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Richard Junius Carling

1937 - 2024

Richard Junius Carling obituary, 1937-2024, Salt Lake City, UT

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Richard Carling Obituary

Richard Junius Carling

1937 - 2024

Richard Junius Carling, age 86, crossed his final finish line on April 30th, 2024, passing away peacefully in Salt Lake City, Utah, surrounded by his beloved family.

Born on December 6, 1937, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to Jacob Junius Carling and Reba Olsen Carling, Richard was the eldest of three children. He grew up in the St. Mary's Park area of Salt Lake City, where he graduated from East High School in 1956.

Two days after returning from a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Southern Australia, Richard met Diane Saxey during a skiing trip at Brighton Ski Resort. From that day forward, Richard and Diane were inseparable. In the summer of 1961, Richard and Diane were married in the Salt Lake Temple, marking the beginning of a union that would span over 62 years.

His family was the central focus and most important part of his life. He loved spending time with his kids, grandkids, and great-grandkids. He actively participated in each of his kids' lives. He attended all school and extracurricular events, always first to offer congratulations on a job well done.

In 1967, Richard began his political career, following recruitment from local Republican Party leaders. He served in the Utah State Legislature for 23 years (1967-1990), including 7 years in the House of Representatives and 16 years in the Senate.

Richard held profound respect and deep affection for the Utah Highway Patrol. To him, the Highway Patrol and the Troopers were family. He was a steadfast advocate, always eager to hear their stories and ensure their well-being. He loved spending time with them and cherished his time serving on the Honorary Colonels.

Post-legislature, he chaired the Commission of Criminal and Juvenile Justice for eight years and served as vice chairman of the ethics committee for the 2002 Winter Olympics. His civic dedication extended to 25 years on the Primary Children's Hospital Governing Board and advisory roles at the U of U College of Nursing. Richard was instrumental in founding the Honorary Colonels, supporting the Utah Highway Patrol for over 33 years. He also served the University of Utah Alumni Association and Emeritus Board with distinction.

At the age of 39, following a health scare on the floor of the Senate, Richard took up running, which soon turned into a passion for marathons. Over his lifetime, he completed more than 175 marathons, including 39 consecutive Boston Marathons and 45 entries in the St. George Marathon. His personal best marathon time of 2:32:21 in 1982 at the St. George Marathon remains a highlight of his athletic career.

Richard's presence in City Creek Canyon transcended running; he became a legendary figure whose spirit and dedication left an unforgettable mark on the local running community. His uplifting presence, friendly demeanor, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who ran alongside him. He was an evangelist for running, successfully convincing many novice runners to register for and complete a marathon.

Richard was a dedicated member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. One of his favorite callings was serving as the chapter advisor for the Sigma Gamma Chi POGO Chapter at the University of Utah. Richard effortlessly integrated himself into the fraternity's dynamic as "one of the guys," earning him the admiration, respect, and affection of its members.

Richard and Diane loved to travel and made friends wherever they went. They loved spending time in Hawaii, especially Maui, where he could be found running "an easy seven up Kaanapali" in the early hours of the morning.

Richard and Diane lived in the same house for over five decades. Richard was a familiar and beloved figure in the neighborhood, known for his enthusiasm and charisma. He was often seen talking with neighbors while gardening with Diane in the evenings.

Richard is survived by his four children: Angie Meyers (Mike), Cindy Carling Cowley (Michael), Teresa Carling Jones, and Douglas Carling (Kellie); 11 grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; and his siblings, DeeAnn Robinson (Clark, deceased) and Mike Carling (Sallie Cheatham Cutler). He was preceded in death by his wife, Diane Saxey Carling, and his parents, Jacob Junius Carling and Reba Olsen Carling Aldous.

Funeral services for Richard will be held at the Crestview Ward, 2795 East Crestview Drive, Salt Lake City on Saturday, May 11, at 12:00 p.m. Viewings will be held on Friday evening, May 10, from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Larkin Sunset Lawn Mortuary, 2350 East 1300 South, Salt Lake City, and Saturday beginning at 10:30 a.m. at the Crestview Ward.

Full obituary and Zoom link to watch the services live:

https://www.larkinmortuary.com/obituary/view/richard-j-carling/

Over 175 Marathons including:

•Boston Marathon: Completed 39 times consecutively, Boston Marathon Quarter Century Club, Ranked 8th in the number of consecutive Bostons in 2017, only 21 people have run more Boston Marathons than Richard as of December 2023

•St. George Marathon: 45 times, inducted into the St. George Marathon Road of Honor, Top 10 finisher 1982, Legend of the St. George Marathon 2011

•Honolulu Marathon: 37 times

•Deseret News Marathon: 40 times

Best Marathon Time: 2:32:21

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune, The Salt Lake Tribune from May 6 to May 9, 2024.

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Chuck Duckworth

November 25, 2024

I just learned of Richard's passing away today. When I was working downtown, I would often chat with Richard at Planet Fitness before he went out for his run. A kind man. A gentleman in every sense of the word.

Cassandra Stark

October 29, 2024

I only found out yesterday which deeply saddened me. I was one of Richard's young, City Creek running friends and looked forward to running into him often. He had a great soul, a big heart, and the best laugh. He is deeply missed.

Jeremy Porter

May 12, 2024

I was one of the countless runners running up and down City Creek that got to know Richard. It was always a treat when he´d stop and visit for a bit and tell you about some of his running accomplishments or even briefly say "looking strong" as we rode past each other.

I´m disappointed I missed this announcement. Would´ve loved to pay my respects directly. I´ll miss his presence in City Creek.

Chuck Davey

May 9, 2024

I knew Richard thru his political evolvement and went to school with his sister Dee Ann. Condolences to all his family and especially Dee Ann

John O'Connell

May 9, 2024

Richard was a law school classmate who added to the experience by his ability to make friends with everybody and keep things pleasant even in heated discussion of fraught issues. I lobbied him when I was director of the public defenders on criminal law issues. He was reform minded and wanted to hear how a proposed law would impact people in the real world. He was one of the very best public servants I ever met.

Thomas N Thompson

May 9, 2024

I only knew Richard Carling as an elite runner (him, not me) and he was the best of the best. Very sorry to hear of his passing.

Larry Alserda

May 8, 2024

Richard, you and I have a lot of the same race finishing shirts. I always expected to see you in City Creek on Saturday mornings or at lunch time on weekdays.
Typically you would have a funny comment and some gentle running related encouragement.

Gary Smith

May 8, 2024

Richard and I grew up together on St. Mary's Drive. He and I and our fathers went together fishing on Fish Lake using the Carling boat--I don't think we caught any fish but had a great time. We attended our church meetings and school classes together. We attended law school together. He has been a great example to me.

Mark Milligan

May 8, 2024

I first met Dick years ago on the bus at Boston, and would then commonly see him in the latter miles of my long runs coming down City Creek. He always gave me a boost with his friendly words of encouragement. While I will sure miss him, he will continue to cheer me on in my memory. Thanks for the continuing inspiration Dick!

Holly Mullen

May 8, 2024

Farewell, Dick. I'll miss your "ambassadorship" in City Creek Canyon. Hoping you and my beautiful Ted Wilson can run a marathon together on the other side. Love to your family. You were a great human.

Mark Williams

May 7, 2024

Dick was a legend in the Salt Lake running community. He was an inspiration to new runners and a great companion on long runs. He was always positive and welcoming. Richard was one of a kind.

Karl Hodges

May 7, 2024

Having City Creek Canyon in my back hard being retired for the last 20 years I spent a lot of time in the canyon meeting Richard more than once a week he being a life long republican and I a long time Dam Democrat as he called me we spent a lot of time teasing each other to much joy and laughter

Stephen Lester

May 7, 2024

Sorry to hear about your loss. Richard was one of my first running friends and paced me through my first marathon, although I was running so slow at the halfway mark I told him to run with some friends that were got by. I knew Richard was a good guy when my dad, who was a State Representative at the time told me he was the only Republican that he liked. I will miss looking for his marathon times.

American Heart Association

May 6, 2024

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Bart Rindlisbacher

May 5, 2024

I first met Senator Carling in 2003 when I ran my first marathon in St. George. As a member of the UHP, we would be taken to the start area in patrol vehicles, and I shared a ride with him almost every year of the 14 that I've done, even last October. He was the nicest and most genuine man, always concerned for others. Every year, upon arrival at the starting area, Mr. Carling would get out of the vehicle and throw up a little, and once told me he did it at every marathon because of nervousness. Regardless, he finished before me every year until his was in his 80s! At my 10 year club induction dinner, he invited me to sit with him and his wife Diane, along with Debbie Zockoll and her husband. Debbie had completed every SG marathon and Mr. Carling all but the first. What an honor! I have much love and respect for this man, and am thankful for the times I got to share with him.

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