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Shelby Colette Isabella "Bella" Olsen

2000 - 2019

Shelby Colette Isabella "Bella" Olsen obituary, 2000-2019, Gales Ferry, CT

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Shelby Olsen Obituary

Gales Ferry - Shelby Colette Isabella Olsen, 19, "Bella" to those who knew and loved her, "Buggah" to her adoring cousins, of Gales Ferry and Charlestown, R.I., died Thursday, June 20, 2019, the result of injuries sustained in a motor vehicle accident.

Shelby was born May 21, 2000, in Norwich, the daughter of Lola Grace Colette and Thomas Wayne Olsen, baby sister to Alexis Victoria Grace Olsen. She was a member of Ledyard High School's graduating Class of 2018 and just completed a very successful freshman year at her mother's alma mater, Emmanuel College in Boston, where she was a member of the women's soccer team and earned a place on the Dean's List both semesters, as she pursued her studies in Psychology.

A vibrant force of nature, Shelby was intelligent, articulate, and animated. With her father, she shared a passion for soccer, and they spent countless hours watching games, sharing clips, and travelling the region as Shelby competed with Southeast Soccer Club. With her mother, she shared a thirst for knowledge, and they loved sharing books or debating current issues. With her sister, she shared an unbreakable bond that stretched through Barbies and bike riding well into adulthood. And with all who loved her, she shared herself, quick with a joke, a hug, or a few well-shaped words of encouragement.

In her time at Ledyard High School, Shelby was an athlete, a singer, and a studious young woman who graduated with highest honors. Some of her proudest accomplishments were her tenure as the President of the Ledyard Regional Chapter of the FFA and her acceptance into a special group of like-minded changemakers when she was named as a Martin Luther King, Jr. Scholar.

Shelby is survived by her parents and their partners, Patrick Knapp (and his sons, Michael and Conor) and Cindy Olsen (and her daughters, Julia Driscoll and Shelby Morrison); her sister Alexis Victoria Grace Olsen and partner Michael O'Callaghan; her maternal grandparents, Luis and Jenny Suarez; and her maternal great-grandfather, Juan Vazquez Sr.; her paternal grandparents, Wayne and Kathy Olsen; her aunts, Jennifer (Christopher) Natale and Amanda (Tim) Fagan; her uncles, Michael (Michele) Olsen and Patrick Olsen; and three sets of three cousins - Noah, Max, and Jake Werling; Zoe, Xara, and Ezri Olsen; and Boden, Declan, and Hope Fagan - who believed the sun rose and set with her beautiful soul.

The family will receive relatives and friends from 5 to 7 p.m. Tuesday, June 25, at the Neilan Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Wednesday, June 26, at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic church in Gales Ferry. Interment will be private.

In lieu of flowers, please continue Shelby's legacy with a donation in her name to the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Scholarship Trust Fund, via mlktrustfund.org or by mail to PO Box 1308, New London, CT 06320.

Online condolences may be shared with Shelby's family at www.neilanfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jun. 23, 2019.

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Nancy Baron

July 2, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to all of Shelby's family.

The Solivita Diamonds Softball Team (friends of Shelby's grandfather, Luis Suarez)

Sharon Mastrangelo

June 30, 2019

My daughter, Megan Mastrangelo, played soccer with Shelby at Emmanuel. They became fast friends. Megan spoke often about Shel and the times they spent together. One of the last times was a Red Sox game. I didn't know your daughter I knew of her kindness and her uniqueness through Megan who treasured her friendship. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. May time heal and memories comfort you always
Sharon & Stephen Mastrangelo

STEPHEN AQUINO

June 26, 2019

TOM OLSON & FAMILY - MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES ON YOUR LOSS.MY FAMILIES THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

June 26, 2019

Ms. Colette and family,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. I hope you find comfort in your memories of her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

~Natalie Helme and family

June 26, 2019

I have fond memories of Shelby from UMCCC! She and my son were avid readers and would talk about books! She kindly brought in a set of Magic Treehouse books for him because she thought he'd like them! Always a kind girl! Our thoughts are with her and her family!

Kurt Jannke

June 26, 2019

Tom, Lola, Amanda, Alexis and Family: You all have been in my thoughts every moment of every day since this has happened. So sorry for your loss. Sending you all the love in the world all day every day.

Kailah Johnson

June 25, 2019

I wish I could be in Connecticut to be with old friends and family to help send off lanterns for Shelby. I hope that it all goes well. I remember being in chorus with her back in middle school and she was always just so amazing and was always a shining star back then just as much as she was leading up to this. She was beautiful inside and out & she left way too soon. My deepest condolences to the Olsen family.

Tony and Gerrie Bastia (Pauls parents)

June 25, 2019

We will continue to pray for peace to fill your hearts at this time of unspeakable sorrow. May your memories of Shelbys beautiful life bring solace to you all. You gave her life and made her the wonderful person she was.
All our love and prayers are with you.

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Elizabeth Goddard

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Richard Pasqualini

June 25, 2019

There are no words that we can share that can take away the pain and heartache. Our hearts broke as yours, the memories of our families enjoying Bella's infectious personality and smile. Bella was an angel who touched many people's lives in different ways. My family has Bella and all of you in our prayers.

Lori Burton

June 25, 2019

Alexis, Laura, Tom, and Family- We are so very sorry and saddened by the tragic loss of Shelby. May your beautiful memories help to comfort you. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Skip and Lori Burton

Prof. Sean Langlais

June 24, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers to all those fortunate enough to have known this now bright star in the heavens.

Paula Bell

June 23, 2019

Dearest Lola and family,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. While I never met Bella, she was known to me through your smiles, through the way your face would light up when talking about your girls, and your unabashed joy at describing Bella's accomplishments! My heart breaks for you... There is a hole in the universe...
Love,
Paula (Bell)

janet Mislick

June 23, 2019

My heart hurts for the pain the family has at this time. I never met Bella but her grandmother Jenny was so proud of her Bella, she was so loved. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all. May your memories, your faith and the love of your family give you strength to endure the pain.

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Gina Pyzalski

June 23, 2019

With deepest sympathies-

Dawn Penman

June 23, 2019

I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful young woman. While I didn't know her personally, I do know her aunt Jenny well and know just how much she was loved and will be missed. My heart breaks for this family. Please accept my condolences at this most difficult time.

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Mass of Christian Burial

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