Virginia Barbee (Neal) Linder

Virginia Barbee (Neal) Linder obituary, Gray Court, SC

Virginia Barbee (Neal) Linder

Virginia Linder Obituary

Visit the Cremation Society of SC - Westville Funerals - Greenville website to view the full obituary.

Virginia "Jenny" Barbee (Neal) Linder, a vibrant soul known for her spirited nature and loving heart, passed away peacefully on July 11, 2025, in Greenville, SC. Born on February 5, 1984, in Lexington, KY. Jenny was the cherished daughter of Robert Neal and Linda Isbell, and she held dear the memory of her step-father, James Isbell. Her sister Katrina Burns, step-brother David Wyatt, beloved daughter Katelyn "Kate" Boiter, and adored son Noah Boiter will carry her memory forward. Jenny's best friends, Renae Williams and Beth Griffin, stood by her side through thick and thin, and her ex-husband, Matt Linder, shared in the tapestry of her life's journey. With a passion for the simple pleasures, Jenny found joy in the everyday. She was an avid fan of crime TV and game shows galore, which provided endless entertainment intrigue. Her artistic talents shone brightly through her arts and crafts, especially her exquisite wreath-making, which added a touch of beauty to many homes that will live on in her legacy. Jenny's laughter and stories were a staple during her cherished moments with her dear friends Beth and Renae. Her love for DMX and His Radio interchangeably was a testament to her eclectic and vibrant personality. She was a firecracker with a wicked sense of humor. She could make you laugh when you wanted to cry without fail. "The Wizard of Oz" held a special place in Jenny's heart, echoing her belief in courage, heart, and imagination. Pink roses were her favorite flower; the petals atoned to her gentle heart, while the thorns reflected the fierce, tough love she gave. She loved butterflies and bees, both of which mirrored her delicate, yet resilient spirit. She loved gracefully like a butterfly, but could sting like a bee. She will be remembered as a loving mother, a fascinating character, and a woman of great spirit who lived life to the fullest. She moved at her own speed and lit fire to her trail along the way. She will be forever 41. We bid farewell to Jenny, whose life was a vivid tapestry woven with love, laughter, and memories that will endure in the hearts of all who were privileged to know her. Her legacy will continue to inspire and comfort us, as we hold her close in our thoughts and in the stories we share. Jenny's life was a testament to the beauty of embracing each day with an open heart and a spirited soul.

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