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David Jacobsen Obituary
David B. Jacobsen, of 16 Shudaben Road, Ithaca, passed away on Thursday, February 28, 2013 at Cayuga Medical Center, surrounded by his loving family and dedicated colleagues.
Born on April 30, 1957, David was the son of the late Dr. Dwight Jacobsen and Marjorie (Stickle) Balch. After graduating from Pennfield High School in Battlecreek Michigan, he attended the CS Wilson School of Respiratory Therapy in Johnson City, NY becoming a Certified Respiratory Therapist. For the past 33 years, David has worked for Cayuga Medical Center as a Respiratory Therapist.
David was a member of the Ithaca VFW Men's Auxiliary and enjoyed spending as much time outdoors as possible boating and gathering with friends and family around a bonfire. Most importantly, David cherished time spent with his wife, sons, daughters-in-law, and little buddy, Ryan.
David is survived by his wife, Rachel Tagliavento Jacobsen of Ithaca; two sons, Andrew (Lacey) of Trumansburg and Daniel (Heather) Jacobsen of Watkins Glen; a grandson and love of his life, Ryan; three brothers, Dwight (Joan), Dr. Eric (Belinda), and Christopher Jacobsen; a sister, Susan Young; best buddy, Bryan Merry; mother-in-law, Betty Tagliavento; two brothers-in-law, Joseph (Agnes) and Jack (Sheila) Tagliavento; several nieces and nephews; and his dog and cat, Maggie May and Chester. In addition to his parents, David was preceded in death by his grandparents, Clara and Jay Stickle; and father-in-law, Joseph Tagliavento.
The family will be present to receive friends from 1:00 to 4:00PM on Sunday, March 3, 2013 at the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home, 23 South Street, Trumansburg. Funeral Services will immediately follow, at 4:00PM, at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks those who wish to make a contribution in David's memory to kindly consider the Franziska Rackers Center, 3226 Wilkins Road, Ithaca, NY 14850 or the Enfield Fire & Rescue Squad, 172 Enfield Main Road, Ithaca, NY 14850.
For additional information, please contact the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home, 23 South St, Trumansburg at 1-888-534-5446 or www.ness-sibley.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Jacobsen
Laura Marcy
March 14, 2013
Dave was so kind to me last October when I was a patient at CMC. I can't believe this, he was so encouraging and caring, what a terrible loss. You are in my prayers.
Dwight Jacobsen
March 6, 2013
We wanted to say a heart felt "Thank You" to all of my brother Dave's extended family, friends and fellow workers. Your out pouring of love and memories of Dave have blessed us richly during this deep loss for our family.
We pray God's deepest comfort to you all.
Dwight and Joan Jacobsen, and family
Emerson Family, Senno Family
March 6, 2013
My family and I are so very sad for your loss and the loss of a very excellent health care provider. "Dr. Dave" as he was known to our family was always there for us when my grandmother, my mother, my aunts and uncles, etc... all needed him, whether it was for health reasons or support. He helped us all through the very difficult times we faced, especially when my grandmother spent so much of her life in CMC..."Dr. Dave" was always there to brighten the room for her, and I thank him so much for everything he did for our family. He is such a wonderful person and God truly does take the best from us all. My family and I send our prayers to you and your family at this time. Please know he is in a good place, and my grandmother is right there with him making sure he is ok. She truly loved "Dr. Dave" God Bless You and Your Family.
Wendy Seeley
March 5, 2013
Rachel, and boys I am sorry for your loss, Dave was a good man. I can remember the days when Daniel and Richie played baseball together, Dave always had a smile on his face especially whenever Daniel was playing. He will be in your hearts and thoughts always.
Nancy Ramsden
March 5, 2013
Lacey, Andrew & family of Dave's, I had the great priviledge of working for a short time with this wonderful man, my heart goes out to all of you for your loss.I am so sad for you right now. Love you girl
Robin Morse
March 5, 2013
Dear Rachel,
Words can not express how you must feel. My shock at hearing this makes my heart ache for you and your sons. I will keep you in prayer dear friend. There are many things in this world that just can not be explained and this is certainly one of them......
much love, Robin
March 5, 2013
Dear Rachel, Andrew, Daniel and families,
I am so sorry to learn of David's death. All of us here at my office remember him very fondly from the days when he and Daniel made their monthly orthodontic visits. Please know that we share your grief during this difficult time for all of you.
With love and sympathy,
Steve Hand and Office staff
Patty Desjarlais/Littell
March 4, 2013
Rachel- Many miles, many lifetimes, many memories. I am so deeply saddened by Dave's passing. He was such a part of life, a privledge to work with,he was so wonderful to care for my parents and sister with his skill,compassion and always ready smile. I will miss my dear friend, but always hold the fond memories. Please accept my deepest sympathy for you and your family. May you find peace in this darkest of times. Patty
Joyce Boyer
March 4, 2013
To the Jacobsen,
I worked with Dave at CMC for 20 years. He was always the calm one when ever things got stressful. He will be missed. My prayers go out to the family.
Joyce Boyer
March 4, 2013
To the Jacobsen Family,
I worked with Dave at CMC for 20 years. He was always the calm one when things got stressful. He had a way of making everyone around him feel comfortable. we'll miss him very much.
Debbie Sloughter
March 4, 2013
My thoughts and prayer go with this family, so very sorry for your loss! hold your good memories close to your heart!
Rhonda Dellinger
March 4, 2013
Agnes and family, My sincerest condolences go out to you and your family. May knowing that others care and are keeping you in their thoughts and prayers give you strength during this difficult time.
Martha Hannah
March 4, 2013
To the Jacobsen Family,
Dave was one of the first people I met at CMC 27 years ago and I was impressed with his caring for patients, clinical skills, and kindness and friendliness to all those around him. He never waivered from that first impression.
My deepest sympathy to you all.
Donna Weston
March 4, 2013
Rachel and family, Dave will surely be missed. Many fond memories from working with him at CMC. His friendliness, Knowledge and helpfulness will always be remembered. Prayers for you all.
Sue Yaniello
March 3, 2013
Just can't believe your gone. Dan my heart aches for you and your family .
Debbie Curtis (Carpenter)
March 3, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Bret Pearsall
March 2, 2013
Dave,
Nicolina and I have been reminiscing for the last few days. We just missed you only 10 minutes away when we got the final call. We loved you, it was always a highlight of the last 10 years when I would get to see you and talk about life. Love you man Bret, Nic and Kylie
March 2, 2013
Rachel, Andy and Danny and families- we are so very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. Our hearts go out to you. We are praying hard for you all and are hoping that being with friends and family will give you some semblance of comfort. Reading these entries confirms what a well loved and respected man Dave was and it has always been obvious how very much he loved all of you. We will have you in our thoughts throughout the coming weeks and months.
Brent, Robin, Erin and Jack Gregory
kelley o'hora
March 2, 2013
words can't express this loss....always in our thoughts we love you lacey , andy and ryan
Bonnie Howell
March 2, 2013
Even though we haven't seen each as often in the past few years, I will so miss knowing he's there. Whenever I visited CMC and ran into him, we'd reminisce about old times. He'd kid me about talking to my picture, and I'd call him my "Dennis the Menace Gone Good" A great guy who will be missed by all of us who were lucky enough to call him friend.
CJ Hines
March 2, 2013
A life cut short, there are many who will not know Dave's smile, his compassion, his caring. So very much like his father, he was! God bless Rachel, Andy, Danny, and all the othera who had the privilege to know him. We are so grateful.
pat gerace
March 2, 2013
rach,andy&daniel,we love and will always miss dave,but i will always be there for you with all my love pat(lucy)
Jacquie Wright
March 2, 2013
The world truly lost a special angel in this wonderful man. Dave was a constant, calming presence no matter what the situation. He will be sorely missed. Please accept my sympathies.
Cayuga Medical Center
March 2, 2013
Dave's kindness to patients, friendly face and dry sense of humor will be missed by all of us here. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. Love from all your coworkers in the ICU.
Susan Kaulen
March 2, 2013
Rachel, Andy and Danny, Where do I start. I was devistated when Rodney called me with the news. I have so fond memories and we shared so many good times. My favorite memory is when Randy Sterling was working the switchboard and IPD. David called and was talking about his dog stuck in the tree in a little old ladies voice. I remember him saying that Randy was banging the phone on the desk because this little old lady would not stop talking. He will forever be in my heart. Susie (Besemer) Kaulen
William R. Eisenhardt
March 2, 2013
My deepest sympathy to your family, such a great family and neighbor people. May the LORD be with him always and with this family.
March 2, 2013
Jacobsen family-
Dave was a great guy. He was a constant in my ever stressful career as a new nurse. Always ready with a smile and a great sense of humor. He loved you all, and always had a story to tell about the boys. I was always grateful to know he was working, he made the day a bit brighter.
Stacy Hayward
March 2, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Dave worked along side me for 25 years. He was a kind and gentile man. He taught me so much,not only as a co-worker but as a person. I can only hope his wisdom will continue to guide us all as we care for our patients. May his warm nature and positive memories help to console you at this time in each of your lives. All my love.
Denise Hubbell
March 2, 2013
Dave will be missed by all that knew him. He was a great person.
Thoughts and prayers going out to his family.
lynne stevens-siddell
March 2, 2013
Rachael so sorry to read this on my computer. I don't live in Lansing anymore so I bring the obits up on my computer everyday. He was to young to go. My sympathy to you and your sons.
Luke Rumsey
March 2, 2013
Rachel, Dan & Andy I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May the beloved memories of Dave shared at this difficult time help ease your pain and the closeness of your family and friends help lighten your sorrow. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
The PT staff located at Island Health and Fitness
March 2, 2013
To Dave' family and friends
Our deepest sympathies to you all. He was a great asset to the CMC staff and will be missed by all.
Terri Dash
March 2, 2013
Rachel,Andy,Dan,our hearts are heavy for your loss. We will alsways remember Dave for his kindness and compassion and always making us feel at home.Dave will always be in our hearts. Love you very much, Ed,Terri,Marc
Helen Jacobsen
March 2, 2013
Rachael and boys, I was so sorry to hear of Dave's death this morning. Know that my thoughts and arms are around you. It has to be hard with your recent surgery etc. I have many fond memories of you both.
March 2, 2013
Rachel, I was sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I always enjoyed working with him and he always greeted me when I would see him at the hospital. Way too soon for him to leave you. Fondly, Molly Davenport
Cal Wood
March 2, 2013
Rachel Please accept my sincere condolences on Dave's passing. I remember him with such warmth and fondness. He was one of my favorite people at CMC. May God's love surround and comfort you now and forever.
Chris Mainville
March 2, 2013
Rachel I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Dave will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brittany Morse
March 2, 2013
Dan and Andy, I am deeply saddened by the loss of your father. Every time I saw your dad he was talking about how proud he was of you both. He was always smiling and in such a great mood. What a wonderful man he was! Stay strong during this difficult time. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Just know while he gone physically, he is with you all in spirit.
Glenda Abbey
March 2, 2013
My thoughts are with you. Dave helped my father greatly while he was at CMC. My father really enjoyed the conversation he had with Dave.
March 2, 2013
RACHEL WE ARE SO SORRY ABOUT DAVE.OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. ART AND DORIS
Barbara & Jack Walters
March 2, 2013
Rachel & family. we were so sorry to hear of your loss.I am glad your family us so close to you and can comfort you. Dave is in Heaven now and I am sure he and your father are enjoying having a joyful reunion there. We will try and get to see you this summer. Barbara & Jack Walters.
Dianna Ink
March 2, 2013
To David's family and friends. David was always kind to me when I worked at the hospital and he took really good care of me when I was in the ER with Pneumonia. He was wonderful with my grandma before she died too. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sheila VanDeWeert
March 2, 2013
Dave was a wonderful guy. I met him when he was taking care of my dad at the hospital. My dad thought the world of him and always wanted him. I'm sorry for your loss, he will be missed.
Sheila VanDeWeert
Gracie
March 2, 2013
Will miss David's smile around CMC. My thoughts are with his family and close friends
Randy Sterling
March 2, 2013
Rachel and family-my deep sense of loss. Enjoyed many cups of coffee when you guys lived on E Tompkins St., while I was " on patrol". He was a fine and kind man with always a wide smile.
Cricket Purcell
March 2, 2013
Racheal and family,
So sorry to hear of Dave passing my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jen Porter
March 2, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you! God Bless and rest in peace Dave!
Mary Hayward
March 2, 2013
Rachel and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. He was great to work with and loved to update me on the family, know you were loved. RIP my friend.
Karen and Kandy
March 2, 2013
we will miss you David and the fun we shared at the Bon fires.May the good lord watch over you on this journey.Your one of the nice's men I knew.God bless you David.
March 2, 2013
What a nice person Dave was. Will miss you at CMC and all the help you gave our patients and family.
Sue
CMC
Admissions
March 2, 2013
We will be celebrating your life Dave. We will miss you and really miss your sense of humor and the friendship we had for almost 21 years and we will cherish that. We send our prayers to your family.
Amy and Darlen
Admissions CMC
Tammie Chavez
March 2, 2013
we are thinking about u an your family if u need anything call. our prays are with u
March 1, 2013
Rachel our family is thinking of you and your sons at this time of sorrow..Theresa Linda Butch Robert and Margaret Miller..
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