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CAPPETTA, DAVID A. David A. Cappetta, 58, of West Haven, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loved ones, on Friday, May 9, 2014. Born in New Haven on December 3, 1955, David was the son of Joseph R. and Janet B. Cappetta. An active member of the West Haven community, David was a long-time public servant, serving as West Haven’s Tax Collector, 2nd District City Councilman, and Democratic Town Committee member and most recently as Director of Finance at the West Haven Board of Education. He was frequently called upon to use his finance and accounting skills and willingly served as treasurer for numerous city political campaigns and committees. Additionally, David served 3 terms as Chapter President at the Southern Connecticut Chapter of the Muscular Dystrophy Association, where he brought together his vast network of family and friends to have fun and support the cause. David attended Central Connecticut State University. David worked as a tax auditor for the Internal Revenue Service prior to being elected Tax Collector in West Haven. A Certified Municipal Tax Collector, he also led the New Haven Tax Office. A consummate professional, David was an Enrolled Agent he created and ran a tax preparation and business accounting practice for over 25 years. David leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife, Julie A. Cappetta, his adored children, Kiley L. Cappetta and David A. J. Cappetta and his sister, Donna M. Craig and John W Downs of Carmel, Indiana. He also leaves his nephew and niece, Andrew J. Craig and Lauren M Craig of Carmel, his mother and father-in-law, Shirley and Fred Prekosovich, sister-in-law, Judy, Reginald Streater and nephew R.J. of Cheshire, and his former spouse, Sharon Cappetta of Milford, CT. David also leaves his beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, and his cherished Westies and Park Street friends with whom he maintained life-long friendships. He was predeceased by his parents, his sister Deborah J. Cappetta and his brother, Joseph V. Cappetta. Known for his ready smile, his quick wit and self-deprecating humor, David was called by many names and nicknames, by far his most preferred was simply “Dad”. He will be missed by many. Visitation will take place MONDAY from 4 to 8pm, at the West Haven Funeral Home at the green. Remembrances and prayers will be offered from 7 to 8 pm. On Tuesday morning, all are invited to celebrate a Mass of Christian Burial at 9 o’clock in St. John Vianney Church. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to MDA at 1952 Whitney Avenue, New Haven, CT 06517. To leave an online condolence, please visit www.westhavenfuneral.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register from May 10 to May 11, 2014.

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Dolores & Tony

May 4, 2023

There is not a day that goes by that you are in my thoughts and I pray for you! My heart knows you are in the best place , but we miss you here on earth! Sure hope you met up with Anthony F my nephew! Love you cousin TWMA Dolores and Tony

Dolores Scalesse

May 4, 2022

Miss you dear cousin ! I think of you Debbie and Joey EVERY SINGLE DAY !

Dolores Scalesse

May 4, 2020

I find it so hard that 6 years have gone by since you left your home here to your final home with our Lord ! Dave there is not a day
That goes by that I dont think of you , and just cant comprehend how and why . :.(
I know you are now in a safer place then we are! Hoping your with Your mom dad Debbie Joey and your Nonies and your Popies . Rest easy cousin , prayer to you ! If you have any pull please watch over all of us through this tough time ! Love you cousin!
Dolores

May 6, 2015

Cousin~
A year is near and I think of you every day ! Cousin you were one STRONG man, not a day goes by with out you in my thoughts. Love and Miss you! And I know your watching over you BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND DON'T EVER STOP they will always feel your spirit and guidance through the blue skys, rainbows, and the rain your spirit is in them. I know you will keep guiding your sister Donna (the ROCK) and Sharon in spirit as you both have two BEAUTIFUL children( Kiley & David) that love you to the moon and back and your in their heart forever! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Dolores

James Ballard

May 5, 2015

It's one year since David left us all..On the 16th of this month his friend and my best friend Gary Lewis was taken from us.. I'll say this again.. If I know Dave and Gary as well as I do.. They are playing Hockey all the time...Jimmy Ballard

March 28, 2015

A year is near and I think of you every day ! Cousin you were one STRONG man, not a day goes by with out you in my thoughts. Love and Miss you! And I know your watching over you BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND DON'T EVER STOP they will always feel your spirit and guidance through the blue skys, rainbows, and the rain your spirit is in them. I know you will keep guiding your sister Donna (the ROCK) and Sharon in spirit as you both have two BEAUTIFUL children( Kiley & David) that love you to the moon and back and your in their heart forever! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Dolores

March 22, 2015

I know that you are with us. I hear you in odd ways, and I welcome your influence with the kids. Your guidance is needed and appreciated. We didn't plan on this and yet they need you so.

January 19, 2015

My husband, my soul mate; I will miss you forever. And you would tell me to be strong and move on. My heart will never me the same. LY babes

October 10, 2014

David, Forever in my Heart...Still

Sara Cupelli

June 3, 2014

I have just learned of David's passing and I am truly saddened. I remember him from whhs and I know he has been a longstanding member of the West Haven team. My sincere sympathy for your great loss.

May 13, 2014

David was a very close and personal friend of my family for many years. My sister Sandi worked with David in the West Haven Tax Office.David fought a poignant battle with MS,his entire life. He will be missed by many.

May God Bless & Keep You
Christopher M. Vanacore

john mccormack

May 13, 2014

I remember back when my family and i lived across the street from Dave and his family and when he ran for mayor and every time we saw him it was a great pleasure just talking he was a greater person than anyone ever knew he will be greatly missed by all.

Carlene Barabas

May 12, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Cappetta family, with love and codolences the Polo family ~ Frank & Carlene Barabas

May 12, 2014

David, you will be missed by me and all the lives that you have touched. For all the time we've known and spent together there was no finer. "May God Bless You" Juke (Paco)

Linda Robinson

May 12, 2014

To David's family,
I had the honor of working with David in the New Haven Tax office. I will always remember his smile, sense of humor and especially his pride and love for Kiley and David. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time...

Diane Welch

May 12, 2014

My deepest condolences go out to Dave's family and especially to his wife and his 2 beautiful children.

Mike Cusack

May 12, 2014

Knew Dave from the time we were kids. R.I.P. buddy. You always had a smile and a ready laugh. Proud to call you my friend.

bob ciambra Jr.

May 12, 2014

To the Cappetta family
Dave was a great guy.He will be missed by all who knew him may he rest in peace
Bob Ciambra Jr.

Kristina De Mattie Esposito

May 12, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go out to David's family and friends.. He was a life long friend to my father Albert.. My dad told me such wonderful stories about him.. MAY HE REST IN PEACE IN GODS ARMS! God bless you all

May 12, 2014

To the Cappetta Family -
So sorry for your loss. He was a Great Guy with a Kind Heart, he always had a smile on his face. Our Deepest Sympathy
Chief Peter & Karen Massaro

Doreen Nocereto-Piscitelli

May 12, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go to Dave's family. He was one of my classmates from WHHS class of '73. Everytime I ran into Dave, he always had something positive to say and a smile on his face. So sorry for your loss. Doreen Nocereto Piscitelli

Rosemarie Bradley

May 12, 2014

My deepest condolence to the Capetta family. I will never forget my buddy.
Rose-from Tax Office

Ellen Morrissey-Davey

May 12, 2014

To Dave's Family, Dave was always with a smile, a smart man who was always willing to help. Walking into Dave's office you saw how proud of a father he was and how much he loved his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all on the loss of a GREAT MAN....

Dolores & Tony Scalesse Jr

May 11, 2014

To Julie, Kiley, David, Donna ,
Tony and I send our Love and sincere sympathy . David was a brave man, the love he had for you all will never leave he will be watching over you all so look for the red cardinal and smile that will be him! The love we had as cousins growing up together and staying just as close as we grew was special, and will always cherish them because NO ONE WILL TAKE THE PLACE OF THIS LOVING BRAVE GREAT MAN! You are now with your Mom, Dad, brother Joey and sister Debbie and the best OUR LORD OUR FATHER ! The life we have is just a passing journey, we will all meet one day in our final destination with you in HEAVEN! Rest in Peace Dave xo ::.( my heart will miss you forever!
Love cousins
Dolores and Tony Scalesse

May 11, 2014

A super sweet guy,with a kind HEART and ready smile. My deepest sympathy to the Cappetta family.

Brian O'Connor

May 11, 2014

This is a sad week for me and another great man has been lost. I will miss our late nights, working on Dave's home office making sure he could perform his tax services for the many people he helped. He was not only a client, but a good friend too.

Sue Ashman

May 11, 2014

Such a wonderful guy... My thoughts & prayers to your family....you will be missed ??

nicole vitelli

May 11, 2014

Dave was my boss at the city. He was the best boss in the entire world. I am heavy hearted tonight. RIP Dave.

Art Landry

May 11, 2014

To a good guy and a fellow Lauralton parent. You were an inspiration to many. Godspeed to you and my thoughts and prayers for your family

Joy DeGennaro

May 11, 2014

I am so saddened at David's death. knowing David and Joe from early childhood, growing up on Park Street, they will always hold a spot in my heart. The world is a sadder place for their loss. Everyone that knew them will miss the light they gave out to the world.

May 11, 2014

Julie and family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. All of my love, Betsy Galian

May 11, 2014

I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Dave at the IRS. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.

Armando Gruttadauria

Robin Constantinople-Gorry

May 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers are with you....Rest in Peace David

Lou Sharretto

May 11, 2014

R.I.P.David,may god hold you in the palms of his warm hands forever and ever.

Lille Carmon

May 11, 2014

My prayers go out to the Capetta Family little David & Kiley .David was a good person I'm so glad I had the pleasure of working with him Rest In Peace my friend.

Neil Shea

May 11, 2014

A true Westie and a super guy. Thanks for all the smiles and laughs Dave. God Bless and watch over us!

Chuck & Terry Lepper

May 11, 2014

My deepest sympathy to Dave's family and Eileen.
There are no words to comfort a broken heart. Dave was a very special man who touched the lives of many & will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him.

Maryellen Launder

May 11, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss Dave was a great man and will truly be missed

James Ballard

May 11, 2014

I'm so very sorry hear that my friend Dave has passed away.. What a wonderful man with all the problems he had to deal with daily.. His Big Smile would light up everyone around him.. I will miss seeing him from time to time.
We that knew Dave will always have a special place in our heart for him.
He is now in God's hands. Jimmy Ballard

May 10, 2014

R.I.P.DAVE YOU MENT MORE TO ME THAN ANYONE I KNOW. LOVE YOU TRULY AND GOING TO MISS YOUR SMILE NO MATTER WHAT EVER HAPPEN. I WILL THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY ,AND YOUR IN PEACE NOW ..SENT MY PRAYS TO YOUR FAMILY

May 10, 2014

Donna, our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of David's family.
Louise and Jack

Becky G

May 10, 2014

Dave was a good man, probably the bravest I've ever known. He will be missed by so many. My love to all who cherished Dave, as a husband, father, brother, uncle, nephew and friend.

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