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John Mayfield

October 20, 1940 - August 7, 2025

John Mayfield lived life with an authentic spirit and infectious enthusiasm that drew people to him wherever he went. Whether he was calling ducks at dawn, bush-hogging his beloved Dinwiddie property, or turning any experience into an unforgettable story, John had a gift for making ordinary moments extraordinary.

John graduated from Freeman High School in 1958 and went on to get a Bachelor of Science degree from Virginia Tech. He was a successful sales professional and business owner in the print and direct mail industry, John especially cherished his work-family at Mailing Services, Inc. But it was his ability to connect with people from all walks of life that truly set him apart. John had an engaging personality and was unusually well-liked by everyone he met.

John's adventurous spirit showed early - as a teenager, he made a memorable (if unsuccessful) attempt to jump Tuckahoe Creek in a '49 Plymouth. Later, he would enlist friends to help him dismantle a log cabin in just two days, relocate it, and rebuild it over two years, laying every brick of the chimney himself. He was a master duck and turkey caller, though he always pointed out that it didn't matter what he got hunting-he just loved being out there.

His passions were simple but profound: cultivating wildflowers and vegetables in his garden, reading biographies and Progressive Farmer magazine, riding his ATV through the countryside, and creating magical family vacations with his grandchildren who affectionately called him "Bubs" or "Buff". John married his high school sweetheart Becky at St. Matthew's Church, where they continued to worship and enjoy fellowship with many dear friends throughout their marriage.

John is survived by his beloved wife, Becky; his daughter, Carty Hebert and son, Jack Mayfield and their spouses, Jim Hebert and Sarah Thompson Mayfield; sister, Charlotte Farrar and sister-in-law, Betty Abernathy; and six grandchildren, Thomas, Clayton, Tucker, Jackson, Henley and Alston.

Whether John was at Skillet Hill, in Mathews, or in Dinwiddie, sharing a newsprint-covered table loaded with crabs, a plate of sweetbreads at Mamma Zu, perfectly grilled ribs, sitting in a hunting blind or just being with his family…..when everything was just as it should be, John would smile and say, "It's a beautiful thing!"

And indeed it is.

A memorial service will be held Thursday, August 14, 2025 at 2 p.m. at Saint Matthews Episcopal Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the church.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Aug. 10, 2025.

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Vivian Rome

August 26, 2025

Becky, I was so sorry to hear of John´s passing. You and he were one of the first couples we met at St. Matthew´s Church, and I have some wonderful memories of times there, like the Young Adults group that we started. John was always gregarious, jolly, witty, and fun to be around.
I know it will be hard for you without him. Sending all my love,
Vivian Rome

Missy Jordan Henderson

August 24, 2025

Becky, I was so sorry to hear about John. I will always remember his hearty laugh. I hope you are doing ok.

Whit Smith

August 15, 2025

I remember Johnny during the 1950's/early 1960's when I was a boy and neighbor on Sunderland Road in the Westham area. He was six years my senior. He was athletic then and remember him swimming and diving at the Kimbrough's pool across the street. I also remember his sister, Cissy, and her horse which she stabled in the backyard. Nice memories from those early years! My sympathy to all, Whit Smith

Sandra Wooddon

August 13, 2025

You have my deepest sympathy and condolences. I am so sorry for your loss as well as my loss. John is a good man and loving man. He always treated me like family not just John but his family too. John I´m gonna miss you so much. But you have gain your wings so rest in paradise.. God I´m gonna miss you. I love you John Mayfield and your family..

German Club Alumni Foundation

August 13, 2025

The German Club Alumni Foundation (Virginia Tech) mourns the loss of one of our own. Our condolences go out to John's family and friends.

Janet Bland

August 11, 2025

I also remember going to the Diamond to watch baseball and he also let you bring your family what a wonderful man

Janet Bland

August 11, 2025

I knew Mr. Mayfield from Mailing Service he was a delight to be around and often invited us to his home to his fish fry crab fest My condolences to the family and God bless you in your time of grief

Bernice and Kenny Wyatt

August 10, 2025

Thinking of all the family.

Jerilynn Grigsby

August 10, 2025

My deepest sympathy to Betsy and family.

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