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HARSHMAN Paul Edward Jr. Paul E. Harshman Jr., age 66, of Toledo, passed away unexpectedly at The Toledo Hospital with his loving family surrounding him. Paul is survived by his wife of 42 years, Nancy; children, Andy (Suzanne), Erin (Mark) Mitchell, Casey (Molly), and Charlie (Kelli); grandchildren, Jakob, Brandon, Nicholas, Zachary, Luke, Kayla, Maximus, Samuel, and Sophia; siblings Julia Bowers, Tim (Mary Lourdes) Harshman, Dan (Betty) Harshman, and Mary (Richard) Henning; brothers and sisters-in-law, Barbara (Jim) McGowan, Lynn Sexton (Alex Lelli), Bob (Joanne) Floyd and Jim (Wendy) Floyd; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents. Friends may visit with the family at the Walker Funeral Home, 5155 W. Sylvania Ave. (west of Corey Rd.) on Wednesday from 5 to 8 p.m. and Thursday from 2 to 8 p.m. with a "Sharing of Memories" on Thursday at 6:30 p.m. Funeral services will begin on Friday with prayers at the funeral home at 9:15 a.m. followed by a Funeral Mass at Christ the King at 10 a.m., 4100 Harvest. A full obituary will be published on Wednesday and Thursday.

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Published by The Blade on Apr. 14, 2009.

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Marie Vitou

April 26, 2009

I had Mr. Harshman for Senior Comp class at Sylvania High School. I was having problems at home and one day I burst out crying in class. Mr. Harshman dismissed the class. He offered his hankerchief and listened to me. He was so compassionate and understanding. I have often thought of that kind act over the years.

Very sorry for your loss.

John Coyle

April 21, 2009

Dear Nancy and family,

My deepest sympathies for your loss. I will cherish the memories of our time at St. Francis and later at St. Meinrad (what a pleasant surprise to see him show up that Fall!) I'm sorry I couldn't join you, but be assured of my prayers for you all--I know Paul doesn't need them. Love,

Vicki Ellis

April 21, 2009

To Paul's family,
Paul was the summer recreation leader at Elmhurst Park for several years in the early 60s. Elmhurst Park was a summer haven for neighborhood kids....myself being one. We would go several times a day for softball team practice, crafts, getting ready for the junior olympics, etc. He must have been a college student, and even then, was a person of kindness and gentleness while giving attention to all. And the attention of a kind and gentle college student when you are in 6th grade is a very important thing!
Vicki Ellis
Philadelphia, PA

Sheila Brown Towns

April 21, 2009

Dear Nancy and the Harshman family,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Paul's death...
For me it has triggered a wealth of emotions, a reflection on life's priorities, a reinforcement of God's will and our purpose in life, and a sense of nostalgia...

Paul and I go back to the first days of our births...almost 67 years ago...He was born on May 1st, 1942...I was born on May 5...at St. Vincent's Hospital...Pat Nally was born on May 7th...It could be that my mother, Gerry Brown Bettinger, friends with Helen Harshman and Kate NaIly were all in the same hospital at the same time...I received word of Paul's death from Pat, a high school boyfriend from St. Francis who was also a classmate of Paul's... and played football with him and my younger brother, Terry...

The Harshmans and our cousins, the Christs, were very close friends--and we all lived in the Old West End in Rosary Cathedral Parish..I especially remember my 1st communion...in fact I still have a photo of Paul and I together who were partners in the procession...he was a "1st crush!"...in those early childhood years we would all rent cottages in the summer together at Gem Beach in Port Clinton, Ohio..and spend one or two weeks together...penny arcade, swimming, dad's fishing, BBQ dinners, kids sleeping in the big lofts together...what wonderful childhood memories...!

In my 4th grade year we moved to St. Catherine's parish and that is when I met you, Nancy...You were one year younger, between my brother and I...When I heard that you and Paul were married/being married at the same time as Jeff & I-1967- I felt--"good choice"-for both of you!

It's been many years since I've seen you both--but I feel that in light of the above connections, I've lost a member of the "family"...
In reading the entries in your guest book, these feelings of "family" were so reinforced--in seeing messages from people all over the country and foreign countries...especially childhood friends like Mike McCarthy, Pat Mahoney, and Vince King...

My sincerest condolences--I do know to some extent what you are going thru...we lost our youngest son, Dan, almost 9 months ago..July 28, 2008...in a fall from a roof on a job as a painting contractor at age 31, leaving a wife and infant daughter of 16 months...

I am a person of great personal Faith, and am so grateful for the beliefs of my Catholic religion...it will carry you all...and in time the beautiful memories of all the time you had with this wonderful man in all your lives will give further reassurance that you WILL be re-united with him and God forever, eternally...With Love and deepest sympathies,
Sheila Brown Towns

Dave & Marilyn Wagner

April 20, 2009

Mrs. Harshman and family,

Marilyn and I are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Paul has had a lasting impression on me and his loyalty to his family has been an influence on our family. I was attending St. Francis when Andy was born and I was priviledge to coach Casey and Charlie at St. Francis. I treasure these years with them and the St. Francis family. The strength of this family will bring you comfort in the coming days.

With deepest sympathy,

Coach Wags,

Paul Hancock

April 20, 2009

I just learned of Paul's passing and, on behalf of the Hancock family, I extend our sympathies to the entire Harshman family. Our families go back a long way, as Paul's parents and my parents were acquaintances, if not friends, in their youth. Both of our families were closely involved with the growth and development of St. Francis, from the Golden Knights Ball, to Fun-a-rama, to parents organizations and athletics. Paul and my sister Sue were in the same class, but gender required that they attend separate schools. My brother John and Dan were classmates. And Tim and I were only a year apart. With no offense to the girls, my parents always talked about "what nice boys those Harshmans are." Many of my family members have also passed on, but I know they took with them found memories of the Harshmans and would want me to express my condolences to you. We have great memories of high school. I still have the Toledo Blade with the headline "Knights Come of Age -- And How" that commemorates the first victory over Central Catholic. While those years provide fond memories, I also appreciate that our families have shared grief as we have lost our loved ones. Even though I have not seen most of my Harshman friends for many years and, in fact, have never met many of you, the bond with the Harshmans from youth remains. We can feel the pains that we each experience as life moves on. Dan found my brother when he died in his yard, and went out of his way to help arrange a beautiful memorial service. We are forever grateful. I regret that I was not in Toledo to pay my respects personally to all of you in your similar time of grief, but I want you to know how truly sorry I am (as is my family)about you lose. Nothing can ease your pain, but I hope you find comfort in the fact that others appreciate it and share it with you, in large part because of our own familial experience. It was great to see so many familar names in this guest book.

Mike & Melanie Schilling

April 20, 2009

The Harshman Family -

Our sympathies go out to the Harshman family. We are sorry that this is late, we were out of town and just got word. I only met Mr. Harshman once for a brief moment when traveling to Toledo on business with Casey, but I do remember his kindness and how he made me feel at ease. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. The Schilling's

Denny McNamara

April 20, 2009

My sympathies to the Harshman family, I had the pleasure of getting to know Mr. Harshman through my good friendship with Andy and the sports we played together. Mr. Harshman was a wonderful, caring person who went out of his way to make you feel comfortable around him and his family. He was a great role model for anyone he came in contact with.

My thoughts and prayers are with the Harshman family as they deal with this loss.

April 19, 2009

Nancy & family... Yes indeed life is full of surprizes. How would I have known that when I saw you and Paul at the funeral home for Butch Komives wake two weeks ago that it would be the last time I would see Paul alive. Our deepest sympathy to you and may your deep faith in the resurrection be your strength in this time of grief and loss. Thanks be to God for the goodness of his life. Be prepared for we know not the day or the hour. I will offer three masses for the repose of his soul and enter him into our Book of Life. All good things to you. The Padre Dan Zak

Rick Zimmerman

April 18, 2009

My sympathies to the Harshman families. I had Paul as my football offensive line coach at St. Francis, and he was my history teacher as well, and a good one. I had great respect for Paul, and knew him then as a man of great passion and dedication, and man who taught excellence and not settling for less, Richard Mattingly's right hand man. Paul worked very hard to try to teach me to keep on my feet after beginning every block. He was a very good and inspiring coach, and I appreciated and respected his passion and philosophy of total dedication. Later, as the years passed, I ran into Paul from time to time and discovered that Paul was truly more than the dedicated and passionate coach I had first come to know, and I learned what the other side of Paul was, one that I had not known when I was in high school. We had a number of great chats over the years, and I was struck by his genuine, gentle, and caring side. Paul, I think of you often. You were a great role model, and God bless you and your family....I know we will all see you again in heaven and I will look forward to it. Great man.

Pam and Jerry Kyle

April 18, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy (Huss) Kennelly

April 18, 2009

Nancy
Although Bill and I have lived in Florida for 7 years, I still read the Blade. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.

John McGowan

April 18, 2009

Dear Nancy & family:

I just heard about Paul's passing from Dad, this morning. What a terrible shock! Sorry, but 66 years is way too short a time; Paul was cheated--as were all those who were close to him.

Paul was such a gentle soul; he was just a nice and always approachable guy, with never a nasty or threartening word to or about anyone. (Sometimes, a "firm" word to someone out of line, but never a nasty or threatening one.)

I will always remember his relaxed, easy smile, and will keep him, and all of you, in my prayers.

Vince King

April 18, 2009

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My fond memories of Paul extend back to St Francis. He will be missed.

Ed & Linda Ellis

April 17, 2009

Nancy,
May love surround you and support you and your family in the days to come. Paul was an incredible man, and will be remembered and deeply missed. Our prayers are with you.

April 16, 2009

To the Harshman Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Pete & Laura Schira
Manitou Beach Michigan

Jenny Beidleman Reese

April 16, 2009

Erin and Mrs. Harshman, I am so sorry for your loss and wish that I could be there. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you,

Rob Floyd

April 16, 2009

My heart and wishes go out to all that loved and will Paul. Take care and God Bless.

Matt & Deanna Cromly & family

April 16, 2009

Dear Harshman Family,
May God give you strength in the difficult time ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Pat O'Neill

April 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Katie Dunphy

April 16, 2009

Dear Harshmans, I did not know Paul very well. But, I was very shocked and sad to hear of his death. When we had parties and such with him he was an amazing and friendly man. He will be greatly missed and my heart goes out to you all.

April 16, 2009

Nancy, Charlotte and I am are sadded to hear about the passing of Paul. He was a kind and gentle man. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.

Jimmie and Charlotte Hooks

David and Theresa Kujawa

April 16, 2009

Dear Harshman Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you at this sad time. We will cherish our memories of Paul that we have made since our families have been joined together by Charlie and Kelli's marriage. Paul was a great role model as husband and father. We will miss him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We love you,

Dave, Theresa, Chris, Julianne, and Natalie

April 16, 2009

Dearest Nancy, Erin, and Sons,
My ongoing prayers and thoughts are with you all. Paul was a wonderful man and obviously God needed him in Heaven at this time. God does what God does for his reasons and as faithful servants we honor that and continue to pray to him for some guidance and blessings during this grief process. May God bless all of your family during this grieving time....
Chuck and Jill Wooten and Family-Elmore, Ohio

James H. Willis Jr.

April 16, 2009

Charlie, and the entire Harshman family- My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.Please know that you do not grieve alone. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.

John Post

April 16, 2009

Charlie

My condolences to you and your family.
Your dad appeared to have had a positive impact on many lives.
He will be missed.

Perry Butler

April 16, 2009

Dear Nancy and Tim,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on your loss. Though too many years have passed since I had the honor and pleasure of Paul's company, time has not erased the many happy memories I have of a sweetheart of a guy. My thought and prayers are with you.

Perry Butler

Andrea Staebell

April 16, 2009

Dear Nancy and family,

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

~The Staebells

Courtney Van Koguhnet

April 16, 2009

Casey, you and your family are in our thoughts. Our hearts go out to you and your family. We love you!
Sincerely,
Courtney, Matt, Colin & Victoria
Van Koughnet

April 16, 2009

I had Paul as a teacher in Jones Jr. High in the 70's..it's funny how you never forget some teacher's names. You and your entire family will be in my prayers during this great loss.
Love and Prayers,
Tina Cochran (Lewis)
Swanton, Ohio

Nicole Daly

April 16, 2009

Charlie and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my heart is with you all. May the memories help to ease your pain and provide moments of peace during this difficult time.

April 16, 2009

Casey:

We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.


Kim & Scott Fenneken

Maria McCullen

April 16, 2009

Dearest Harshman family,

I spent Easter Sunday thinking of all of you and of the great Easter day I spent with your family 3 years ago. I have precious memories of that day and how you all made me feel as part of the family. That day I was able to see the great love that Paul had for each and every one of you. It is rare to see such love. I pray that this love all around you and all the beautiful memories will help to ease the pain you feel right now.

Casey,
It breaks my heart to know how much pain you must be feeling right now. Remember all the wonderful things he said to you and taught you and it will help ease the pain.
I love you.
Maria

JoAnn Koepplinger

April 16, 2009

Dear Casey and family.
We were so sorry to hear about your Dad. He meant a lot to Marc, as do all the Harshmans. He was a very special person to have known. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Koepplingers

April 16, 2009

Dear Nancy and family,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Paul. Such a sweet and kind man beautiful inside and out. Our hearts are so heavy for your loss,but we know he is now resting in the arms of the Lord!

Gary and Terrilee Barricklow Sylvania Ohio

April 15, 2009

4-15-09

Dear Nancy & family,

My deepest sympathy over Paul's death. I knew Paul from St. Francis and St. Meinrad, and always enjoyed the occasional times our paths crossed since those days. May the Joy of this Easter Season and Jesus' Promise of Resurrection help ease your grief and pain, and bring you all comfort and strength.
Prayers & Love,
Fr. Marty Nassr, S.F.d.S, Class of '59

Bob Ballard

April 15, 2009

Andy,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your father. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kathie McCarthy Link

April 15, 2009

Tim, Nancy and Family, I have such fond memories of Paul as my Brother, Mike McCarthy's "best Bud" during their growing up years. Each morning Paul and Tim would come by the house and meet up with Mike and the three-some would walk down to Bancroft to hitch-hike to St. Francis. I always thought Paul was a great guy............even though he helped my Brother Mike tease the "little sister"........alot. I had run into Paul a number of times through the years and it was always a joy to see him again. My love and condolences go out to all of his love ones.

Amy Kasprzak

April 15, 2009

Our heart goes out to the entire Harshman family on your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

God Bless,
Bob and Amy (Stover) Kasprzak

Patrick Mahoney

April 15, 2009

Dear Nancy, Tim and all of the Harshman Family,

On behalf of the Mahoney family, please accept our condolences on the loss of Paul. Reading the kind words of others regarding Paul comes as no surprise. As a classmate of Paul's at Rosary Cathedral and St.Francis, my first memories of Paul were his leadership abilities, concern for others and how he commanded and earned loyalty and affection from those with whom he associated.....looking back, no small feat for someone that young. I ran into Paul last year (after many years) and
nothing had changed. The memories of Paul, Nancy(Rainbow), Tim (the Black Ford) and the St. Francis days are priceless. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time

Pat Mahoney

Mike McCarthy

April 15, 2009

To Wife Nancy, Brother Tim, and all the Harshmans I grew up with when they lived on Scottwood, I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was my best friend at St. Francis - we hitch-hiked from the Old West End every morning. He was the Rock of Gibralter even then. I was looking forward to seeing him at our 50th Reunion. At least I had the good fortune to write to Paul earlier this year.

Sorry I will miss seeing all of you on Friday but you, Paul, and your awesome family are all in our thoughts and prayers from Atlanta.

April 15, 2009

Casey, Molly and Harshman Family
Our hearts hurt for you all. Please know
that you are in our prayers.
Mike&Patty McCullen

Deb Schmenk

April 15, 2009

Charlie and Kelli,
What a shock to hear of your loss. My heart aches and my hope is that the love of your family and friends help you through this difficult time.

Quinn Schroder- Cunningham

April 15, 2009

To the Harshman family. I was a student at Jones Jr High when Mr Harshman taught there, all thou he was not my teacher he was a very nice man I had his brother Tim Harshman as my teacher. My thoughts and prayers are with you all

Guldal Caba

April 15, 2009

Dear Family,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all.

Much Love

Holly Hepner

April 15, 2009

Casey and Family

I am very sorry for the sudden loss of your father. My prayers go to out to you and I will be sending you positive thoughts your way...

Kevin Whelan

April 15, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Harshman family. I was a classmate of Paul's at Rosary Cathedral Grade School and St. Francis de Sales High. Then our paths went different directions. Paul was a good man. It was good to know him. I am sorry for your loss.

Jane Jilek

April 15, 2009

Nancy and Family,
This is a sad time for you Nancy loosing Paul so quickly. I saw the love from the day you met, and the love he had for the children.
Words are not enough for your heart and sadness, you and the family are going through at the moment.
God will carry you during this time of sorrow. Nancy I know you have great faith, let him carry you now and in the future. I loved Paul from the time you met him. My prayers, love and hugs go to you and your children and family.
Love, Janie Kerr Jilek

April 15, 2009

Dear Nancy,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for you and your entire family.You have lost so much with Paul's death but know your entire family feels privileged to have known and loved him for so long. With kindest thoughts,wonderful and treasured memories of years gone by and prayers.
Sally Hayward Marlowe Brooksville,Fl.

Katrina Quicker

April 15, 2009

Casey (and family):

Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about the loss of your Dad. I will always remember his kindness, generosity, graciousness, and welcoming spirit. My heart goes out to all of you in your time of sorrow. Please let me know if you need anything.

JORGE O'HENRY

April 15, 2009

NANCY, TIM, ANDY & FAMILY,

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS! PAUL WAS A GOOD GUY. I ENJOYED WORKING WITH HIM ON OCCASION. HE WILL BE GREATLY MISS. I TRULY UNDERSTAND YOUR MOMENT OF NEED. WE LOSS MY BROTHER 3 YEARS AGO ON THE SAME DATE OF PAUL'S MEETING WITH LORD.

GOD BLESS HIM!
SINCERE CONDOLENCES,
JORGE & LISA O'HENRY

April 15, 2009

Nancy,

We were shocked to hear of Paul's passing. We will miss seeing him at the market on Saturdays. Paul was an influence for me at St. Francis, back in the day, and one of those people "you never forget". It was a pleasure to know him.

Ralph & Gini Behrendt

Dan Simrell

April 15, 2009

Nancy & Family
Dodo and I are so very shocked and saddened with your loss of Paul. I have so many great memories: playing together in the Glass Bowl, teaching and coaching at St. Francis. Did we really think that the most important thing was winning a football game? Oh, so very young. Although we haven't talked or seen each other for years, there was a friendship. So very thankful for that friendship. Teammates for life.
Dan Simrell

Carin Head (Cooper)

April 15, 2009

Casey,

I was so sad to hear about the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Konnie Dunphy

April 15, 2009

To my sister, Kelli, you married into an unbelievably amazing family. I know how you felt about Paul and how very much you loved him. I pray the closeness and love you share with each other is what gets you through this sad and dificult time. Love you! Konnie

Konnie Dunphy

April 15, 2009

Nancy, and family, we were shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's sudden passing. He was an awesome man. Although our paths did not cross often, when they did, he always greeted with us his warm smile and the hug of a dear friend. He will be so greatly missed. May the support and prayers of family and friends get you through this difficult time. Love and prayers, Bill and Konnie

Heidi Harshman

April 15, 2009

Aunt Nancy,Andy,Erin,Casey and Charlie my heart goes out to you.You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Uncle Bo was an incredible human being and he will be deeply missed.

Doug Schoen and family

April 15, 2009

Charlie, Kelli, and the rest of the Harshman Family - I'm sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Amy Disbrow

April 15, 2009

Nancy, Erin, Andy and family, I can't express my sympathies enough, Paul was a warm and friendly person, we at JMS were lucky to know him. In sadness remember his life and what great things he did.

Daniel Hardern

April 15, 2009

Charlie and family,
My deepest condolescences and warmest wishes during this time. You're all in my thoughts.

April 15, 2009

Nancy & Family,

Connie & I are shocked and saddened at our loss of Paul. Our prayers and thoughts are close to you.

Gary & Connie McClintick

Jodi Przeslawski Burns

April 15, 2009

Nancy, Erin, Andy, Casey, and Charlie, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I will hold the many childhood memories with your dad close to my heart.

John Reifsnider

April 15, 2009

Who could forget all the great memories with Paul from shucking peas to blinding himself with the camera flash. He was a guy who loved life and was never too much of a man to offer a kind word or a hug. He will be missed not only by his family but those of us who were lucky enough to know him growing up.

Mitch Pickens

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy and family,
Words can'texpress how deeply saddened I am in learning of Paul's passing. He taught me so much in the short time I worked with and for him. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you.

Mitch Pickens

Janet McQuillin

April 14, 2009

The entire Harshman family,

Paul and all of the Harshman family members give true meaning to the word family! If all families could be like yours the world would be a brighter place. Our hearts are filled with sadness learning of Paul's death, also of heartfelt prayers and love. To know your family is a blessing. Paul will be deeply missed.

Love, Jim, Janet, & Ava McQuillin

April 14, 2009

Charlie, Kelli, and Harshman Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jen and Mark Skeldon

Jakob Harshman

April 14, 2009

He really meant a lot to me and I really meant a lot to him too. I really miss him.

April 14, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Bo's passing. I used to babysit for Bo and Nancy's kids when they still lived in the Old West End. All the Harshman family are in our thoughts and prayers
Carolyn Schira-Harris and Walt Harris.
Olive Branch, Mississippi

Jen Thomas

April 14, 2009

Casey and Family,

Leigh and I are very sorry for the sudden loss of your father and beloved family member. Though we never had the opportunity to meet him it sounds as if it would have been a privelege and that he was a loving, wonderful person. You are in our thoughts and we send caring energy your way.

Jen Thomas and Leigh Lynch

Jane Shepard

April 14, 2009

I had Mr. Harshman as an Algebra teacher in summer school at Libbey High School. He was very patient with those of us who struggled, and I appreciated his kind attitude.

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy, Erin, Casey and Charlie,
Paul was always one of my favorite men. I learned a lot about commitment from Coach Harshman, enjoyed working with him and always considered him an influentilal role model and a friend. He lived and shared his passions. A great man.
Bill Schoen

Stephen Kanagaratnam

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Connie (Rosa), Jef, Caroline & Nicholas Jakalski

April 14, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

April 14, 2009

Dear Casey and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peace and love,
Brian and Catherine Kelley

Deborah Ayres-Budd

April 14, 2009

My sadness is great for you and my prayers strong. It is so difficult for us to lose someone who we love so much, especially unexpectedly. Lean on each other.

Billy & Jennifer Fristo

April 14, 2009

Thoughts and Prayers are with all of you!

Matthew McClintick

April 14, 2009

Our thoughts are with you. So sorry for your loss.

The McClintick family.

Vince 'Hoya' Wuwert

April 14, 2009

Dear Harshman Family:
Saddened to read of "Beau's" sudden passing. I remember watching him play at St.Francis and U of Toledo.And Playing 'alley basktball' at Buehrer's against him. He was a class guy. Deep religious convictions.Solid character. Family man. Every thing that is decent about life could be found in Paul. The quality of my life has been enhanced having met Paul so many years ago.
Deepest Sympathy to the family.

Andrew & Elizabeth Poll

April 14, 2009

Casey & Charlie, we are very sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Holly Stover

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy, Andy, Erin, Casey & Charlie,

We are so shocked to hear of Bo's death.
He was so special to all of us. Please know I will keep you and your family in our prayers at such a difficult time.

All our Love,
Holly & Tom Stover

Todd Murray

April 14, 2009

Casey & Charlie,

So sorry to hear about your father. Our thoughts are with you and the entire family.

John Wirth

April 14, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jan Floyd

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy, Erin, Andy, Casey and Charlie,
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. He was a wonderful man and we are all better people for having known him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
love,
Jan

Kelli Harshman

April 14, 2009

Not one day will go by without me thinking of Paul. I loved him and will miss him greatly. He was an amazingly powerful man and yet so gentle in his ways. I see so many parts of him in his kids and grandkids. I love you Paul.

Katie Partin

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy and Erin,

You and your family are in my thoughts, I'm so sorry for your lose.

Hugs to all of you.

April 14, 2009

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know our family will be praying for yours in this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Mike and Liz (Roemmele) Skaff

April 14, 2009

Erin,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
love you,
Kent & Ray

Skip & Mary Pat Reifsnider

April 14, 2009

Dear Nancy, Andy, Erin, Casey and Charlie, We were so shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of your precious Paul. God and your faith will sustain you in the days ahead. Know that the Harshman family will be in our daily prayers always. Love, hugs, and prayers.

Keri Porter

April 14, 2009

Dear Erin,
I love you so much and am praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

Your dear friend,

Keri Porter

April 14, 2009

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Harshman family during this very sad time. Paul set the bar for what it takes to be a loving husband and wonderful father, a true family man in every sense of the word. Love you all, Jeff and Rachel Stein.

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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

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Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

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Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

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Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

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Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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