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Dolores & Tony
May 4, 2023
There is not a day that goes by that you are in my thoughts and I pray for you! My heart knows you are in the best place , but we miss you here on earth! Sure hope you met up with Anthony F my nephew! Love you cousin TWMA Dolores and Tony
Dolores Scalesse
May 4, 2022
Miss you dear cousin ! I think of you Debbie and Joey EVERY SINGLE DAY !
Dolores Scalesse
May 4, 2020
I find it so hard that 6 years have gone by since you left your home here to your final home with our Lord ! Dave there is not a day
That goes by that I dont think of you , and just cant comprehend how and why . :.(
I know you are now in a safer place then we are! Hoping your with Your mom dad Debbie Joey and your Nonies and your Popies . Rest easy cousin , prayer to you ! If you have any pull please watch over all of us through this tough time ! Love you cousin!
Dolores
May 6, 2015
Cousin~
A year is near and I think of you every day ! Cousin you were one STRONG man, not a day goes by with out you in my thoughts. Love and Miss you! And I know your watching over you BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND DON'T EVER STOP they will always feel your spirit and guidance through the blue skys, rainbows, and the rain your spirit is in them. I know you will keep guiding your sister Donna (the ROCK) and Sharon in spirit as you both have two BEAUTIFUL children( Kiley & David) that love you to the moon and back and your in their heart forever! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Dolores
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James Ballard
May 5, 2015
It's one year since David left us all..On the 16th of this month his friend and my best friend Gary Lewis was taken from us.. I'll say this again.. If I know Dave and Gary as well as I do.. They are playing Hockey all the time...Jimmy Ballard
March 28, 2015
A year is near and I think of you every day ! Cousin you were one STRONG man, not a day goes by with out you in my thoughts. Love and Miss you! And I know your watching over you BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND DON'T EVER STOP they will always feel your spirit and guidance through the blue skys, rainbows, and the rain your spirit is in them. I know you will keep guiding your sister Donna (the ROCK) and Sharon in spirit as you both have two BEAUTIFUL children( Kiley & David) that love you to the moon and back and your in their heart forever! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Dolores
March 22, 2015
I know that you are with us. I hear you in odd ways, and I welcome your influence with the kids. Your guidance is needed and appreciated. We didn't plan on this and yet they need you so.
January 19, 2015
My husband, my soul mate; I will miss you forever. And you would tell me to be strong and move on. My heart will never me the same. LY babes
October 10, 2014
David, Forever in my Heart...Still
Sara Cupelli
June 3, 2014
I have just learned of David's passing and I am truly saddened. I remember him from whhs and I know he has been a longstanding member of the West Haven team. My sincere sympathy for your great loss.
May 13, 2014
David was a very close and personal friend of my family for many years. My sister Sandi worked with David in the West Haven Tax Office.David fought a poignant battle with MS,his entire life. He will be missed by many.
May God Bless & Keep You
Christopher M. Vanacore
john mccormack
May 13, 2014
I remember back when my family and i lived across the street from Dave and his family and when he ran for mayor and every time we saw him it was a great pleasure just talking he was a greater person than anyone ever knew he will be greatly missed by all.
Carlene Barabas
May 12, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Cappetta family, with love and codolences the Polo family ~ Frank & Carlene Barabas
May 12, 2014
David, you will be missed by me and all the lives that you have touched. For all the time we've known and spent together there was no finer. "May God Bless You" Juke (Paco)
Linda Robinson
May 12, 2014
To David's family,
I had the honor of working with David in the New Haven Tax office. I will always remember his smile, sense of humor and especially his pride and love for Kiley and David. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time...
Diane Welch
May 12, 2014
My deepest condolences go out to Dave's family and especially to his wife and his 2 beautiful children.
Mike Cusack
May 12, 2014
Knew Dave from the time we were kids. R.I.P. buddy. You always had a smile and a ready laugh. Proud to call you my friend.
bob ciambra Jr.
May 12, 2014
To the Cappetta family
Dave was a great guy.He will be missed by all who knew him may he rest in peace
Bob Ciambra Jr.
Kristina De Mattie Esposito
May 12, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to David's family and friends.. He was a life long friend to my father Albert.. My dad told me such wonderful stories about him.. MAY HE REST IN PEACE IN GODS ARMS! God bless you all
May 12, 2014
To the Cappetta Family -
So sorry for your loss. He was a Great Guy with a Kind Heart, he always had a smile on his face. Our Deepest Sympathy
Chief Peter & Karen Massaro
Doreen Nocereto-Piscitelli
May 12, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go to Dave's family. He was one of my classmates from WHHS class of '73. Everytime I ran into Dave, he always had something positive to say and a smile on his face. So sorry for your loss. Doreen Nocereto Piscitelli
Rosemarie Bradley
May 12, 2014
My deepest condolence to the Capetta family. I will never forget my buddy.
Rose-from Tax Office
Ellen Morrissey-Davey
May 12, 2014
To Dave's Family, Dave was always with a smile, a smart man who was always willing to help. Walking into Dave's office you saw how proud of a father he was and how much he loved his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all on the loss of a GREAT MAN....
Dolores & Tony Scalesse Jr
May 11, 2014
To Julie, Kiley, David, Donna ,
Tony and I send our Love and sincere sympathy . David was a brave man, the love he had for you all will never leave he will be watching over you all so look for the red cardinal and smile that will be him! The love we had as cousins growing up together and staying just as close as we grew was special, and will always cherish them because NO ONE WILL TAKE THE PLACE OF THIS LOVING BRAVE GREAT MAN! You are now with your Mom, Dad, brother Joey and sister Debbie and the best OUR LORD OUR FATHER ! The life we have is just a passing journey, we will all meet one day in our final destination with you in HEAVEN! Rest in Peace Dave xo ::.( my heart will miss you forever!
Love cousins
Dolores and Tony Scalesse
May 11, 2014
A super sweet guy,with a kind HEART and ready smile. My deepest sympathy to the Cappetta family.
Brian O'Connor
May 11, 2014
This is a sad week for me and another great man has been lost. I will miss our late nights, working on Dave's home office making sure he could perform his tax services for the many people he helped. He was not only a client, but a good friend too.
Sue Ashman
May 11, 2014
Such a wonderful guy... My thoughts & prayers to your family....you will be missed ??
nicole vitelli
May 11, 2014
Dave was my boss at the city. He was the best boss in the entire world. I am heavy hearted tonight. RIP Dave.
Art Landry
May 11, 2014
To a good guy and a fellow Lauralton parent. You were an inspiration to many. Godspeed to you and my thoughts and prayers for your family
Joy DeGennaro
May 11, 2014
I am so saddened at David's death. knowing David and Joe from early childhood, growing up on Park Street, they will always hold a spot in my heart. The world is a sadder place for their loss. Everyone that knew them will miss the light they gave out to the world.
May 11, 2014
Julie and family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. All of my love, Betsy Galian
May 11, 2014
I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Dave at the IRS. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.
Armando Gruttadauria
Robin Constantinople-Gorry
May 11, 2014
Thoughts and prayers are with you....Rest in Peace David
Lou Sharretto
May 11, 2014
R.I.P.David,may god hold you in the palms of his warm hands forever and ever.
Lille Carmon
May 11, 2014
My prayers go out to the Capetta Family little David & Kiley .David was a good person I'm so glad I had the pleasure of working with him Rest In Peace my friend.
Neil Shea
May 11, 2014
A true Westie and a super guy. Thanks for all the smiles and laughs Dave. God Bless and watch over us!
Chuck & Terry Lepper
May 11, 2014
My deepest sympathy to Dave's family and Eileen.
There are no words to comfort a broken heart. Dave was a very special man who touched the lives of many & will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him.
Maryellen Launder
May 11, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss Dave was a great man and will truly be missed
James Ballard
May 11, 2014
I'm so very sorry hear that my friend Dave has passed away.. What a wonderful man with all the problems he had to deal with daily.. His Big Smile would light up everyone around him.. I will miss seeing him from time to time.
We that knew Dave will always have a special place in our heart for him.
He is now in God's hands. Jimmy Ballard
May 10, 2014
R.I.P.DAVE YOU MENT MORE TO ME THAN ANYONE I KNOW. LOVE YOU TRULY AND GOING TO MISS YOUR SMILE NO MATTER WHAT EVER HAPPEN. I WILL THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY ,AND YOUR IN PEACE NOW ..SENT MY PRAYS TO YOUR FAMILY
May 10, 2014
Donna, our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of David's family.
Louise and Jack
Becky G
May 10, 2014
Dave was a good man, probably the bravest I've ever known. He will be missed by so many. My love to all who cherished Dave, as a husband, father, brother, uncle, nephew and friend.
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