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John Constantine Obituary

John Constantine
March 10, 1951 - January 28, 2023
John Constantine - a larger-than-life personality to friends everywhere - was born in
Flushing, Queens, in New York on March 10, 1951. He was the eldest child of Constantine "Gus" Constantine and Sophie Klarides Constantine, shared his name with a famous Hellblazer comic and many other Greek men, and was one of a kind. He genuinely loved people and always saw the best in them. He was a great conversationalist, networker/connector, and enjoyed talking with anyone and everyone. He could "work a room" with ease.
The Constantine family moved all around the East Coast during John's childhood, including stops in Port Washington and Smithtown in Long Island, New York as well as Great Barrington, Massachusetts. There, John made great, life-long friends and learned about business and hard work thanks to time spent in the family's delicatessen and bowling alley/restaurant endeavors.
John's interest in business led him to Villanova University to get his degree from the Villanova School of Business, where he became a loyal Wildcat and member of both the school band – playing clarinet - and Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity. Everyone he spent time with at Villanova remained a cherished friend throughout his life. March became John's favorite month to show his admiration and support for his alma mater - clad in blue and white to cheer on his "Cats" during March Madness.
John began his career in finance at Hertz on the East Coast. When his family moved to San Diego, he decided to also move West and continued working in finance at Warner. When Warner acquired Atari, it paved the way for the "golden days" of his career. At Atari, he helped globalize operations for the iconic video game brand while living abroad in Hong Kong and London. His time in China led him to take on roles as president of the Americas at Bondwell, General Electronics, and Elite Industrial Group and drove him to share his knowledge and expertise while on the board of the Hong Kong Association of Northern California.
John fell madly in love with his wife - Debra Anne Cardella Constantine - when they were both living in San Francisco and met at a Bay Club party in 1984. They were engaged and married in 1985. Family and friends who came from near and far for their wedding now note that it was the beginning of their tradition of hosting visitors in the Bay Area. Many more memories were made as John and Debra moved to Piedmont and joined various organizations together – including Piedmont Newcomers and Neighbors and Claremont Country Club – that helped start and foster their loving community of friends.
John and Debra welcomed twin girls - Alexandra Patrina Constantine and Jonna Michelle Constantine - in January 1987. John was an active cheerleader in the early extracurricular activities of "The Girls" and grew into their trusted confidant in financial, business, and life advice. John enjoyed being a fellow Wildcat with Alexandra. He was endlessly proud of his daughters' professional and personal accomplishments - big and small. They inherited his laughter - even in life's most challenging moments - as well as keeping in touch with friends all over the country and world.
While John always had an appreciation for the finer things in life, he was deemed a "poster child" for retirement and enjoyed dedicating time to the things he already loved as well as trying out new activities. As a long-time member of the East Bay Wine Group, he also tasted wines with the Friends of the Grape (FOG) in San Francisco. He learned new games - especially bridge and golf - that kept him challenged and social. Serving the community allowed him to spend time with wonderful friends, new and old. He held many committee positions at Claremont Country Club and as a volunteer with the Ascension Cathedral's annual Golf Tournament and Greek Festival. John also continued his love of playing the clarinet in Urquhart Concert Band and in the Piedmont 4th of July Parade. He was committed to Mended Hearts - an organization that gives hope to heart disease patients, their families, and caregivers. John also continued his college-era connections in the Bay Area with the Villanova NorCal Alumni community, where he served as president for many years, as well as advising the Lambda Chi Alpha chapter at UC Berkeley.
For an endlessly optimistic and easy-going guy, John encountered many difficult health issues recently that he could not overcome. He left this life on January 28, 2023, which was way too soon.
John is survived by his heartbroken wife, Debra, and daughters Alexandra and Jonna.
Private funeral services were held, Wednesday February 1, 2023 at 1:30pm at the Alameda Funeral and Cremation Services Chapel, 1415 Oak Street, Alameda. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date. In leu of flowers his family prefers that memorial contributions be made to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (lls.org)
For further information please call Harry W. Greer, Funeral Director (FDR-745), Alameda Funeral and Cremation Services, 510-522-6020

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 1 to Feb. 2, 2023.

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Harry J Durso

December 18, 2024

John and I had one of the greatest conversations of my life when he called me to congratulate me on a write up in the Villanova Magazine right before he passed. I thanked him for being such a great friend to me at Villanova and for taking over my job driving children to school whenever I needed him. His most precious gift was telling me to have total peace about our school days and to drop any past grievances because we were blessed with the greatest years of our life. God Bless You John Constantine

Rick Clark

January 26, 2024

Sure miss John's smile and our get together's. We would chat, drink the good stuff and maybe even smoke a cigar.

Harry Durso

January 26, 2024

My memories of John are ones of joy and great friendship. I will remember him always and the lessons in life that he taught me right up to the end. I´m still learning John. God Bless!

Michael Gurski

December 15, 2023

Dear Debra and family,
Have been wanting to share this photo with you. We traveled to SF and met our youngest and her husband. I reached out to John and he gave me some tips on where to go, etc. We met for dinner at Scoma's and he gave us a tip to eat at Tomasso's (one of the BEST Italian meals EVER). This photo was taken after dinner. The folder he's holding is photos from when we were at Villanova! I mean it was SO organized and I remember thinking to myself, "Only someone like John would do something like this and know where he had it!" :-) I had been to SF on business several times, but never realized you guys we so close! Hope this finds you in good health and making the best of this holiday season. Mike Gurski

Steve M

December 8, 2023

Debra - My condolences on your loss. I just found out on December 8 and was saddened by the loss of my dear friend from our Atari days in the 70´s/80´s. I will never forget our fun times and the positive impact he had on me.
Regards,
Steve

Harry J.Durso BA 72MA 74 VU

September 7, 2023

I just found out ion Sept 7 2023 that my dear friend John passed. He called me last year when I was mentioned in the alumni magazine and I had a chance to thank him for being such a great friend at Villanova I put myself through school by driving disabled children to school. The route was long and difficult. John would take it over when I needed to be away and he never wanted to get paid for helping me. His last phone call to me was to remind me that those years at Villanova were truly blessed!
I will remember John as a great ritualistic and fraternity brother and as a true friend who called me fifty years later to congratulate me and send me peace. I will miss him forever God Bless You John We enjoyed the best time of our life together. Harry J
Durso 72 BA 74 MA VU

Michele Taylor

April 9, 2023

Debra,
I am saddened to learn of John´s passing and will miss his great warm friendly smile in the Grill and wine events at Claremont. It was a pleasure for me to briefly visit with you, the girls and John at a dinner you enjoyed as a family in the Grill.
He was beaming with pride in sharing his " Wildcat" alma mater with Alexandra. I will always remember his grand smile voice and laughter coupled with his knowledge and enjoyment of wine at the CCC corks and forks.
My sincere love and prayers to you and your family.
Much Love

Joel Toste

March 30, 2023

John played In the Clarinet section of the Urquhart Memorial Concert Band for many Years. As the conductor of the band, I know I speak for the whole band in expressing our Condolences to his family. John was always very friendly to all the band members.
I am sorry that I was not aware of his memorial service. I would have liked to attend.

Michael Gurski

February 7, 2023

John, what could I POSSIBLY add to that wonderful memorial. Glad we got to connect during my visit to SF and at our 45th reunion at VU. Glad you had a chance to meet my wife and one of our kids, too!!!

Robert V. Haines

February 7, 2023

Wishing you peace and comfort at this most difficult time. John was a truly great brother to me back in the day at Villanova. We pledged Lambda Chi Alpha together and I remember going home to Smithtown with John to see if his sister would be my date for a fraternity dinner dance. John's parents and his sister Anne gave me the thumbs up. Now that's a brother! John could and did bring energy to any room he was in. He will missed. My sincere condolences to all in the family. Unfortunately I will be out of the country for the celebration of Johns life. Please know I will be there in spirit.

Coleen Mulhern

February 6, 2023

John brought grace and good humor to all of his interactions. I was proud to know John as a fellow Villanovan and president of the Northern California Chapter of our University. He worked tirelessly for years in leading our wonderful chapter!!

May you Rest in Peace Dear John. My condolences to your family and friends. I am saying prayers for all that have known and loved you.

Donna Wray

February 5, 2023

John was a true gem! He will be missed dearly by everyone whose path he crossed. Such a fun loving, kind, enthusiastic person will live in our hearts forever!

kirk

February 5, 2023

Debra,

This is a beautiful story. Kirk

Jack Hallahan

February 5, 2023

Last week we lost a dear friend and lifelong Wildcat.
John was deeply involved with Northern California Villanova Alumni Leadership for decades, serving as our President for 6 years and more recently as President Emeritus where his guidance, positivity, and enthusiasm will be sorely missed.

For those who attended basketball game watches over the past decade, you no doubt heard John leading a rousing rendition of "V" for Villanova interspersed with countless "Let's go Nova!" chants!

He truly enjoyed mingling with young and not so young alumni at every event, making a point to seek out new faces while re-engaging his many friends along the way.

John will be smiling down on us whenever we cheer for Villanova as we continue upholding his tradition of spreading warmth and spirit at alumni gatherings.

If you're humming "V" for Villanova right now, you're humming John's favorite tune!

Jack Hallahan
President
Villanova Club of Northern California

Frank Byrt, Wolfeboro, N.H.

February 4, 2023

I knew John for 50 years, meeting at our first post-college jobs in NYC. Later, we had a ski group that did week long trips for about 20 of those years, all over the West, from Aspen to B.C., Canada and everywhere in between. Great adventures, laughs and memories.

Ray Notton

February 3, 2023

Great friend for 50 years will be greatly missed.

jon macks

February 1, 2023

A mentor to me when I was in college, an inspiration to remind us all to enjoy life and laughter, fun and friendship

Steve Peterson

February 1, 2023

This smile sums it all about John. Always interested in how to help plus a great friend. We shared lots of laughs and fun moments together. He will be missed! He was very proud of his family and greatly loved Debra. Between the Club, bridge and his other volunteer activities his role as retired was full time fun.
He called me a few weeks ago to discuss Nova basketball and that he was keeping up with the team as always. Way too early for a man that had so much more love to share with the community.

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