Thomas Otto Wilkinson

Thomas Otto Wilkinson, born March 7, 1932, in Grand Rapids, Michigan, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, veteran, and friend, Tom's life was defined by kindness, faith, generosity, hard work and a deep love for people.

Tom was married for 64 wonderful years to Ethel Louise, the love of his life and his steadfast partner in every chapter. Together they raised four children who carry forward his legacy of humor, service, and family devotion: Dave (Lori) Wilkinson of Temecula, CA; Jack (Terri) Wilkinson of Cary, NC; Cindy (Steve) Carden of Franklin, TN; and Sue (Brian) Jerd of Soddy Daisy, TN.

A proud veteran, Tom served his country honorably in the Korean War. After returning home, he poured his energy into building a meaningful life filled with family, music, and service. He was a longtime and faithful member of Burks United Methodist Church in Hixson, TN, where he was known for his warm smile, steadfast faith, and generous spirit.

Music was a lifelong passion for Tom which was passed down through generations of Wilkinsons. He volunteered at summer band camps, teaching brass to beginning music students well into his 80s. His dedication to music education and mentoring young musicians brought him immense joy and left a lasting impact on countless students.

Tom had a green thumb and a love for gardening, found beauty in music, and was always ready with a joke or a tale. His sense of humor was infectious, and his storytelling made him the heart of every gathering. Above all, he was known for his unwavering willingness to help others. Whether you were family, friend, neighbor, or stranger-he was someone you could count on.

Tom cherished his role as "Papa" to his beloved grandchildren-Matt (Celeste) Kelly, Ashlyn Kelly, Autumn Jerd, and Aaron Jerd -and his great-granddaughter, Elizabeth Kelly, who brought him immeasurable joy. Tom was an avid supporter of their extracurricular activities, always present in the stands, the audience, or the crowd-cheering them on with pride. Whether it was a game, recital, fundraiser, or performance, "Papa" was there.

Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Dawn Wilkinson, and his siblings: Dawn (Bill) Dornbos, Dick (Betty) Wilkinson, Bob (Patricia) Wilkinson Jr., Roger (Donna) Wilkinson, Joe (Donna) Wilkinson, and brother-in-law Bob DeVries.

In addition to his wife, children and grandchildren, he is survived by his sister, LucyAnn DeVries of St. Joseph, MI, and a large, loving extended family of nieces and nephews who adored his warmth, wisdom, and wit.

Tom's life was one of quiet strength, big laughs, and open-hearted service. His legacy lives on in every flower he planted, the music he inspired, and every story retold by those who loved him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.

The family will receive friends on Thursday, August 7, 2025, from 12:30 p.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the funeral home. Services will be on Thursday, August 7, 2025, at 1:00 p.m. in the funeral home chapel with Rev. Dwight Martin officiating. Burial will follow at Chattanooga National Cemetery with military honors provided by the U.S. Army Honor Guard.

A celebration of Tom's life will be held at a later date.

Condolences and memories may be shared at www.williamsonandsons.com.

Arrangements are by Williamson and Sons Funeral Home, 8852 Dayton Pike, Soddy Daisy, TN 37379.