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Douglas Carter Obituary
Staunton - Douglas Mitchell Carter, 67, of Staunton, VA, passed away on Friday October 11, 2019 at Shenandoah Hospice House.
He was born on March 13, 1952 in Staunton, a son of the late Roger Alexander, Sr. and Mable (Maupin) Carter.
Prior to retirement, Doug was employed for over 30 years in the Staunton City School System, where he was a teacher and head football coach at Lee High School.
Doug was a 1971 graduate of Robert E. Lee High School. He went on to graduate from North Carolina State University, where he excelled in Football, having been coached by Lou Holtz. He was proud to have played in two Peach Bowls, one Liberty Bowl, and one Astro Blue Bonnet Bowl. He attended a year of Post-Grad at Augusta Military Academy as well.
Doug served the Staunton community for many years. He was active on the board of the African American Heritage Festival, the Festival of Holiday Lights, a member of the Valley Football and Basketball Referee Association, as well as a curator at the Augusta Military Academy Museum.
He is survived by his companion of 30 years, Connie Spitler; two brothers, Roger Carter, Jr. and wife Elizabeth, of Silver Spring, MD, Preston Carter and wife, Jennifer of Staunton; two special friends, Cathy and Carter Lively; two special dogs, Tino and Phillip; and numerous special nieces, nephews, and cousins.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by two brothers, Thomas and Maurice Carter; and a sister, Marion Smith.
A Celebration of Life will be conducted at 1 p.m. on Wednesday, October 16, 2019 at the Henry Funeral Home Chapel. Burial will follow in Oak Lawn Mausoleum and Memory Garden.
The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Tuesday October 15, 2019 at Henry Funeral Home.
Active pallbearers will be Warren Fleming, Russell Wells, Davy Crawford, Chase Hughes, Tom McPherson, Clinton Davis, and Jarrett Hatcher.
Honorary pallbearers will be friends from Augusta Military Academy and former colleagues from Lee High School.
The family would like to thank the nurses and staff of the Shenandoah Hospice House for their kindness and care.
Condolences may be sent to the family online at www.henryfuneralhome.net.
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Memories and Condolences
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Elizabeth Veney-Okoye
October 22, 2019
I will always remember Doug's gentle spirit, smile, and soul. The neighborhood has lost one of it's strongest links. Our prayers are with the family.
Stuart Holsinger
October 16, 2019
I had the pleasure of working with Coach Carter in support of the African American Heritage Festival. We had wonderful conversations regarding his time as an elite athlete and Coach/Teacher at R.E Lee. He was a positive, engaging person, and very humble considering his substantial accomplishments. He was a legendary figure to the hundreds of local athletes he encouraged and coached as young people. Staunton has lost a true pillar of the community.
virginia singleton
October 16, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. May God surround you with his comfort, love and care
Deborah Carter
October 16, 2019
I was sorry to hear about Coach Carter. Yes I still called him that from the old days. He was always was always smiling and joking whenever I talked to him. He will be missed.
Tawanna Crawford
October 16, 2019
Rest in Paradise Coach Carter
Chris Branham
October 16, 2019
I was so glad I was able to see and talk with Coach in the last few weeks. We laughed and as always he made me feel better. When I first met him he was my coach, but more importantly now I consider him a friend. Thanks for everything Coach!
Deke Summers
October 16, 2019
So sorry to hear about "my man". During my four years at R E Lee, Doug was not only my best assistant coach but also a close friend and confidant. May he rest in peace.
Deke Summers, Bluffton, SC
LaLaura Wayland
October 15, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 15, 2019
RIP Coach Carter. He actually made learning fun in History class and worked with me thru some learning curves. I loved to hear all his N.C. state football stories...especially the one about Graceland. He will be missed.
Bruce Doyle, Former Student
David Tibbs
October 15, 2019
Doug was a fine person. I enjoyed working with him and getting to know him over the years. He will be missed.
Jim Ridenour
October 15, 2019
Doug was a fine person. It was such a pleasure to know him. Rest in peace, Doug.
Jay Tutwiler
October 15, 2019
Great man, football legend, coach,teacher, friend-May you Rest In Peace.
Charna Maupin & family
October 15, 2019
Rest in paradise Coach C. You were more than a great coach to me you were my cousin. Youll be greatly missed.
Sarah-Pannell Crenshaw
October 15, 2019
To the Carter Family,
Your brother will be missed by so many. He never greeted anyone without his warm wonderful smile. He has been such a role model to our youth. Just know he is at peace and in the arms of our Lord and Savior.
Gigi Grim
October 15, 2019
Doug was a great friend and a wonderful mentor to the students of the community. Doug was one of a kind.
Louie and Luellan Cash Cash
October 15, 2019
My condolences to all who love Coach Carter.
His genuine smile and caring spirit remains in my heart and mind. Coach was tough and gentle at the same time. My Dad and Coach are surely telling each other jokes in Heaven.
Louie
October 15, 2019
R-I-P Coach Cater, Faith Venable Harrisonburg Va.
Patti Painter Harvey
October 15, 2019
Coach Cater you will be missed. Thanks for teaching me World History at the "Old Lee High school".
John Dudley
October 15, 2019
Connie:
So sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I remember every time we ran into you guys at sporting events he had that Big smile. And always kind words. My thoughts are with in this hard time.
Tania Kincaid (Helmick)
October 15, 2019
Coach Carter you were the best, and always kept me on the straight and narrow which wasn't an easy job for a teacher! I had much respect for you! Seeing you thru the years was such a honor! I will miss your smile and encouraging words! Prayers for the family in the days to come until we see you again!! ❤
Shirley Muterspaw Cote
October 14, 2019
RIP Coach Carter, I will never forget you -you had such a warm smile... In World History 1st day of class, 1st rule was no sleeping in his class, he told us if he caught us sleeping, he would pour water on our head.. lol... Needless to say no one slept in his class...... I had the privilege from time to time to run in to Coach Carter at local grocery stores. He would always take the time to stop and talk to me.. You will be greatly missed by many... Prayers for your family.
Sam n Ells Spears
October 14, 2019
Coach Carter, u was an excellent roll model for me in and out of school. Whenever I would see u especially at the grocery store, u always asked how I was doing ? With that big smile on your face, u made me feel that if I put my minds to it, it was achievable. Thanks for always being encouraging and a friend.
Warren Fleming
October 14, 2019
Doug and I met at Augusta Military Academy and we created a friendship for life. We traveled many roads together and attended many sports activities. Doug was a Humanitarian and great athlete. I will miss my friend but I will never forget him.
John Proia
October 14, 2019
Thanks for the memories, Coach. "Watch for the draw, watch for the screen"
Class of 1978
Mark Loyd
October 14, 2019
I was lucky to have Doug as a friend for many years. He was very kind and always took time to stop and talk . Doug will be greatly missed .
Art Zelaya
October 14, 2019
I was privileged to play next to Doug at AMA...He was our leader and heart of our defense...I will always be greatful for having known him and I will always remember his infectious laugh and his commitment to excellence...RIP teammate...
Edward Carter
October 14, 2019
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy for your loss
Abby McDaniel
October 13, 2019
RIP Coach Carter. You will be missed by so many. My favorite teacher in HS!!
Debbie Whitmore Morris
October 13, 2019
Connie and family,
Doug was loved by many and will be missed. He will live on in memories and all that he passed on to his students. May God grant you His peace and comfort at this time and in the days to come.
Debbie Morris
Class of '71.
October 13, 2019
Douglas was such a good person, he will be missed, so sorry for your loss. Teresa Cook
October 13, 2019
Douglas was such a good person, he will be missed. So sorry for your loss. Teresa Cook
Jessica King
October 13, 2019
Coach Carter kept me out of trouble more than once in school. A little secret though...anytime we didnt want to do our history work we would have someone mention football. His eye would twinkle and off he went. We would chat about his college days until the bell. He had powerful words but used a soft voice. He will be missed.
Linda Foster
October 13, 2019
Connie, Preston and Kenneth, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness and loss. Douglas enjoyed life and all the people he touched through the years. May the love and peace of God be with you.
Dianne Williams
October 13, 2019
Preston and Kenneth my prayers are with you and family at this time. I didn't know your brother and uncle but sounds like he was a wonderful man.
Tammy Henderson
October 13, 2019
I am Saddened To Learn the Passing Of Such A Nice and Very Sweet Man and Teacher. Coach Carter You Will Always Be Missed and Remembered By Your Smile and Soft Voice. RIP Coach Your Former Student Tammy
Libbey and Jasmynne Carter
October 13, 2019
Coach Carter will be greatly missed, loved hearing all of his stories at Coach T's gymnastics camps. Sending prayers to the family.
Chris Barnes
October 13, 2019
I had Coach Carter for World History, he was jovial, kind, and he had a wicked cool sense of humor...And what you learned in his class stuck with you. RIP Coach, you will be greatly missed.
Heather Smith (Gomez)
October 13, 2019
I was asked recently if any teacher made an impact or lasting memory for me. Coach Carter would always say "don't say sorry, just don't do it again." It taught me that actions speak louder than words. This wise advice has stuck with me now for over 30 years! I remember he made jokes a lot and that made him a favorite. Rest in peace Coach Carter...you are appreciated and will be missed! My condolences to the family. I wish you comfort during this difficult time.
Ed Rogerville
October 13, 2019
RIP Cadet. You'll be missed by all. Thank you for your faithful service to AMA and to the museum.
October 13, 2019
To the Carter Family sorry for your lost may the Love of God continue to be with you in times like these we need a Savior in times like these we need a friend.May God continue to Bless and Keep You.
Min. Steve and Janie Durrette
Terry Howard
October 13, 2019
We grew up in the neighborhood together my brother. Will always remember your smile and kind heart and incredible talent as an athlete, coach and mentor. Here's hoping that our paths will cross again and again as we travel the open road.
Crystal Baldwin
October 13, 2019
Coach Carter was a sweet man! I didn't have him as a teacher, but everytime I walked past his room between classes he would tell me I dropped something or my shoe was untied lol. He would get me everytime! I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully this little story will bring a smile to your face. Love and prayers being sent to all the family!
Dennis Webb
October 12, 2019
Doug was a special person and addition and help on my staff. He cared about the kids. I really appreciated my time with him. The Staunton community was well served by his presence
Ray Pitsenbarger
October 12, 2019
Sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I was blessed to have the privilege of officiating basketball with Doug and learned a lot from him. He was a great man and mentor.
Debbie Tyler Leonard
October 12, 2019
Connie and family, Doug was a special and kind person. I was glad to have known him.
Jeff Smith
October 12, 2019
Coach Carter you were the greatest. Thanks for the many years of coaching me.
Bob and Terry Boyle
October 12, 2019
Bob and I are so very sorry for your loss. We pray that your cherished memories of Doug will sustain you through a very difficult time.
Charlotte Pannell-Taylor
October 12, 2019
Peanut, Preston and Family, it seems only yesterday that we were all growing up on Baptist, Caroline and Sunnyside Street. I will always remember Douglas with his infectious smile and kind ways.
My sincere condolences and pray you find comfort in the days to come.
Blessings always
Deborah Wimer-Zills
October 12, 2019
Loved him as a teacher, coach and friend. Robert E Lee Class of 1981.
sharon stewart
October 12, 2019
You were the best teacher i ever had and always remembered you and thought of you all these years. Thank you for your kindess and big heart. Carter with captail CARTER :) RIP
Robert Carter
October 12, 2019
My condolences and prayers go out to the Carter family. My Coach and Cousin, Coach Carter you will truly be missed.
Robert Carter
Robert E Lee Class 1987
Sherry Lilley
October 12, 2019
What a wonderful man, always presenting a smile to whomever he met. A great teacher and fine example of goodness and kindness. He will be missed. Prayers to his family to find comfort in the fond, happy memories.
Leslie (Campbell) Marsh
October 12, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I remember he was a great football player and a grest teacher. Praying for the family during this difficult time.
Jessica Sawyers
October 12, 2019
Coach Carter was always so loving and understanding. I was so honored to have been his student. Honestly, one of my favorite teachers.
Amy Hepler
October 12, 2019
I worked with Mr. Carter at Lee High while I was there for four years. He was always a kind and thoughtful person who could make you smile. I know he will be truly missed.
Tommy Corbett
October 12, 2019
Doug was like big brother to me ,has been apart of Corbett family for years, always a smile when we crossed paths R.I.P Doug Carter
Ruby l Lance
October 12, 2019
May God bless you all in this time of sorrow my prayers are with you
Amanda Redman
October 12, 2019
Coach Carter will be greatly missed and loved by many
Teri Howard
October 12, 2019
I had the good fortune to be in one of Coach Carters first history classes the year he started teaching. He was an excellent teacher and a very caring man. RIP Coach.
Amanda Rodgers
October 12, 2019
It was an honour to be taught by you. It was a joy to have several run ins with you over the years as an adult. You are a special place in all of our hearts.
Donna McConnell
October 12, 2019
Coach Carter was the best, tough yet gentle enough to touch a lot of young hearts. You will always be a part of my childhood memories
Donna Pannell McConnell
Lavern Hart
October 12, 2019
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Lavern Hart &Family
Kurt Hildebrand
October 12, 2019
So very sorry. Coach Carter was a huge influence on my young life as my football and track coach at Lee and a perfect role model. Our prayers go out to his family and friends. Rest In Peace, coach Carter.
Mark Locklear
October 12, 2019
Please accept my sincere sympathy with the death of a leader. mentor, and true friend, Coach Carter. May your sole rest in eternal peace.
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