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for John Mele
Liana and Ron Jassmann
August 22, 2014
We were so shocked to hear of John's tragic passing. We wish we had the right words to say but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. John will be sorely missed by everyone. You have our sincere and heartfelt sympathy.
Derek Frazier
August 5, 2013
Hey Mele, Thanks for being a good soldier and friend, you were very helpful to me in Iraq OIF3. I cannot think of a more gentler but courageous soldier than you.
linda mele
July 23, 2012
miss u baby love mom 7/23/2012
Kayla Tolley
March 8, 2012
John and I were good friends in high school. He was a sweet guy and I think about him from time to time. He made such an impact. He will forever be in my heart.
Peggy Childers
September 15, 2011
September 14, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. John Mele:
Please accept my remembrance of John on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Craig Fields
November 11, 2010
Thanking you on Veterans Day,God Bless you and your family.
November 9, 2010
May "the God of all comfort" help the Mele family and friends.
mike mele
November 4, 2010
thank you everyone who has signed in memory of my brother
mike mele
JOE HARTER
September 15, 2010
WE SHOULD NEVER FORGET OUR HEROES! GOD BLESS EVERYONE.
Peggy Childers
September 14, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. John Mele:
Remembering John on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
David Spooner
September 16, 2009
I was the maintenance NCO for Echo Co, 1-30 IN BN in Iraq and in the 11th Engineer BN during OIF I. A lot of people do not know that John was in SFC Paul Smith's platoon during OIF I. SFC Smith is the first Soldier to receive the Congessional Medal of Honor for actions during this current war. I can still remember how I felt when I heard that John had passed and thinking "I just talked to him yesterday" John, you are missed, admired and respected.
Hazel martin
September 15, 2009
Mike, Linda and family,
I think about you'all often and just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers!!! Thanks to John and many others, we have our freedom. Love ya Linda
Brad Stueber
September 15, 2009
I want to let John's family and friends know that I and many others are continuing to pray for you. We have not forgotten John's brave and heroic defense of freedom and we have not forgotten you as you face each day thinking of him and missing him so much. God bless each of you and each person who may read this!
Peggy Childers
September 14, 2009
To the family of Sgt. John Mele:
John gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
patti lee
September 3, 2009
We thank him for his ultimate sacrifice and bravery. we will pray for all of our service people that we can find a way to bring them home. our sadened condolences to his family. He is the light of God! We salute you Sgt. Mele. thank you.
May 7, 2009
Dear Mele Family, I am CPL Taylor Harter's Aunt and I am so grateful that my Nephew met and worked with a HERO like SGT Mele. Taylor became a man while learning combat as does happen in war. I thank God he had a leader and mentor he could respect and yes love. The comaraderie and team become a way of life and yes sorrow and grief. We were not priviledged to know SGT Mele none the less we HONOR and RESPECT OUR FALLEN WARRIOR. THANK YOU SGT MELE FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE SACRIFICED. THANK YOU MELE FAMILY. Ms. Johnnie M. McCutcheon Leonardo, N.J.
JOSEPH HARTER
April 28, 2009
THANK YOU SGT MELE FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OR GREAT COIUNTRY, I AM CPL TAYLOR HARTER'S FATHER JOSEPH, AND HAVE HEARD THE GREATEST THINGS ABOUT YOU AND HOW MUCH MY SON ADMIRED YOU AND RESPECTED YOU. YOU GUYS SHARED NOT ONLY QUARTERS TOGETHER BUT A SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP ALMOST LIKE FATHER AND SON. I AM A VIETNAM VET AND KNOW THE BOND THAT YOU HAD, I APPRECIATE YOU TAKING CARE OF MY SON THROUGHOUT YOUR TOUR, TAYLOR WAS WOUNDED AND HAS BEEN AT WALTER REED MEDICAL CENTER FOR A YEAR AND A HALF NOW. THE VERY FIRST TIME THAT I WAS ABLE TO TAKE HIM OUT FOR THE DAY I ASKED HIM WHERE HE WANTED TO GO AND HE SAID "ARLINGTON"TO VISIT YOU, AND THAT WAS SPECIAL.... I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND KNOW THROUGH MY SON THAT YOU ARE AN ANGEL THAT LOOKED AFTER ALL OF YOUR MEN, THANK YOU SGT MELE FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. JOSEPH HARTER
Kenna Larra
December 11, 2008
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Brad Stueber
November 26, 2008
I did not have the privilege of knowing Sgt John Mele, but I do grieve over the passing of his life and I want to honor him for the life he lived and gave for us all. Future generations will be blessed with life and freedom because of him. Our soldiers are the sons and daughters of all Americans and we are very very proud of each one. I will be praying for John's family and friends as long as I have breath in me to do so. I encourage you to close your eyes when you are missing him and remember the times you had with him. You will see his smile, hear his voice, hear him laugh again. John, Thank you for your ultimate of all sacrifices, the giving of your life. We will never forget you. God bless. I hope to meet you when I step from this life into the place prepared for me by Christ, on the other side and I plan to finally meet you there. Until then, rest in peace, son.
In Memory of John ~ (Debra Estep)
September 14, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know John, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Hazel Martin
August 12, 2008
I will keep you all in my prayers. I can't even begin to tell you Linda and Mike the pain and sorrow that I feel for you and your family. My heart is with you....all of you!!!
With Love,
Hazel
July 4, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Mele!
Mrs. Lane Pietrylo
January 1, 2008
I am sorry to learn of Sergeant Mele's death, but I wish to express to you my gratitude for his efforts in the Army. He began serving America and sacrificing for each one of us long before he was called upon to make the ultimate sacrifice. He is worthy of our honor and continued appreciation. Thank you for sharing him with us. A grateful Floridian,
Sgt. Russell E. Massey
October 23, 2007
John is with the Angels now and I am proud that this young man was a Dog face Soldier. His sacrifice will not be in vain and he was one of the greatest generation that we are so fortunate to have now. God bless you and God bless Sgt. John Mele for his service to his fellow man and country.
michael mele
October 14, 2007
I am so lifted by all the kind words and sympathy that all of you have expressed in this site.Johnny was a great son full of dreams and great expectations. He lived life on full throtle balls to the walls and he loved his family and country. He loved his wife and child and was a fine daddy and husband. Is he a hero. I think he is. Did he die in vain . I think not. Once again thank-you all.
Johnny rest next to his poppa Big John in arlington. They always were close and now will be even closer.
October 13, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
elizabeth zahller
October 9, 2007
Dear Loved ones, I wanted to say how sorry and to offer you support and love from our american family that you have not met to yours. Our hearts ache for you for many of us have losed loved ones not only to war but illness and other issues. John was american hero and his commitment and courgage was part of the man he was. I wanted to comfort you and support you in your time of grief that there are many americans arms wraped around you in Prayer and Love to help your family through this the hardest of times. No soldier goes unloved and the same for their family. You are covered in prayers and support. sincerely elizabeth zahller soldiers angels support team
Michelle Chavez
October 6, 2007
Jennie, I am sorry I never stayed in touch but all of you have always been in my heart. I will never forget what you and John did for me in DC during those rough days. I am still in Iraq but will be home soon. I wish nothing but the best for you and Clarissa.
7th grade Louisburg
October 2, 2007
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Angela Stahl (sister-in-law to Stan Blaskowski, brother of Matt)
October 2, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved soldier. We just lost our own hometown soldier, he will be laid to rest this Thursday. Our hearts are broken, you do not grieve alone. Fortunately, we have a Heavenly Father who bears our sorrows with us. May God be with you.
Thank You, Sgt. John Mele, for your sacrifice.
"God sees it so clear
From His throne...
God considers my heartache
His own.
So I will lift up my head
And be strong...
I have a Father
Who watches over
So I need no other
But God."
Remembering SFC Matthew Dale Blaskowski
KIA 9/23/07 in Afghanistan
Our hearts grieve.
Angela Stahl (sister-in-law to Stan Blaskowski, brother of Matt)
October 2, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved soldier. We just lost our own hometown soldier, he will be laid to rest this Thursday. Our hearts are broken, you do not grieve alone. Fortunately, we have a Heavenly Father who bears our sorrows with us. May God be with you.
Thank You, Sgt. John Mele, for your sacrifice.
"God sees it so clear
From His throne...
God considers my heartache
His own.
So I will lift up my head
And be strong...
I have a Father
Who watches over
So I need no other
But God."
Remembering SFC Matthew Dale Blaskowski
KIA 9/23/07 in Afghanistan
Our hearts grieve.
Cheryl Lurz
September 30, 2007
Sgt. John Mele was a GREAT soldier and a wonderful husband and father. He loved his family dearly. I am one of the many that knew him and one of the lucky ones that works with his wonderful wife, and have heard the wonderful things she has said about him. Just an all around great guy. He will be sorely missed, and Jennie said it right when she said "He died doing what he loved best, Being a soldier" What more could one ask for. God Bless you SGT. John Mele. We will take good care of Jennie & Clarissa. Rest assured I am sure we will hear of many more GREAT stories, and in time might even hear some of the funny ones. REST IN PEACE.
Tammy Holloway
September 29, 2007
Jennie, Clarissa, and all John's family,
Just know that we are thinkging of you and you all are in my prayers.
John was such a wonderful dad and husband, and as far as young married couples go, I have NEVER seen two people more in love with each other. Jennie, I know how much you love John, and I hope that you guys can begin to heal now.
My favorite memory of John was a time he was reading "cat in the hat" book. The way he was reading it was hillarious, and Jennie and I were just laughing at him so hard. I will never forget it, and I will never forget him.
Thank you John for your friendship, laughs, and sacrifice. And Thank you Jennie for your sacrifice, we all know it was the ultimate one. I miss you and I love you forever!!
Tammy H.
CPT Jason Wong
September 28, 2007
I worked with (then) SPC Mele in 2005 during OIF III when he was transferred to work with the GST at the US Embassy in Baghdad. He was kind and eager to learn, demonstrating the quiet proficiency of an NCO. My heart felt condolences go out to SGT Mele's friends and family.
Sherri Criswell
September 27, 2007
My prayers are with the family. My heart is with you, as I have a son stationed at Ft. Stewart, 3rd ID 293rd MP CO and currently serving in Iraq. As a parent of a soldier, my heart and thoughts are with you during this time. Sgt. John Mele has served his country and family with Honor and Dignity. May you all be blessed this day and always.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
September 27, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Mele family in the loss of John. I did not know John, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. John you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there frequently. Each time I am at ANC I will remember John.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
joe & gail pack
September 26, 2007
god bless your soul, john and i pray for your family. i do not know you personally, only through my son(andrew medley)which was john's neighbor & friend. i thank him for his hard and courageous duty he fulfilled for his country. again, i thank you john
Ann-Marie Stubbs
September 26, 2007
Dear Family members I am one of Tammy's cousins and I might not have known John personally, but I am praying for you. I am so sorry for your loss. I know that I he must have been a brave and wonderful husband and father.
Tootie Mele
September 24, 2007
Dear family members - We are so sorry for the loss of John. Having had a brother killed in Viet Nam in 1969 I know the sorrow you are experiencing. Our son Paul is serving in Iraq now, and he wanted the family to know he was able to attend the Memorial service there for John. He said it was a wonderful service and a video was made, which will be sent to the family. Paul and John were able to meet each other during the funeral of John's grandfather and Paul's uncle John. We are so proud of John for his heroism. God bless you all. Aunt Tootie and Uncle Al
September 24, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Mele and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Gina Wyatt
September 23, 2007
I am one of (many) first cousins of John William's father, Michael Mele. Michael and I grew up in a large family in the Washington D.C. area. Michael's father (John William's grandfather) and my mother were brother and sister, and loved each other very much. I remember growing up with Michael and thinking what a charming young man he was. I did not have the chance to meet John William, and I really regret that. I do know that Uncle Johnny (John William's grandfather) as well as my father and many others in our family are extremely proud of John, and we consider him a hero. I am just sorry I didn't have the chance to meet this fine young man. I have told my 5 year old son that he has a relative who was a soldier and a hero, and he is pretty interested in that...Our hearts go out to Michael, Linda and to John's brothers from your cousin Gina (LaRita's daughter), husband Whitney and our son Jack here in California.
Keeping our family safe in Bunnell. Thank you John R.I.P.
Christopher Hogan
September 23, 2007
To the family of John Mele. Our hearts are with you here in Bunnell
michelle poppell
September 23, 2007
Dear Jennie and Clarissa,You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will forever be greatful for the day John gave of himself to help in our fundraiser.It was a wonderful day and a day I will cherish. I hope you know John, you and Clarissa are loved by all. We are all proud of our hero John, and forever thankful of his sacrifice. God Bless you and your family.
September 22, 2007
In this day and time, a hero is hard to find. Your loved one paid the ultimate price for our freedom and I would like to Thank him for laying down his life for all of us! May God give you the peace and comfort to get through this difficult time in your lives! He is now an Angel watching over all of you! Thank You John for what you did for my family and the rest of the people in the United States! May you forever Rest in Peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A Georgia Mom
September 22, 2007
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR
September 21, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Sergeant Mele. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. His life and his love of country epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe him ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… his family!!!
Justin Mele
September 21, 2007
Dear Mele family,
I'm really not sure what to say I feel for you I am also in the military and I am sorry for all who have lost loved ones! I don't know if we are but I believe we are related some how or another! my name is Justin Mele and grandfather is louis mele out of price utah! once a again I'm sorry for loss and I hope God blesses your whole family!
Ken, Mariann Rogers
September 21, 2007
Jennie & Family
Just want to tell you that we are here for you and your family. We pray that God will keep you in his care and see you through. As I told Carlissa, John is truely a HERO and we thank God for him. Please call on us if you need anything.
John & Marcia Carter
September 21, 2007
Dear Mele Family,
As greatful Americans, we offer our sincere condolences to you. Being a member of a family full of veterans & active duty members, my heart aches for you. My prayerful hope is that you allow GOD'S strength and mercy to comfort you during this time of grief.
Respectfully,
John & Marcia Carter
Cathy
September 20, 2007
I have a true sorrow in my heart for your loss as I have that same feeling for all of the families of our men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice. May God be with you.
Shelley Edwards
September 20, 2007
He is truly a hero to all, just like all of the other soldiers over there. I am sorry for the Mele family. May God Bless You All!
Matthew Dorsey
September 20, 2007
To the family of SGT Mele,
I worked with John during his deployment to OIF III as part of the DIVENG cell. I was in the GI&S Cell under DIVENG. I pulled several long shifts of guard duty with him. His current commander was at the time a staff officer in DIVENG. Out of the entire DIVENG, then SPC Mele and CPT T were easily the most professional and personable Soldiers in DIVENG. I could always have a good conversation with SGT Mele. The Army has lost a great Soldier, and a better person. My deepest sympathy and gratitude go to his family and fellow Soldiers. My prayers are with you.
Becky Chamlbess
September 20, 2007
Dear Jennie, Clarissa and family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and help see you though this difficult time. Becky Chambless and Family
the family of a Soldier
September 20, 2007
I didn't know John,But he was a Hero in the eyes of many people.The things he has done for everyone in this country want be forgotton.My heart goes out to your family and friends,and you all are in my thouhts and prayers.May God keep you and guide you throught this time in your lifes.
Evelyn
September 20, 2007
May God comfort your family and may your loved one rest in peace.
Pam Macchio
September 20, 2007
May you find comfort through God and hold close the wonderful memories of your hero.We give thanks for our freedome that your husband was a part of securing.
debbi rivers
September 20, 2007
To the parents and family of John, I want you to know that I share in the grief you are now feeling. So many times there are so many unanswered questions and those are the ones we take to God for Him to answer. I too am the mother of a fallen soldier. I would like to offer any emotional support you may need when you want to reach out. If you want to vent, cry, talk or share memories I will be here for you. May God give you the strength you will need in the coming days and weeks ahead and wrap His healing arms around you.
In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006
David and Shirley Hogan
September 20, 2007
To the Mele family, God bless you in your time of sorrow, and the prayers of so many are with you during this time. Your husband died a hero to our country, and we thank you for allowing him to protect us. His sacrifice to our country was the ultimate, and we pray that your memories and God's love will sustain you through these difficult times. God bless you all.
Angie McMickle
September 20, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I would like to say thank you to your family and the hero that you and the nation have lost. Thank you for standing by him and thank you to him for standing up for the USA.
September 20, 2007
To:The Mele Family-I am so sorry about your loss.John-was an "true American Hero"..God will give you comfort and strength in this time of grief.God will never,never leave nor forsake you!!!He is our best friend...You all are in our hearts,thoughts,and prayers.With Deepest Sympathy & In Christian Love-Benilda Harden & Family
Becky Porter
September 20, 2007
My heart is broken for you, the family of this fine American soldier. May God pour out His strength, His tender mercies on you all in the days ahead. As a fellow American, know that I can NEVER thank your precious soldier enough for giving his life for me. There are only 2 people that would die for you......Jesus Christ and the American soldier.
Mary Cash
September 20, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of tragedy. Please know your husband's sacrifice is not in vain and will not be forgotten
Julie Montano
September 19, 2007
To the family of Sgt. John Mele,
Words cannot convey my pain and sorrow for the loss of John. My son Joshua was killed In Iraq also in June. They were together at Ft. Stewart and then in Iraq. My son thought alot of him. I regret ever getting the opportunity to meet him along with Josh's other brothers still there. I have prayed every day and every night for their safe return. Please know that your family is in our hearts and prayers. This is a journey I have prayed so hard to keep anyone else from traveling. I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I know at this time words seem to be a foreign language to us. But please know that the tears I shed for Josh are also for John. If you ever would like to talk or just another who understands please dont hesitate to contact me. Sometimes after family and friends move on we are still stuck in a void. But it helps to have another to walk that long road with you.
"God held him tight as he released his last breath, and a new lil angel was born through his death."
Proud mother of Spc. Joshua S. Modgling (KIA 06-19-07 Muhamad Al Ali, Iraq)US Army 1st BN, 30th Infantry Reg, 2nd BCT, 3rd ID.
Carol Cline
September 19, 2007
Sgt. John Mele & Family:
Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Craig Fields
September 19, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the Mele and Jones family.I did not know John personally but your sister Lyn always spoke of his kindness and love of Jenny.Please know that my heart is heavy for you and your family.God bless the Heroes of this country.
Sandy Bonesteel
September 19, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
SHIRLEY DONEY
September 18, 2007
REST IN PEACE JOHN, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Valorie
September 18, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Gale Poindexter
September 18, 2007
I am writing to offer my condolences to your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt John Mele. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com
He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT -KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
September 18, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Garnet Jenkins
September 18, 2007
The price Sgt. John Mele and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten. Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of your Brave Young Soldier.
May John rest safely now, in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of God be with the Mele family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~
May you find Peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Will Not Forget John's Sacrifice.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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