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ABLESON - Captain Bradford Edward, Chaplain Corps, US Navy. The Rev. Dr. Bradford E. Ableson, an Episcopal priest and former Command Chaplain of the U. S. Strategic Command, died February 17th following a courageous battle with cancer. Father Ableson was born in January, 1959 in Tulsa and graduated from Mason High School in 1977. He received a B.A. from the University of Science & Arts of Oklahoma in 1980, a master's degree in pastoral counseling from Boston University in 1982, the master of divinity from Yale Divinity School in 1985 and a doctor of ministry from Columbia Theological Seminary in 1999. At Yale he received the Mersick Prize for public speaking and at Columbia he was awarded the Sanders Prize for theological scholarship as well as the first-ever Telford Award for social justice. In 2007 Yale instituted the Bradford E. Ableson Prize for Ecclesiastical Leadership to recognize the Divinity School graduate possessing the qualities of judgment and character for the future exercise of ecclesiastical leadership. In 2008 Brad was named a distinguished alumnus of Yale, receiving the prestigious Lux et Veritas award; he was also inducted into the University of Science & Arts Alumni Hall of Fame. In 1984 Brad was commissioned in the Navy's theological student program and served as a Naval reservist as a divinity student. Following ordination in 1985 and two years of pastoral ministry in Tulsa, Okla., he was recalled to active duty in 1987. Chaplain Ableson served a distinguished 25-year naval career with extensive time in the fleet including ministry in surface ships, submarines, and aviation units. He provided combat ministry with Marines during the first Gulf War and subsequently served as a Group Chaplain in the Third Marine Aircraft Wing. In 1996 he assumed Presidential Service duties as the chaplain at Camp David, Maryland during the Clinton administration. Later, after serving as an executive to the Chief of Navy Chaplains, he attended the Naval War College in Newport, Rhode Island where he graduated with distinction. In 2002 he reported to aircraft carrier USS George Washington, on which he served as senior chaplain on two combat cruises during the Global War on Terror. In 2004 he was promoted to the rank of Navy captain and assumed responsibilities as Command Chaplain of the U.S. Strategic Command where he served as special advisor on matters of religion at the strategic level. While at the Strategic Command, Father Ableson was named Priest-in-Residence at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral-a position he held until his death. In 1986 Brad married Julia Ableson, his wife throughout every day of his active duty naval service and in 22 years of marriage. At the time of their wedding he was a widower, having been married to the former Gina Marie Benzel who died in January of 1983. Brad was predeceased by his grandmother, Augusta Langford Davis; father, W.A. "Buddy" Ableson; and namesake uncle, Paul Edward Davis. He is survived by his wife, Julia; his mother, Juanise Ableson Stockdale; sisters: Ann Harper, Janie Ableson and Pam Johnson; nieces, Kasey Johnson Woods and Lee Harper Jones; nephews, Jonathan Edward Harper and Joseph Ableson Johnson; great-niece, Harper Anna Jones. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Julia Tevis Hillis and Robert Foster Hillis; and Polly Lee Hillis and William B.N. Lee. The family will receive friends Friday, 6:00-8:00 p.m. at the West Center Chapel. Memorial Service Saturday, 12:00 noon, Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, 113 N. 18 St., Omaha. Graveside Service Tuesday, February 24th, 9:00 a.m. at Memorial Park Cemetery in Tulsa, OK. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions to The Bradford E. Ableson Scholarship Fund, c/o Yale Divinity School Development Office, 409 Prospect Street, New Haven, CT 06511. Arrangements by Heafey-Heafey-Hoffman-Dworak-Cutler, West Center Chapel, 7805 West Center Road, Omaha, NE 68124, 402-391-3900

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Published by Tulsa World from Feb. 19 to Feb. 20, 2009.

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Dusty Riley

March 12, 2009

Mrs. Ableson, I just learned of "Chaps" passing. He spent countless hours answering my questions regarding theology, the church, the scriptures etc.. during the 2002 deployment of the USS George Washington. I am a better man and christian for having known "Chaps". I will miss him terribly. God Bless You.

Dusty Riley

Betty Donohue

March 1, 2009

I was deeply saddened to learn of Brad's passing. You have my heartfelt sympathy.
Sincerely,
Betty Booth Donohue

Merlyn & Joann Alexander

February 23, 2009

We remember Brad well. We were aware of his battle with cancer. He has fulfilled a great ministry thrrough his life and dedication to the Kingdom of God. His memory will be a blessing to you and many others throughout the coming days, weeks, months and years. May God be glorified in his memory as He was glorified in and by Brad's life!

Doug Shepherd

February 22, 2009

To the Abelson Family - My deepest sympathy for your loss! As a high school classmate, teammate and friend, I cherish the thoughts and memories of Brad from our youth. He was a great individual then and obviously carried those same qualities forward in his life. I'm extremely honored and humbled to call Brad my friend and appreciate his loyal service to the Lord and our country. We will truly miss him!!

Bill Fead

February 21, 2009

THANKS FOR YOUR Military Service.
Past Commander V.F.W.

Todd Stephenson

February 20, 2009

Dear Julia,

Although we barely knew you and Brad, you always greeted Cindy and me with open arms. Knowing you and Brad has enriched our lives and our memories of you, and Brad’s courageous struggle, will always be with us. To Brad; Fair winds and following seas and long may your big jib draw. And to you, Julia, Godspeed as your new journey will be difficult. You will be forever welcome in our home as well as our hearts.

Sincerely,
Todd Stephenson

Terry Buchanan

February 19, 2009

Julia,

My heart breaks and yet I somehow know that Brad is celebrating...what a gift to this world and I feel honored to have had him in my life...and you...you have always brought such a joy to my life, too...please know that I am thinking of you and hoping that I see you one of these days soon...guess that Brad and Chip are now able to really discuss the issues of the day!!! How blessed are we to have had them...but above all, take care of yourself, dear one...

Diane Dodrill

February 19, 2009

Juanise and family,
Our prayers have been answered. Brad has been healed. Our God is such an awsome God and He answers all of our prayers. With that, I will continue to pray for you and your family, that God will comfort you during this time of transition. I know that Brad will truly be missed by many.

Kathy Evans

February 19, 2009

Dear Julia,

My heart aches for you dear friend. When I learned of your beloved Brad's passing, I was consumed with emotions -- grief, sadness, sorrow, anger. But, after reading his obituary and the condolences offered by his many friends and family members, I find myself in absolute awe. Absolute awe of his impressive background, absolute awe of his career highlights, absolute awe of his tremendous accomplishments but . . . most of all, absolute awe of the man himself -- the man who epitomized dignity, grace, strength, and courage in the face of such terrible adversity. He is a role model for all of us, he set his standards high and gave us all something to aspire to. And you, my dear Julia, his devoted and unwaivering life's partner, I am in absolute awe of you too. Unknowingly, you have taught me so many important lifelong lessons, for which I will be eternally grateful. Steve and I are holding you especially close in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers as you begin this difficult journey.

Love,
Kathy and Steve Evans

Gary Colvin

February 19, 2009

I so sorry to hear about Brad. He definately was a key personality in the Ableson household. My memories emcompass all ages from his time at McClure through Mason and college and these memories bring a smile to my face. He will be missed. You all are in my prayers. Just know that the Ableson family will always have a special place in my heart. I love you all.

Rev Tom Sanders

February 19, 2009

Sorry to hear of your loss. I would have liked to have known Brad. I have heard many great things about him from the members of Faith Cumberland Presbyterian Church in Tulsa.

Mark Carlson

February 19, 2009

Brad was a very unique individual- he was determined, tough and had the ability to make you see a different perspective while making you laugh. I am going to miss him!

Darryl Crews

February 19, 2009

While in high school Janie and I were good friends and I spent many hours at the Ableson home and therefore lots of time with little brother Brad. I have such great memories of those times. In the midst of the sadness of hearing of his passing, I am delighted to see all that he accomplished during his life. I pray that your faith and fond memories will sustain you through this time of grief. You have my prayers.

Brad Stringer

February 19, 2009

As a teammate, friend and classmate Brad exhibited himself as a leader and driver of others. His spirit was always strong and his desire to have each of us achieve was undeniable. Brad was one of the most popular and respected student athletes in our High School, our class of 1977 was special in so many ways and Brad was at the forefront of this. This all before he became the man that is listed in this column. The foundation was set right in front of my eyes without me realizing and knowing that he would truly become such a distinguished and Noble man. God rest his soul, God Bless his family and fellow Military personnel. I thank God that I knew Brad Abelson.

Ron Craddock, CHC, USN (Ret)

February 19, 2009

Julia,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and the entire family during this most difficult time. Brad and I were classmates in the Chaplain Corps Baisc Course back in the mid 80's. His enthusiastic personality will be missed. May God's perfect peace annoint you and the family during this most difficult time.

Howard/Sue Johnson

February 19, 2009

We knew you so briefly but we came to feel that you and Julia were part of our extended family. We feel great joy for you as you assend to our Heavenly home. Peace be with you and Julia

Bernie Lupton

February 18, 2009

Dear heavenly Father, please pray for Fr. Ableson who has left us to soon. Let us pray for his wife Julia,nieces,nephews and grandchildern.Thank you for serving our country as a Navy Chaplin. May Fr.Ableson be with you in heaven where there is no pain, but peace everylasting. It was a pleasure serving as a Chalice Bearer under you. Amen.

Mary Smith

February 18, 2009

"I know that my Redeemer liveth,
and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth;
and though this body be destroyed, yet shall I see God;
whom I shall see for myself and mine eyes shall behold,
and not as a stranger."
Fr. Ableson, our conversations fill my mind today as a reminder that the example of your life is always with those fortunate enough to have known you.

George Swanson

February 18, 2009

It was a honor knowing you during
your time here at Offutt AFB,and
seeing that you served with the
USMC ,the Marines have a special
spot for all the Navy folks that serve
with them

Bill Fead

February 18, 2009

Thanks for your Military Service.
Past Commander V.F.W.

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