Timothy Leo Nolan MD

Timothy Leo Nolan MD obituary, Rochester, NY

Timothy Leo Nolan MD

Timothy Nolan Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Anthony Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Brighton/Rochester Chapel on Apr. 18, 2025.

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Predeceased by his parents, Leo and Eloise (Shadduck) Nolan; brother-in-law, John Gill Stanley, Jr. Survived by his loving wife of 40 years, Carolyn (Magee) Nolan; son, Christopher (Marissa Perillo) Nolan, MD; siblings, Patricia (Kerry) Prewitt, MD, Kathryn (Jon) Rushdoony; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Constance (Mark) Reger, MD, Mary Louise Stanley, Joseph Magee; nephews, John Gill Stanley III, Kevin Prewitt and David Rushdoony; and niece, Rose Rushdoony.
Timothy L. Nolan, MD, FACP was raised in Northern Virginia and was a proud alumnus of the University of Virginia where he received both his undergraduate ('76) and medical degree ('80), graduating the latter with Alpha Omega Alpha status. He moved to Rochester in 1980 to complete his residency training in Internal Medicine at Strong Memorial Hospital. Despite his initial plan to return to Virginia after residency, Tim met his beautiful wife Carrie while caring for a mutual patient in the ICU in Rochester and thus decided the annual snowfall up here wasn't so bad after all. A self-described expert in procrastination, Mom and Dad dated for many years before finally marrying in Buffalo at Saint Louis Church. After a few more years of procrastination, they finally gave birth to their only son, Christopher.
Tim proudly spent the majority of his medical career in private practice working out of Rochester General and Unity Hospital but spent the last few years of his career caring for veterans at the local VA, which he found most rewarding. While he loved his patients dearly, his most important job was that of a loving husband and father. A caregiver to his core, he retired early to care for his wife and remained devoted to her through his final days.
Tim and Carrie had a lifelong passion for taking family trips to America's National Parks and the Adirondacks. A fount of random trivial knowledge, Tim bonded with his son over medicine, music and a mutual love for history. And of course, the Buffalo Bills. Forever a pessimist, he remained convinced that a Super Bowl victory would forever elude his beloved adopted community, but he promised to see what he could do to help on the other side.
Friends may call to Anthony Funeral Chapel (2305 Monroe Ave., Brighton), Friday, April 25 from 4-7 pm. A Funeral Mass of Christian burial will be held on Saturday, April 26 at 10 am at St. Thomas More Church (2617 East Avenue, Rochester) and all are welcomed to attend. Interment will follow at Mt. Hope Cemetery.

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Jerry Lamb

August 4, 2025

I met Dr. Nolan back in 1987 as he became my Primary Care Doctor. I will always remember him for his thoughtfulness and caring and professionalism. I asked about the beautiful wooden desk he had in his office and I always would ask him about it. He told me the story and when he moved into another building how it was too big to take with him. I felt lost when he told me he was leaving that practice, but mentioned that I was being left in good hands. He was right and I continue to see "Raj" as he called her. During this time I started receiving my care through the VA as well. Low and behold my Primary Care was leaving there, and I found out through the grapevine that he had been interviewed for a position there. When the VA called me and mentioned that my Primary would be changing I asked for Dr. Nolan. They asked why and I told them the story. Surprise he became my Primary there as well! Shocked he was when he saw me for my appointment. Again the desk came up as well as his Son. He told me how he was doing and what his field would be. I said that if he was as good as you, He will be an Excellent Doctor. His reply was "He will be Better"! Of course Tim retired and I would always ask "Raj" if he had heard from him. Then on my last visit I heard the news! I am saddened and at a loss when I heard that. My Thoughts and Prayers go out to the Family on such a Loss to all as well as the Medical Community. He was one of a kind and I am fortunate to have known him for all of those years. R.I.P. My friend.

Lee M. Duke

May 13, 2025

Dear Nolans,
I have read you loving tribute several times celebrating a life well lived and a lasting legacy. Please accept my condolences for your loss and my hope you can find comfort in his love and memories.
Monty Duke
UVA 1976 Med 1980

Karen Duffy

April 23, 2025

I was terribly sorry to read of Tim´s passing. In our younger days at Strong Memorial on the medical service 7-3400 We were all so young . I was a new RN....and we worked so closely together. He was always a bright light, kind , funny , and smart. I knew Carrie through nursing at Strong and I believe our graduate program. I am sending love to you, Carrie and your son and extended family.

Terry Childers

April 22, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. I met Tim during our second year of college and both of us graduated U Va undergraduate and medical school together. He was always so friendly and kind to me. I was shy and he always went out of his way to be a friend . He had a great sense of humor and everyone liked him . Our world was a better place when he was here. Terry Childers class of 1980

Curtis L. Gainey

April 21, 2025

Dr. Nolan was a great physician who treated the veterans population with in the Finger Lakes Healthcare System. A marvelous physician who will truly be missed by all who knew and worked him.

Curtis L. Gainey, SSG, USA (Ret)

Dyane Savino

April 18, 2025

Tim was such a great person. He always had a smile on his face. Tim was such a good friend to my stepdad, Bob Agostinelli. I first met Tim and Carrie at a wine tasting group we had about 25 years ago. We went to each other's houses to learn about wine. When it was the Nolan's turn, they had to pair food with wines from the Loire Valley. Carrie's pairings were spot on. Such a fun few months we all had. So many laughs.

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