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Harry J Durso
December 18, 2024
John and I had one of the greatest conversations of my life when he called me to congratulate me on a write up in the Villanova Magazine right before he passed. I thanked him for being such a great friend to me at Villanova and for taking over my job driving children to school whenever I needed him. His most precious gift was telling me to have total peace about our school days and to drop any past grievances because we were blessed with the greatest years of our life. God Bless You John Constantine
Rick Clark
January 26, 2024
Sure miss John's smile and our get together's. We would chat, drink the good stuff and maybe even smoke a cigar.
Harry Durso
January 26, 2024
My memories of John are ones of joy and great friendship. I will remember him always and the lessons in life that he taught me right up to the end. I´m still learning John. God Bless!
Michael Gurski
December 15, 2023
Dear Debra and family,
Have been wanting to share this photo with you. We traveled to SF and met our youngest and her husband. I reached out to John and he gave me some tips on where to go, etc. We met for dinner at Scoma's and he gave us a tip to eat at Tomasso's (one of the BEST Italian meals EVER). This photo was taken after dinner. The folder he's holding is photos from when we were at Villanova! I mean it was SO organized and I remember thinking to myself, "Only someone like John would do something like this and know where he had it!" :-) I had been to SF on business several times, but never realized you guys we so close! Hope this finds you in good health and making the best of this holiday season. Mike Gurski
Steve M
December 8, 2023
Debra - My condolences on your loss. I just found out on December 8 and was saddened by the loss of my dear friend from our Atari days in the 70´s/80´s. I will never forget our fun times and the positive impact he had on me.
Regards,
Steve
Harry J.Durso BA 72MA 74 VU
September 7, 2023
I just found out ion Sept 7 2023 that my dear friend John passed. He called me last year when I was mentioned in the alumni magazine and I had a chance to thank him for being such a great friend at Villanova I put myself through school by driving disabled children to school. The route was long and difficult. John would take it over when I needed to be away and he never wanted to get paid for helping me. His last phone call to me was to remind me that those years at Villanova were truly blessed!
I will remember John as a great ritualistic and fraternity brother and as a true friend who called me fifty years later to congratulate me and send me peace. I will miss him forever God Bless You John We enjoyed the best time of our life together. Harry J
Durso 72 BA 74 MA VU
Michele Taylor
April 9, 2023
Debra,
I am saddened to learn of John´s passing and will miss his great warm friendly smile in the Grill and wine events at Claremont. It was a pleasure for me to briefly visit with you, the girls and John at a dinner you enjoyed as a family in the Grill.
He was beaming with pride in sharing his " Wildcat" alma mater with Alexandra. I will always remember his grand smile voice and laughter coupled with his knowledge and enjoyment of wine at the CCC corks and forks.
My sincere love and prayers to you and your family.
Much Love
Joel Toste
March 30, 2023
John played In the Clarinet section of the Urquhart Memorial Concert Band for many Years. As the conductor of the band, I know I speak for the whole band in expressing our Condolences to his family. John was always very friendly to all the band members.
I am sorry that I was not aware of his memorial service. I would have liked to attend.
Michael Gurski
February 7, 2023
John, what could I POSSIBLY add to that wonderful memorial. Glad we got to connect during my visit to SF and at our 45th reunion at VU. Glad you had a chance to meet my wife and one of our kids, too!!!
Robert V. Haines
February 7, 2023
Wishing you peace and comfort at this most difficult time. John was a truly great brother to me back in the day at Villanova. We pledged Lambda Chi Alpha together and I remember going home to Smithtown with John to see if his sister would be my date for a fraternity dinner dance. John's parents and his sister Anne gave me the thumbs up. Now that's a brother! John could and did bring energy to any room he was in. He will missed. My sincere condolences to all in the family. Unfortunately I will be out of the country for the celebration of Johns life. Please know I will be there in spirit.
Coleen Mulhern
February 6, 2023
John brought grace and good humor to all of his interactions. I was proud to know John as a fellow Villanovan and president of the Northern California Chapter of our University. He worked tirelessly for years in leading our wonderful chapter!!
May you Rest in Peace Dear John. My condolences to your family and friends. I am saying prayers for all that have known and loved you.
Donna Wray
February 5, 2023
John was a true gem! He will be missed dearly by everyone whose path he crossed. Such a fun loving, kind, enthusiastic person will live in our hearts forever!
kirk
February 5, 2023
Debra,
This is a beautiful story. Kirk
Jack Hallahan
February 5, 2023
Last week we lost a dear friend and lifelong Wildcat.
John was deeply involved with Northern California Villanova Alumni Leadership for decades, serving as our President for 6 years and more recently as President Emeritus where his guidance, positivity, and enthusiasm will be sorely missed.
For those who attended basketball game watches over the past decade, you no doubt heard John leading a rousing rendition of "V" for Villanova interspersed with countless "Let's go Nova!" chants!
He truly enjoyed mingling with young and not so young alumni at every event, making a point to seek out new faces while re-engaging his many friends along the way.
John will be smiling down on us whenever we cheer for Villanova as we continue upholding his tradition of spreading warmth and spirit at alumni gatherings.
If you're humming "V" for Villanova right now, you're humming John's favorite tune!
Jack Hallahan
President
Villanova Club of Northern California
Frank Byrt, Wolfeboro, N.H.
February 4, 2023
I knew John for 50 years, meeting at our first post-college jobs in NYC. Later, we had a ski group that did week long trips for about 20 of those years, all over the West, from Aspen to B.C., Canada and everywhere in between. Great adventures, laughs and memories.
Ray Notton
February 3, 2023
Great friend for 50 years will be greatly missed.
jon macks
February 1, 2023
A mentor to me when I was in college, an inspiration to remind us all to enjoy life and laughter, fun and friendship
Steve Peterson
February 1, 2023
This smile sums it all about John. Always interested in how to help plus a great friend. We shared lots of laughs and fun moments together. He will be missed! He was very proud of his family and greatly loved Debra. Between the Club, bridge and his other volunteer activities his role as retired was full time fun.
He called me a few weeks ago to discuss Nova basketball and that he was keeping up with the team as always. Way too early for a man that had so much more love to share with the community.
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