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P.J. O'Rourke Obituary


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By Mark Zaborney
Blade staff writer

P.J. O'Rourke, a product of West Toledo and DeVilbiss High School turned nationally known satirist who aimed his barbed wit at liberal pretension and government overreach, but also fellow conservatives, his Baby Boom generation, and his hometown, died Tuesday in his Sharon, N.H., home. He was 74.

The cause was complications of lung cancer, said Deb Seager, the director of publicity at Grove Atlantic, Mr. O'Rourke's publisher.

Mr. O'Rourke had been at work for more than two decades on a book with the working title, A History of Toledo, Ohio: From the Beginning of Time Til the End of the Universe.

"I didn't want to write a history about someplace famous or allegedly important," Mr. O'Rourke told The Blade in 1999.

"I want to write a history of ordinary existence, and having come from Toledo, I thought, what could possibly be more ordinary," he said then. "Practically everything that's happened in American history has happened in Toledo too. Usually in a minor key. Often in a comic way. But it's happened."

Morgan Entrekin, publisher and president of Grove Atlantic, said in an email: "He was proud of being from Toledo. He kept putting the Toledo book aside as events intervened and he did other books but we were going back to it this year with hopes of finishing."

Toledo proved early inspiration. When a National Lampoon writer in the 1970s - of which he eventually later became editor-in-chief - he edited a mock yearbook of a high school that resembled DeVilbiss and a parody Sunday edition of the newspaper in "Dacron, Ohio."

He wrote for Rolling Stone, holding the title of "foreign affairs desk chief," reporting from abroad, occasionally from war zones, including in the early 1990s from the former Yugoslavia. His book, Holidays in Hell, included many of his dispatches for the magazine.

Editors who worked with him at Rolling Stone said his copy came in so clean, it almost went straight to type. Fact checkers at the magazine fought over getting to work on his stories because his research materials were organized so thoroughly - everything annotated and color-coded.

His bestselling books included Parliament of Whores and Give War A Chance, and he wrote for the Atlantic Monthly. He offered his particular conservative perspective to the 60 Minutes segment, "Point/Counterpoint." NPR listeners got to know his ripostes as a panelist on the news quiz, "Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!"

"Most well-known people try to be nicer than they are in public than they are in private life. PJ was the only man I knew to be the opposite. He was a deeply kind and generous man who pretended to be a curmudgeon for public consumption," tweeted Peter Sagal, the program's host. "He told the best stories. He had the most remarkable friends. And he devoted himself to them and his family in a way that would have totally ruined his shtick had anyone ever found out."

He saved his greatest disdain for the government, regardless of party or administration.

In a 2018 column for a venerable conservative publication, the Weekly Standard, he wrote of Washington's gentrification: "People are flocking to the seat of government power. One would say 'dogs returning to their vomit' except that's too hard on dogs. Too hard on people, also. They come to Washington because they have no choice - diligent working breeds compelled to eat their regurgitated tax dollars."

Toledo Mayor Wade Kapszukiewicz said that Mr. O'Rourke "will be remembered as one of the important voices, particularly of the Baby Boom generation.

"That transition from antiwar leftist to common sense conservative actually is a path many Baby Boomers took," Mr. Kapszukiewicz said. "He helped popularize a style of writing about national affairs that wasn't dry and boring."

He added that Mr. O'Rourke was among those "to help turn Toledo into a national punchline. When I think of him, to be honest, I think of how he helped change national thinking of Toledo, not necessarily in a positive way, and he used humor and wit.

"If you read between the lines, you could tell there was love for his hometown," the mayor said.

Mr. O'Rourke's contribution to a 2007 collection of essays by Ohio-born writers was titled, "Why It's good to Come from Nowhere," and opened - after a stanza of "We're Strong For Toledo":

"Toledo doesn't look like much. And looks do not deceive," Mr. O'Rourke wrote. Later in the essay, he wrote, "I may be making Toledo sound dull, and it is. That's a godsend. Toledoans don't have to look long at the exciting events of history to realize how little those excitements contributed to human felicity."

He titled a longer essay published online in 2019 by American Consequences, "Toledo, Ohio - A Lesson in Successful Failure."

While doing research for his Toledo book, Mr. O'Rourke visited regularly, speaking at the Toledo Lucas County Public Library's Authors! Authors! series and at the University of Toledo law school, and appearing at local benefits.

Patrick Jake O'Rourke was born Nov. 14, 1947, to Delpine and Clifford O'Rourke. His twin sisters Delphine and Kathleen followed. As he wrote in 2007, he grew up in the Jermain Park neighborhood and attended McKinley School before DeVilbiss. His father worked for the family Buick dealership in East Toledo, and his mother was the school secretary at Whittier School.

He was a 1965 graduate of DeVilbiss. He received his undergraduate degree in 1969 from Miami University and received a master's degree in English in 1970 from Johns Hopkins University.

As he grew up, the late Blade columnist Seymour Rothman was a neighbor. After Mr. Rothman's death in 2013, Mr. O'Rourke wrote to The Blade Readers' Forum, "He was a great guy, and the fun I saw him having as a reporter probably saved me from a life as a bad poet or a worse novelist."

He was formerly married to Amy Lumet.

Survivors include his wife, the former Tina Mallon, whom he married in 1995; son, Clifford, and daughters Olivia and Elizabeth.

Arrangements were not announced.

Information from The Blade's news services was used in this report.
Published by The Blade on Feb. 16, 2022.

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Sheldon Schorr

March 10, 2022

Rest in peace.

March 4, 2022

Condolences to P.J's family and friends. May you all me granted comfort from your loving Creator who understands your loss at this time.

Cynhia Miller (Mechel)

February 22, 2022

Many many years ago, my childhood neighbor, Mrs Downer, let PJ and I spend the weekend at the their cottage. PJ was more interested in reading his comic book than playing at the lake. He was preparing for his great future.
I am proud to say I knew him.
Condolences to his sisters.
Ms Miller
Former Toledoan, former McKinley and DeVilbiss school student.

Stephanie Schell

February 21, 2022

Your writing will be remembered.

Stephanie Schell

February 21, 2022

Was a never afraid to state his opinion in his writing.

Jay Caauwe

February 19, 2022

Condolences to the entire O’Rourke family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. PJ will be forever remembered by the number of kindness’s he gave me and many others. He was a giant of a man to me.

February 19, 2022

My deepest condolences to the family. May you find comfort
in your treasured memories of Your loved one and May God continue to comfort you in the days, months and years ahead.

PJ Levine

February 19, 2022

When I was a young lad growing up in the frigid north of Toronto (Canada, eh?) I first discovered PJ as my favorite writer of the legendary National Lampoon (which I, as a teen male-their target demographic-adored) Years later, after I graduated from journalism school (oxymoron?) whenever I wrote a freelance article I used "PJ" instead of my names (whose initials are P & J)as an homage. The loss of his immense talent and unique satirical brilliance comes at a time we need him--and them--most. Deepest condolences to the O'Rourke family and thank you for sharing him with the rest of us. May his memory, and brilliant writing, live on...

William

February 19, 2022

We all enjoy some well written satire. You will be missed by your fans. Condolences to the family. Soon no one will say I am sick. Isa. 33:24

February 18, 2022

My deepest condolences to the O'Rourke family. I had the honor of seeing P.J. speak at the CATO Institute promoting one of his new books. P.J. was kind enough to autograph copies of his book after his speech. After he autographed my copy, I handed him a photo I'd taken of a baby-blue 1957 Chevy off a street in Alexandria, VA knowing how much he liked old cars. He acted so surprised and showed gratitude, "For me?" he exclaimed. "Oh, thank you!" I was impressed how down-to-earth this iconic celebrity was and will always remember the kindness he showed me. A one-of-a kind humorist my generation produced that will never be replaced.

Steele

February 18, 2022

The family has my deepest sympathy for your loss. Please accept my condolences. May our Heavenly Father continue to be with the family.

Sylvia Wendel

February 18, 2022

Am I the only person in the world who remembers that among his myriad accomplishments, P. J. O’Rourke was a listed scriptwriter on the classic comedy, “Easy Money”? A run-up to the far better-known “Caddyshack”, “Easy Money” featured Rodney “I don’t get no respect” Dangerfield as a baby photographer in the borough that gets no respect: Staten Island, New York, my hometown. Also featuring the inimitable Joe Pesci as an exterminator who lives with his mother and keeps his illicit smokes in a “Roach Motel,” the movie was hilarious from the opening credits to the final fade. A pre-Sopranos Edie Falco played Rodney’s wife, and she was perfect down to the last extended vowel and bitten-off consonant. As the lights came back up in the theatre, I could not contain myself, and yelled, “Clap if you’re from Staten Island!”
This was in Los Angeles. Crickets
O’Rourke was brilliant on so many levels, but he touched my pizza-loving heart with that movie.

Maurice Glaude

February 17, 2022

Pj had a great time at cigar night at Alex and Mollys. You were a great guy and good friend Rest In Peace my friend.

February 16, 2022

We send our deepest condolences to the family and friends of PJ O'Rourke in this very sad and difficult time. He was obviously a lovely, and, much loved, man. He is also one of the funniest people to write about the planet and people. God Bless him.

February 16, 2022

P.J. had a wonderfully unique gift of making light out of political and sociological absurdities. He was clever, witty, irreverent, one-of-a-kind, and downright hilarious! He will be missed!

richard hoffman

February 16, 2022

my brother was robert hoffman, one of the co-founders of the national lampoon. in 1974, i landed in nyc on my way home to dallas after completing 2 months of medical school electives in england. my brother asked p.j. for a favor: could he let me stay as a guest for a couple of nights. i stayed in p.j.'s apartment for 2 nights. i have never forgotten how kind, thoughtful, and gracious a host p.j. was. he made me feel comfortable and welcome. thank you again, p.j. god bless, rest in peace.

Jeff Crowther

February 16, 2022

While Kathy, Del, Betty and I looked on you raced through the house with burning passion for some cause. From SDS to the RNC you gave them a clear and satirical mirror to look into. You gave it your all. R.I.P.

Thomas McIntye

February 16, 2022

P. J. and I only corresponded some years back, but we got to talk about things that really mattered, such as shotguns. He gave a book I wrote about a snow-leopard and great blurb. Missing him already.

February 16, 2022

A talented writer, so many enjoyed his work. Heartfelt condolences to the O’Rourke family and friends, so very sorry for your loss. May God comfort and strengthen you all in your time of need.

February 16, 2022

Thoughts and prayers to the O’Rourke family and friends, may God help you through this very difficult time.

February 16, 2022

Our deepest condolences to the family. We pray that God continues to strengthen and comfort the family during this difficult time.

Jon Dwayne Rolfson

February 16, 2022

Though you skipped the Youth in Asia thing, you did more than your share of middle-age in Asia and other interesting elsewheres. You have left us far too soon, and you will be missed.

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