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David E. Kirkman David Eugene Kirkman passed away Tuesday, March 9, 2010 at his home in Winterville. He was born Oct. 24, 1952, in Winston-Salem, to Raymon Lee and Blanche Helen Kirkman. He was educated at St. John's Lutheran School, R J Reynolds High School and graduated from Western Carolina University. Upon graduation David worked for Bocock Stroud Team Division in Winston-Salem, Lowe's Home Improvement in Washington, N.C., and 15 years at Vermont American and seven years at Asmo in Greenville, where he was awarded for his service during the 1999 flood. In 1992 David married Sandra Kay Bell of Fountain. He is survived by Kay; his brother, Raymon Kirkman of Summerville, S.C.; sister, Julia Kirkman Moore of Winston-Salem; aunt, Violet Turner of Dallas, Texas; nephews Mark Kirkman of Arizona and Jason Kirkman and wife, Alli, of Ridgeville, S.C.; niece, Jessica Moore of Durham; stepchildren, Natalie Haddock and spouse, Chris, of Vanceboro, and Daniel Dilda and wife, Cindy, of Farmville; grandchildren, Christy Lynn and Drew Haddock, Joshua and Erica Dilda and Bradley West; a great-grandchild, Erick. He was predeceased by his parents, his nephew, Jeffrey Kirkman of Nashville, Tenn., and his sister-in-law Jo Kirkman of Summerville, S.C. David donated his body to The Brody School of Medicine at East Carolina University. Family and friends will remember David in a Memorial Service on Saturday, March 20, 2010 at 2 p.m. at the Farmville Funeral Home, Farmville, and later in a private family memorial in Winston-Salem. David loved everybody he touched in his life and was loved in return, but he was especially devoted to his wife and family and will be forever missed by them all. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.farmvillefh.com.

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Published by The Daily Reflector on Mar. 16, 2010.

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Suzie Beard Elliott

March 28, 2010

David and I were born on the same day at Baptist Hospital in Winston-Salem and we were friends for years after we rode the city bus together to our first grade class at St John's Lutheran. We were almost thrown off the bus once for signing at the tops of our lungs but we were only five! I am so sorry for your loss! I'm sure he will be missed by all. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

March 28, 2010

David grew up near the top of "Martin Street hill" and I grew up a short distance down and away... at the corner of Martin and Sherwood. We started school a year early and were kindergarteners together in Miss Rubow's class at St. John's Lutheran.. when it was located just off the Baptist Hospital campus. Later we both attended and graduated from RJR.

Although David played mostly with the kids at his end of Martin Street and I, mostly with kids at my end, we occasionally got together as our mothers were friends. (I even think he may have been playing baseball with us the day that an older batter, Charles Hunt, slugged
me-- a younger, and most unfortunate, catcher-- in the jaw with the bat!)

As a child, I remember liking David's chihuahua puppy (seems he had to have that breed because of asthma). As a teen-ager, I remember liking David's ready smile, seeming acceptance of everyone, and good looks. He was a real cutie! (Was that really forty years ago?!)

Please accept my sincere sympathy upon David's death. May the Lord's peace and comfort be sufficient for each and every family member and friend.

Sincerely, in Christ,
Anna Beth Swain Simmons

Wayne & Melanie Waters

March 25, 2010

We are deeply saddened by your loss. We will cherish the memories of David and the times we spent together. We are with you during this time of grief. Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kay Kirkman

March 19, 2010

It warms my heart to see all the care and love pouring out now for the loss of David. I knew David was a really good man when I married him. His family made me feel like I had always belonged with him. He has to be looking down and smiling in his cute kind of way and saying, it is a pretty good view from here.

Connie Cobb Landen

March 18, 2010

David and I went to middle school and high school together in Winston-Salem. I had not seen him since those high school days when he came up to me at the mall some years ago and introduced himself. It was great to run into someone from "home" in Greenville. We saw each a couple of other times around town and he was always so kind...a really great guy. I know he will be greatly missed by his family and friends. All of you are in my prayers.

March 17, 2010

I heard of David's passing away today from a Facebook friend. I grew up on S. Hawthorne Road just down the street from David's house on Melrose. We had a "bike club" with a group of us kids(probably grade school age) and David was part of our club. He was always the sweetest guy and was nice to everyone.
I remember he had a unique voice and great laugh!! He was in my class of "70 at RJR. I never saw him since the 70's but I just thought of him the other day when talking to a friend about our 40th Reunion coming up in August.
My thoughts will be with his family at this sad time. May God give you comfort and peace at this time.
Nancy Foster Hart
Tyler, Texas

Kyleen and Mike Papadeas

March 17, 2010

Dear Kay and children, Julia and Jessica, Buddy,Mark and Jason, I will remember David with love and admiration for all the goodness he stood for. All my love.Cousin Kyleen

Les & Pam Joy

March 17, 2010

Kay and Family,

David was one of the most known and most loved people in the world. I am sure he never met a true stranger. He brought pleasure to every soul he touched.

David was my brother in Pi Kappa Phi, and a true friend. He was Pam's big brother in the fraternity. He was one of the reasons we even met each other. And he will live forever in our hearts.

Though the time and distance made our contact less and less frequent since leaving WCU, the feelings never changed.

We won't be able to attend the memorial service on Saturday, but please know that our thoughts and prayers will be with you and the memory of David.

Julia Kirkman Moore

March 17, 2010

David was the best brother anyone could have. Jessica and I will miss him forever. He truly loved everyone and wanted to do anything he could to help anyone. We all appreciate all the love and support coming from his friends to us.

Dorothy Grimsley

March 17, 2010

To have friends, you most have been a friend.This was engraved on a platt that was given to him when he first left Vermont American. Truly David was a people person.He loved his job and his employees.To know him was to love him.David was missed very much when he left us at Vermont Americam and i am sure he will be missed also now. Look up to the hills whence cometh our help, our help cometh from the Lord.

Roger

March 16, 2010

I work with David at Vermont American he was a people person and if you had a problem you could go talk to him and he would get you a answer he really was a good person and I am glad I got to know him he was a good person. RB Wash.NC

March 16, 2010

Kay and Family,

We love you all and please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. David was such a wonderful person who shared so much love and happiness. We will forever remember him in our hearts.
Liz Upton and Tommy Peacock

Barbara Yandell Bunn

March 16, 2010

David and I were good friends in High School at R J Reynolds. I will always remember his vibrant personality. Such a wonderful man!!! Please know you and your family are on my mind, in my prayers and very much in my heart. This is just so sad.....

Sam McDonald

March 16, 2010

David and I worked side by side at ASMO for several years. I’ve never known anyone who cared more for the people that worked for him than David. My, but did we have some laughs. Being his co-worker and friend during that time was my honor. My prayers are with Kay and the family.

Stephanie Fields

March 16, 2010

Kay & Julia,
I am so saddened by David's passing. We grew up together and he was a treasured part of my fondest memories. He will remain in my heart always.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Angela Warren

March 16, 2010

Kay,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I worked with David for many years at ASMO and he was such a great person. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

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