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Phyllis Utt Lester

1944 - 2021

Phyllis Utt Lester obituary, 1944-2021, Powhatan, FL

Phyllis Lester Obituary

LESTER, Mrs. Phyllis Utt, 76, of Tampa, Fla., formerly of Powhatan, Va., passed away peacefully in the early hour of Easter morning, April 4, 2021. Phyllis's spirit is carried on by her husband of 54 years, Tom Lester; her children, Barri Lester (Courtney Hardin), Kerry Paone (Dan Paone); three grandchildren, Isla, Luke and Effy Paone; three brothers, Doug Utt (Georgia Utt), Edwin Utt (Karen Utt) and Jesse Utt (Linda Utt); as well as a host of nieces, nephews and friends.

Phyllis touched down and began a life of adventure on December 1, 1944, in Mt. Airy, N.C., where she spent her first six years enjoying the scenic beauty and playground that the mountains in southwest Virginia offered. Her family moved to Powhatan, Va., in 1951, where she grew up and graduated from Powhatan High School in 1963. During this time, Phyllis met Tom Lester, also of Powhatan, dated and fell in love with him as she continued her studies at Longwood College. In 1966, Phyllis and Tom married and in 1967, Phyllis graduated with her bachelor's degree in Business Education. She began teaching high school business classes soon thereafter for approximately five years. Though her teaching career spanned nearly two decades, Phyllis considered motherhood her primary calling. In 1971, she took a sabbatical from teaching to actively raise and participate in the lives of her daughters, Barri and Kerry. Devoted to creating and providing experiences for them, Phyllis could often be seen nearly every day of the week in her full-sized station wagon tirelessly ubering her daughters all over Powhatan, Richmond and beyond to support them in various lessons and activities. She was an active room mother and cheerleader for her daughters and for so many children beyond her own. In 1986, Phyllis returned to the classroom to teach keyboarding at Powhatan High School for quite a few more years, where many students experienced her compassion, kindness and love. She later retired in 1999.

In addition to her devotion to teaching and motherhood, Phyllis enjoyed gardening, where the mountain wildflowers of her youth inspired her to plant daffodils, irises, hydrangeas and petunias to color the yard each spring. Phyllis sought refuge in God, in the promise of Jesus Christ and actively participated in Bible study at various churches. Music enriched her life both as an organist for different churches as well as the various music performances she attended. Filled with the spirit of adventure, Phyllis traveled all over the United States and Europe with family and friends. In her travels, whether it was abroad or to the local pharmacy, Phyllis was a passionate and avid collector - she never went into a gift shop, state fair or arts and crafts show that she didn't find a "must have" for someone in her life. In 2014, Phyllis and Tom packed all the collectibles, antiques and memorabilia from their life and moved to Tampa, Florida so that they could enjoy and actively participate in the lives of their grandchildren, Isla, Luke and Effy. Whether it was to actively grow their toy collection or to be a part of their lives, Phyllis especially cherished spending time with her grandchildren and being a steadfast presence in their lives. While Phyllis was diagnosed in January 2020 with ALS/Lou Gehrig's disease and experienced various shifts in her life as a result, her spirit remained true and enduring as a loving wife, an enthusiastic and supportive mother, a doting grandmother and a devoted friend.

A Celebration of Life ceremony will take place in the future in Powhatan, Va.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Apr. 18 to Apr. 21, 2021.

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Dana Armstrong

April 12, 2022

I meant Phyllis and Tom at Plaza Pharmacy.What wonderful people full of life.Always kind always baking delicious coconut pies for our Relay For Life. I ran the picture area there. I was fortunate to know them and know what a great loss it is.Hugs and prayers for Tom and family.

Adrian Appling Cloxton

April 27, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Mrs. Lester. I have many fond memories of her from many stages of my childhood and teen years. I know I am but one of many she touched along the way, and I am glad to have known her. My condolences to the entire family. May you find peace at this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts.

Bonnie Atroud

April 22, 2021

I´m in shock to hear today about your passing! Tears are coming and I just can´t speak! Yeah I know right it doesn´t even sound like me right? I know you wished you were here for this moment right here! I do too! My Momma always told me oh your favorite teacher asked about you today! I´d ask a bunch of questions about you & my Momma would just say I didn´t get to talk to her long! You´re were the sweetest teacher & so understanding! I told you it was so hard to learn things with my ADHD & you said oh Bonnie you can do it! My mind was faster than my fingers which was more of a problem than anything and you said I just needed to keep practicing! Sweetie it´s not goodbye it´s cya l8r alligator after awhile crocodile!!! I you!!!

Chris Geyer

April 22, 2021

I heard about her passing on FB, so sorry for the loss - she was a great teacher who taught me the most useful skill I got in high school (typing). I'm still grateful for her, since it's something I do all day, every day, and I don't have to hunt-and-peck like most of my colleagues!

I still remember her jamming 'Tears for Fears' in class to get us to type in rhythm to music. RIP, Mrs. Lester.

Dana Armstrong

April 22, 2021

I feel the loss of very special. Phyllis was a ray of sunshine to all who knew her.Prayers for Tom and family.Rejiocing her home coming.

Pam Dolen

April 21, 2021

Tom, you and your family are in my thoughts , I think of you both daily as pass your old house on Maidens road!

Susan Nichols

April 21, 2021

We are so sorry to hear about Phyllis´s passing. She was such a lovely person. She taught me in high school and I always enjoyed talking with her when I would run into her while visiting Powhatan. May God bless you all during this time.

Joan Maples

April 20, 2021

Thinking of all who loved Phyllis and offering prayers for strength and comfort.

Joyce Bishop Hawk

April 20, 2021

Thinking of you with prayers and sweet memories.

Faye C Hodges

April 19, 2021

Sorry to hear about this. I went to school with her great lady

David

April 19, 2021

Doug,
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. You and Georgia are thought of often in our home. Love and Prayers, Sandy and David Owens.

Ann Marie Miles Parrish

April 18, 2021

Mrs. Lester was such a caring person. I was fortunate to have her as a teacher & later in life as a friend. I have spoke of her often over the years and will never forget her. My sincere condolences to the family.

Mary K Waldrop-Walker

April 18, 2021

Tom and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Phyllis. She was a wonderful woman and I cherish the years with her. God bless all of you during this time.

Betty Tate

April 18, 2021

I was so very sorry to hear of Phyllis' passing. Sending love and hugs to each family member. Will pray for peace and comfort for all.

Pat Dewey

April 18, 2021

Phyllis and I were at Longwood together. Very sweet and friendly. She was a dedicated educator. Condolences.

Dennis & Mary Hall

April 18, 2021

The loss of a loved one is never easy, regardless of the circumstances. But take solace in knowing that your loss is Heaven's gain and she is much better off. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Maria Cosby

April 18, 2021

Condolences to the Utt and Lester families. I remember Mrs. Lester as my typing teacher and she also taught my two daughters typing in middle school. God bless her a life well lived.

Jackie Hatcher

April 18, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of Phyllis' passing. Praying for strength and comfort for the family.

Mike Jackson

April 18, 2021

Tom and family
My deepest heart felt sympathies go out to you and extended family. Phyllis was a true blessing to all lives she touched including mine. i grew up knowing both the Lester and Utt families. Having both Phyllis and her mom as teachers in school.
May God's peace through our Lord Jesus dwell with you all during this time of sadness. Rom 8:28-39

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