'd teach her about wherever it landed. He was a steady force in her life: calm, thoughtful, loyal, and deeply proud. Without him, her world feels off its axis. He is also survived by his brother, Winston Ellis, as well as a niece and nephew. He was predeceased by his parents, Anne and Carleton Ellis, and his brother, Carleton "Tony" Ellis III. Donations in Steve's memory may be made to the World Wildlife Fund in his name. To view his photography, please visit: www.steveellisphoto.com

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Published by Cville Right Now on Jul. 2, 2025.

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Andrew B. Walker

July 29, 2025

Excellence as a father, a golfer, a photographer and a friend. Special in so many ways!

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July 8, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Janine Darling

July 2, 2025

I will continue to laugh with you about the Boar's Head Deli all the rest of my life. What a particularly wonderful human-Godspeed, my friend.

Edward Paige

July 1, 2025

Wonderful, wonderful guy. Knew him in grammar school. Touching obit.

Kenny Cohen

June 30, 2025

In August 1969, a ragtag bunch of young prep school gentlemen converged on Blackstone Hall at Lake Forest College. I suppose we could´ve been known as the "Second Floor Blackstone Hall Boys" or something like that but we didn´t think of it. Steve was an integral member of this young cohort that has remained tight for 50+ years.

One of the first things I noticed about Steve was the license plate on his silver Camaro which read: "OSEO". Like me, Steve, liked having a unique moniker on his car.

Steve´s acerbic sense of humor was incredibly sharp, witty, and brilliant; it was far better to not be in his line of fire, he constantly made us laugh mightily.

I credit Steve with teaching me this highly useful (for me) golf maxim:

"You play a "Ray Ray" game. One hole you play like Ray Floyd and the next hole you play like Ray Charles".

Steve was a devoted, supportive and loving father to Lindsay and justifiably proud of her accomplishments.

His photography is stunningly beautiful, I´m proud to own a few of his pieces. While he is no longer with us, he leaves a wonderful legacy and a huge collection of his fabulous work.

Steve is certainly in a better place now, may he rest in peace.

tony sweet

June 30, 2025

I photographed a lot with Steve over the years and the events were always filled with good photography and Great Stories. I always contacted Steve for his opinion on any topic due to his eclectic knowledge base. Steve was one of the smartest people I've known. We also exchanged Dad/daughter stories, and one could tell from the glow when he talked about Lindsay, how much he loved her and valued spending time with her. The world is a lesser place with the passing of Steve.

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George Potts

June 30, 2025

Too many stories to tell: college parties at LFC, vacations with my girls, golf at CC of Fairfield, buying records at Sally´s in Westport, annual "Christmas Eve with Steve" lunches. He taught me to swing a club better, and not to miss out on the humor of Life. "Remember George, you´re hitting a golf ball, not killing a snake!"

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