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Thomas Goff Obituary
Thomas Alan Goff
of Newark Valley, NY
Thomas will be deeply missed by his wife, Debra. For nearly 25 years, not a day ever went by that he didn't let her know, in so many ways, that she was the light of his life. She always knew that his adoring love for her was second only to that of his Heavenly Father, Jehovah God. Their mutual devotion to their Best Friend was the foundation for a wonderful, fulfilling marriage. (Ec. 4:12) Most nights the last words spoken by Thomas were sentiments of love and concern for his three beloved children, Tanya (Wheeler), Kyle and Robert. This love and concern was no less for his dearly loved son (in-law), Jesse. Thomas always felt that he had such beautiful children, but today he would be so proud, yet certainly not surprised, at the courage and help that each of them has shown and given in his absence. Thomas was often overwhelmed with joy and love for his three precious grandchildren, Caleb, Alexis and Emilia (his little "Pookie"). Along with young Robert, they were his absolute pride and joy. He was constantly planning for fun times together. Even while recovering from a recent illness, he considered spending time with them to be the best medicine. He loved being Grandpa "Chopped Liver"! All who know and appreciate all of Tom's wonderful qualities should give much thanks to his dear mother, Stella (FL). Tom's strong work ethics were certainly influenced by the example set by his father, Thomas P. (FL). The child they raised became a man who always put the needs and desires of others before his own. A man who found joy in literally putting smiles on people's faces. Most importantly, "Tommy" was given the knowledge he needed to dedicate his life to his Creator. Thomas has five siblings. He had such great respect and admiration for his older brother, Kenneth and his wife, Jenny (FL), along with their fifteen children; they had a very special place in his heart. Tom was grateful for the family he had here including his sister, Lynne and her husband, Darren Cannizzaro and their two sons (Binghamton). He would be especially proud of their strength and help at this time. His brother, Joshua (FL) is truly a free spirit but never fails to show his love and concern, especially in times of need. He was so often in Tom's thoughts and prayers. His sister, Nancy and her husband, Micah Titus and their three children (FL) may have been separated by distance, but never otherwise. He was so proud of his little sister and comforted by her family's ability to "take charge" in difficult, heart-wrenching matters. Thomas was extremely proud of the fine man, husband (of Crissy) and father (of two) that his youngest brother, Nathan has become. Tom enjoyed witnessing his growth on a daily basis as they worked together. Thomas loved and was loved by so many including his in-laws, Robert and Yvonne Reynolds (Johnson City). He always knew he was thought of as a son. He also has three brothers-in-law, Robert Jr.; Randy and wife, Lorie and three children; and Kevin and his two daughters. Kevin, as well as a special niece, Hanna, had definitely captured a piece of his heart. As one of Jehovah's Witnesses, it would be impossible to list all of Tom's spiritual brothers and sisters. Thomas considered it a true gift from God to have such a wonderful, loving worldwide family. He was always greatly comforted by and deeply grateful to his God Jehovah to know that, in the event of his loss, there would be and absolutely are, so many hearts and hands reaching out to his family. Now we long for the day that we are promised, the glorious day when "God's will shall be done on Earth" and when all, including our dearest Thomas, will share in the joy of living together in paradise, just as our Creator meant it to be.
There will be a memorial service for Thomas on Sunday, August 9, 2009, at Traditions at the Glen, 4101 Watson Blvd., Johnson City at 5 p.m. with Douglas Story officiating. Afterwards there will be light refreshments served and time to spend with the family. In lieu of flowers, please hug your special someone a little tighter every night!
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Goff
Emilia Goff
March 9, 2023
Mark Zevotek
September 3, 2009
It took me a long time to know what to write. Not because I couldn't think of anything to write but Tommy's passing made me think an awful lot about our generation. Our generation to me = Me, Tommy , Ronnie Bogert, Doug & Greg Story, Isaac , Dave, Kevin Wagner and yes Kenneth. And how we used to hang out in later years at Willis and Brenda's house.
You know not many people know this but I knew Tommy from Kindergarten on.
We were in school together in West Windsor until we moved to Afton and then we got back together when the Goff's came in to the truth in the Deposit KH.
I remember so much... Tommy , Me, Kenneth and Ronnie watering down the hill behind their house in West Windsor when it had snowed and turning it into an ice slope. And then we went so fast on our sleds that we " flew" across the ditch and on to North Road!
Or when we threw a tomatoe at Kenneth when he was trying to go over a jump up by Goff's garden on his motorbike .. and the tomatoe hit the spark plug... the engine stalled and Kenneth went head over heeels on to the ground. I had never laughed so hard, up to that point.
Or when Doug and I first visited Tommy and Dave at their apartment off South Washington Street, I thought, " Wow, so this is what being a guy living out on your own is like."
I could say alot more. And I know I have not been around much in Binghamton since I left for Brooklyn and then we moved to California. But I think one of the best things I can say is that as many times as I have sat here and looked at Tommy's picture... I have only smiled or laughed and nothing sad has crossed my mind. That says alot.
And more important than any of that is that he was a faithful servant of Jehovah. His future has been solidified... now it is up to us to remain faithful so we can all see him again. And not only see him, but we will no longer have to hurry and go somewhere else, no human imperfections and we get to spend forever with family and friends. And I can see in my minds eye , ( if by Jehoavh's underserved knidness we are there), we are all there at some picnic place and I come up to him and tell him how great it is to see him again.. and I tell him I am sorry that I wasn't around much... he smiles... he puts his arm on my shoulder and he says,
" Don't worry about it. I am just glad to see you. We all had alot of things we needed to do back then. Now introduce me to the rest of your family."
Thanks Tommy.
Mark Zevotek
Whittier , California
Suzy Hacker
September 2, 2009
Goff Family,
I am very sorry for your loss, you truly lost a great great person. I remember Tom from high school, we graduated together. He had a great sense of humor, I remember Tom most for his distinct deep voice. My thoughts are with you at this time.
August 18, 2009
To The Goff Family
Although we don't know you as intimately as so many other friends, we can sympathize with how devastating it is to lose someone you love so dearly. May you find comfort from all your dear friends as you endure your "temporary" loss. Death surely is our enemy and it will be wonderful when it is finally done away with.
(Cor 15:26)
You have the most wonderful support system "The Brotherhood".
May the resurrection hope sustain you.
Ed & Carol Foraker
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Wayne & Bonnie Painter
August 16, 2009
Dear Debi, Kyle, Tanya and Nathan, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We so look forward to welcoming Tom back, after this wicked system is done away with. We know Jehovah will give you the strength to cope with your loss. We send our love.
Debbie Dusinberre
August 15, 2009
Dear Debbie, Lynn, Nate, Nancy and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you daily during this trying time. Keep close to Jehovah who will comfort you.
Christian Love,
Gordon, Debbie, Ben, Aaron and April Dusinberre
August 14, 2009
Deb & Goff family,
My daughter Kelly Lloyd worked for Tom @Riverside Designs and he was wonderful to her. My family would like to extend out heartfelt thoughts of condolence and prayers to the Goff family as Tom was a very gracious and caring gentleman.
Gary & Brenda Portz
Conklin, NY
Tammy Whitehead
August 14, 2009
Stella, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you peace. Ambassador Rehab, Florida
Catherine Stulir
August 13, 2009
Dear Goff family,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your tragedy and loss of one fine, kind, warm, and caring gentleman that Tom was. Tom and Riverside Design Dental was a client and I enjoyed working with him, always so respectful toward everyone. He will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Tom's family
Brenda Beshai
August 13, 2009
Stella we are sorry for your loss,you are in our prayers and thoughts daily.The Rehab Dept at Lake Parker, Florida
Connie Darrow
August 11, 2009
Dear Goff family,
We are so very sorry to hear about Tom, I wasn't sure if it was the Goff family I knew until I read Stellas name in the paper.I went to school with Stella and worked with Tom at the hanger factory in Montrose. We have lost contact since they moved to Fla.I thought the whole family had moved there. We are truely sorry and will keep you in our prayers.
Darlene Bucinell
August 9, 2009
Dear Goff family and Riverside Design family, The community is devastated at the loss of such a well respected, sincere, kind hearted friend to all who knew him. Tom was a perfectionist at work. The manner in which he treated people was impeccable. It pleases my heart to know that he had such a love for Jehovah and comforts me to know he is in eternal paradise and peace. May Jehovah bless and carry you through this very difficult time. Amen.
Stacy Wyszkowski
August 9, 2009
Dear Debbie and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I worked with Tom and am blessed to have known such a caring and wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Art and Kim Burlison
August 9, 2009
Dear Goff Family,
My heart aches in knowing your sadness at a time like this. I wanted to let you know that my family, though a long distance away, is praying that Jehovah comfort you during your time of loss. (2 Cor.1: 3,4) Debra, you don’t know me, and I venture to say that few in the Goff family may remember me, but I was a friend of the family, in a neighboring congregation (Binghamton North) when Nancy, Tommy and Kenneth were growing up. I have fond memories of coming over to the house and playing with Tommy and Kenny when Tommy and I would gang up on Kenneth and tease him about every subject imaginable. Then before leaving getting Sister Goff (Stella) to do that reflexology stuff and rub my feet! Oh, those were great times and fond memories that I will always cherish.
It’s funny how, in Jehovah’s service, it may take us far away from our roots. Yet we all still share that common hope of seeing that last enemy death brought to nothing. (1 Cor. 15:26) Many times it’s hard to think of comforting words to share when a tragedy like this hits so suddenly. But please be assured that all of us are grieving with you and will also rejoice with you in the resurrection of our dear loved ones. A couple of scriptures that were always so comforting to me were the psalmist’s words at Ps 116:15, “Precious in the eyes of Jehovah is the death of his loyal ones.” (Tommy was certainly a loyal one) – and Ps 107:13, “And they began calling to Jehovah for help in their distress; Out of the stresses upon them he as usual saved them.” (You may not think so now, but in time, Jehovah will save you out of your distress…because that’s what He usually does!)
My family and I look forward to meeting you someday and sharing in your joy as we welcome back your dear, loving husband and my childhood friend.
Please accept our condolences… the Burlison’s, Art, Kimberly, Matthew and Rebekah.
August 9, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Goff family and all his relatives. We send our condolences and know that Jehovah will be with you. Although we did not know Tom personally, we look forward to seeing him in the knew system.
Your brother and sister in the faith,
Jacob and Brianya Watkins(Lakeland,FL)
Ernie Giancola
August 9, 2009
I'm blessed to have known Tom , and proud to call him my friend.
Ellany Rayne
August 9, 2009
When I think of Tom Goff, the first thing that comes to mind are those caring eyes and big smile. Tom is in the best of hands and my thoughts and prayers of comfort and peace are with all you who were very close to him while he was in the flesh.
~ Abundant Love & Peace ~
August 8, 2009
Though we have been separated by miles for many years, we remember the Goff family with love. We take heart in knowing that you have a great support system. Please know that you are in our hearts and included in our prayers.
The Rost and Backus family-John, Anne, Jonathan, Jackie, Jared, Jessica and Dawn
Rachel Osborne
August 8, 2009
Stella and the rest of the Goff family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and so grateful that Jehovah has given us hope with the resurrection. Cling to that hope and Jehovah's love with all of your might. Love, Rachel Osborne and family
August 8, 2009
My sincere and heart felt condolences to all of the goff family and those sorrowed by the loss of Thomas, who obviously was an extremely rare and wonderful brother indeed.
Your spiritual brother,
Dan Mastrosimone
Wayne and Sylvia Kerber
August 8, 2009
Our hearts are with you .
Natasia D'Aloisio
August 8, 2009
Uncle Tom was the best uncle anyone could ever ask for. He was always willing to help you out, kind, loving, funny and the list goes on. I always enjoyed going to Aunt Debi's and Uncle Toms to hang out. It was never boring or a dull moment. I miss Uncle Tom very much and I can't wait until the resurrection. I love you Aunt Debi and I still love coming over because after all you are "The Boss".
Donna & Walt Champlin
August 8, 2009
Debbi: You and Tom shared a love and devotion for each other that was wonderful to see. Some day you will walk hand in hand together again sharing that love. Always know we love you and feel your pain.
Aunt Donna and Uncle Walt
Helene Stahl
August 8, 2009
Dear Debbie and family, You are in my heart and prayers from morning till night. Though the grief we share is devastating, we thank Jehovah for the knowlege that Tom is in his memory and you will soon be reunited. In the meantime, we'll all remember his special smile. Much love, Helene Stahl
Amy Braman
August 8, 2009
Tanya and family ... I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this sad time.
Darlene Caforio
August 8, 2009
I love your family very much. My family has been touched by Tom and Deb's love, kindness, and graciousness. I feel so blessed have you as brothers and sisters. You both have set such a fine example for us all. I have such a heavy heart and hold fast to Jehovah's Word. "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” (Rev 21:4)
I love you Deb and family.
Darlene Caforio
Bill (Pookie) Howell
August 7, 2009
I am sorry to say I never met Tom as an adult. The last time I saw him he was about 5 years old. I am Tom P. Goff's first cousin. I have digitized about 2000 photos of the Morse and Goff families from the 40's, 50's and 60's that I am willing to share if someone would contact me. Bill (Pookie) Howell
August 7, 2009
We are sorry about the loss of Tom
Henry and Kim Wilson
Lynda (Lyman)Broadfoot
August 7, 2009
To Tom's family...I had the pleasure of meeting Tom when we worked together at Dr. Raff's dental lab back so many, many years ago. He was a young, warm, kind boy who I enjoyed working with. While he held different religious beliefs, he never preached, but always answered my questions and helped me to understand what his faith was about. Many years went by, and I had seen him a couple of times, but we went down our own different paths. A few months ago I was thrilled to learn that my son's veneer was going to Tom's lab. It was a thrill to see him (and Deb)again and we talked while he color matched the veneer, and our followup appts gave us more time to talk. He was so concerned about getting it perfect for him (and he did!!). It was wonderful to see what an extraordinary life he had created and what a devoted family man he had become. I am so distraught by the circumstances and wish I knew words to comfort you. I thought the best thing I could do was tell you how much I thought of him, and that I'm so saddened that we won't continue to know him, and benefit from his skills and work ethic. I hope you find some comfort in this.
My thoughts go out to Lynne as well and hope she is finding the strength to get through this difficult time.
Lorraine & Arthur Elijah
August 7, 2009
Dearest Debbie,Tonya,Kyle and family, Our heartfelt condolences to you all.
We were torn within when we heard of our dear brother and friend. Tom was always a kind and sweet person. We were blessed to have had the privelege of knowing him as well as you Debbie and the rest of the family over the last 25 plus years. May Jehovah be your strength and shield at this critical and trying time. Please be assured of our warm love for you and all of your family at this time. May we look forward to the future with confidence, knowing we'll all rejoice at our grand family reunion. (Acts 24:15) With Much Love and Our Deepest Sympathy, The Arthur Elijah Family
Dennis Elijah
August 7, 2009
Sorry for the loss of your brother Lynne as well as the rest of the Goff family and friends.
Debby Young
August 7, 2009
Our prayers are with you Stella and your family at this time of sorrow. The Therapy department at Consulate Socrum Loop, Lakeland, Florida
heather and jason shirley
August 7, 2009
Tom was such a wonderful friend and brother. Debbie, please know that you are in our prayers. We thank Jehovah for his wonderful promise of the resurrection, where we will SOON be reuinited with Tom and will enjoy all of the promises that Jehovah holds out to us. All our love, Heather & Jason Shirley
george&sandy russell
August 7, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
John& Nancy Tracy
August 7, 2009
Our families grew up together in NY and we have fond memories of Tommy.
Please know our hearts are heavy with grief with this untimely loss and that the whole family is in our thoughts and prayers.
John, Nancy, Johnny, Wendy, Jill, Danny, Debbie, Michael
August 7, 2009
You're in our prayers,
Jeff & Brenda Champlin
micah titus
August 7, 2009
Tommy was a good,kind-hearted, but strong man. He always knew how to make you feel better if you were down. Always had the right answer.This has left a HUGE hole in his little sister's heart,(Nancy),until we can see him again,very,very soon.I hope I am there to welcome back my bro-in-law.You are in our memory, and I know in Jehovah's . I miss you buddy...c ya soon.
Nancy Goff-Titus
August 7, 2009
I miss you and can't believe you are gone...
Camie Hooks
August 7, 2009
Debbie and Family
You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday, Debbie. I cannot imagine the heartache you are going through. I wish I could be there to give you a hug. Tom was a good man and a wonderful husband for you, and he will truly be missed. Love Aunt Camie & Uncle Dean
Gene Sechrist
August 7, 2009
We`ll all love you dearly as brothers and sisters.We`ll all miss you.
Jeryl Sechrist
August 7, 2009
We`ll love you as brothers and sisters.We`ll all miss you dearly.
Lyn & Bob Baglino
August 7, 2009
We are so sorry about Tom , I know your family and friends will always be at your side to help you though the coming days and down the road. We will be unable to attend the memorial service on Sunday ,but please know that are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love Always Lyn and Bob Baglino and family (Lorie's Mom and Dad)
Tom Nasoni
August 7, 2009
My thouhts & prayers are with you. Tom will be missed by all greatly. He was truly a man of integrity love and compassion for his family as well as others. when I found out about hat happened my heart droped I know he has no regrets about doing what he did. his family was allways first in his like.
Miguel D'Aloisio
August 7, 2009
Uncle Tom was a very great man. I always had fun fishing, camping and sledding with him. He did a lot for us kids. I loved going to our family dinners at his house. He was like a gourmet chef. Of course Aunt Debbie helped too. I will really miss him.
Peggy D'Aloisio
August 7, 2009
We are so glad that we were able to be apart of Tom and Debi's life. They were not only my scriptural brother and sister, but our very best friends. We have had so many good times together and will miss Tom so very much. We do look forward to the day that all things will be made new and we will see our wonderful friend again. Deb, Robbie and Pookie, we love you and we will have to continue the good times!
Robert P. Marier, D.D.S.
August 7, 2009
Tom will be missed not only by his loving family, but by the professional Dental community. He did provide me the ability to literally put a smile on my patients' faces. His work and service to me were excellent. I have known and worked with Tom for over 20 years and he was an important member of my team to provide excellent dental care. I extend my heartfelt condolances to Nathan, his wife and children and all of his "family" at Riverside Designs, who I am sure will carry on Tom's dedication to his art.
August 7, 2009
Our thought and prayers are with your family, Debra. We are so greatful to Tom for all his help with getting our practice running from ground level last March. He was such a great guy and we will sorely miss him.
Dr. Michael Wilson and staff at Wilson Dental, 289 Chenango Street Binghamton
August 7, 2009
Debbie & Family:
Tom was a great man who always put everyone before himself and was there to help who ever needed it. Now he's in the Lord's hands who will now take care of him. Whenever we saw him we could always count on his smile that would touch our hearts. We'll always love him and he'll always have a very special place in our hearts. You all have been and will continue to be in our hearts and prayers during your time of loss and saddness.
David & Ann Marie Knapik
Cathy Wright
August 7, 2009
Deb, My love for you and your family is with you always. I wish we didn't live so far away and could be togehter now. i have always felt we are more like sisters than cousins. call me anytime - I am so sorry for your loss but I am glad to have the priviledge of meeting Tom and to see you finally at peace in your life with him. Love, Cathy
Mr. Roberto Piccirilli and Family
August 7, 2009
We are so grateful to be among those brothers and sisters who had the priviledge to know Tommy. He truly was a good man who Loved Jehovah. He will always be in our hearts and memories. Most important in Jehovah's memory. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Christain love.
Ruth Hanyon
August 7, 2009
Our family has always enjoyed a special relationship with Tom , it was a joy to be a spiritual brother and sister.We are so thankful for Jehovah's arrangement, that makes us all such a close loving family.It was a pleasure through the years to have been associated with Tom in his lab work, I think many,many of us are wearing his crowns & bridge work, He was a super technician..Daddy (Charlie) wants you to know he was glad to be included in Tom's scotch parties..We do miss him, all our love to you & yours, we are here for you. Love, Ruth, Fred & Charlie
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